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Yes! I agree! newyorkersedai Send a noteboard - 09/07/2011 02:30:21 PM
... is that RJ is as "sexist" with men as he is with women. What you said about women being irrational and men just rolling their eyes and going along is actually how women in the series view men, and less how men handle women.

I'm not stating gender relations in WoT are normal or well-adjusted. Far from it. But nor do I think they're a symptom of RJ being sexist. Instead, I think its a partially successful attempt at describing an unequal society akin to the middle ages, but with the women as the dominating gender.


The stereotyping occurs on both sides - which makes it equal, in my book - and people are often mocked or put down as appropriate (e.g., Lan's "noble" rejection of Nynaeve, then acting like she's his woman; Perrin straightening up around Faile, then slouching, then she laughs at him).

Thank you for putting Belals Girl and her stereotypes about the stereotypes in the series in their place! =P
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What;s your favorite RJ comment on the sexes? newyorkersedai - 06/07/2011 02:04:56 AM 2127 Views
Women cannot admit they were wrong and will partner up with their worst enemy against a man over it. djwilson300 - 07/07/2011 12:20:16 AM 1193 Views
I remember a thread started by Phil Reborn long ago... Fanatic-Templar - 07/07/2011 05:21:12 AM 1152 Views
Oh, heaven, I've been there! newyorkersedai - 08/07/2011 12:04:35 AM 1231 Views
what you've never heard of "bros before hos"? darius_sedai - 08/07/2011 08:03:47 PM 1160 Views
Agreed ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 11:38:59 PM 1020 Views
Yeah, but before you've even broken up? *NM* newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:30:51 PM 574 Views
Re: Yeah, but before you've even broken up? darius_sedai - 09/07/2011 03:13:57 PM 1112 Views
That's not exactly what the incident was about. Fanatic-Templar - 10/07/2011 07:29:14 PM 1138 Views
Yes, and the way Egwene expressed her thoughts on the matter is quite disturning too Zeratul - 11/07/2011 12:56:59 AM 1149 Views
That wasn't what I was refering to ßelals Girl - 12/07/2011 07:26:59 PM 1062 Views
certainly not by today's standards, but to play devil's advocate here... darius_sedai - 12/07/2011 09:04:07 PM 1120 Views
I don't think any of his comments on the sexes are accurate for real people RugbyPlayingAshaman - 07/07/2011 02:53:29 PM 1218 Views
I largely disagree newyorkersedai - 07/07/2011 11:59:52 PM 1199 Views
I agree with you about stereotypes LadyLorraine - 08/07/2011 01:13:22 AM 1047 Views
Hahah, he did? Details, please. beetnemesis - 08/07/2011 05:07:01 AM 1027 Views
No Deadsy - 08/07/2011 06:10:05 AM 1193 Views
It depends on who the 6 women and his dual girlfriends were. RugbyPlayingAshaman - 08/07/2011 03:15:14 PM 1141 Views
Agreed ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 07:46:30 PM 1145 Views
*NM* fionwe1987 - 08/07/2011 09:18:44 PM 551 Views
Hi fionwe1987! *NM* ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 11:36:48 PM 543 Views
Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... fionwe1987 - 09/07/2011 06:31:20 AM 1219 Views
Yes! I agree! newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:30:21 PM 1252 Views
I shall never recover *NM* ßelals Girl - 09/07/2011 07:23:11 PM 495 Views
I think your heart will go on =p *NM* newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 07:27:28 PM 519 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl - 09/07/2011 07:42:48 PM 1174 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... Fanatic-Templar - 10/07/2011 07:35:37 PM 1068 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl - 12/07/2011 07:30:07 PM 1230 Views
Much of Faile's "punishing" was just Perrin's super-nose. Fanatic-Templar - 13/07/2011 03:36:03 AM 1075 Views
that's not why stereotypes exist LadyLorraine - 09/07/2011 04:18:45 AM 1156 Views
Re: that's not why stereotypes exist newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:27:24 PM 1337 Views
*throws caution to the wind* darius_sedai - 09/07/2011 03:19:42 PM 1069 Views
whether positive or negative, stereotypes all come from the same place nigelgoboom - 12/07/2011 04:29:23 AM 1052 Views
That's why I said that's the easy way out. RugbyPlayingAshaman - 14/07/2011 02:39:38 PM 1004 Views
Cosmopolitan = artificial and unnatural; Your situation is the aberration - his is more the norm *NM* Cannoli - 13/07/2011 01:09:00 AM 639 Views
Re: Cosmopolitan = artificial and unnatural; Your situation is the aberration - his is more the norm darius_sedai - 16/07/2011 01:02:37 PM 1304 Views
blood and ashes! *NM* nigelgoboom - 13/07/2011 01:24:18 AM 521 Views
You have to make sure your husbands do what you want, while making them think it was their idea. CatherineSedai - 21/07/2011 04:28:39 AM 1142 Views
And I can buy that, which is why I'm surprised at how many claimed they were inaccurate. Seriously, newyorkersedai - 26/07/2011 01:44:28 AM 1139 Views
I always thought it was relatively accurate. Onarishma - 21/07/2011 11:36:41 PM 1103 Views
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