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Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl Send a noteboard - 12/07/2011 07:30:07 PM
To be fair Perrin also assumed his cultural standards would be the norm and never made any effort to understand why it wasn't working until Elyas spelled it out for him, even though his in-laws gave him a good suggestion of it. And Faile has made efforts to adapt as well.


Yes, but Perrin didn't passive-agressively punish Faile for not living up to his cultural standards. Instead, he tried to fix whatever he was doing wrong. Yes, he was inept at it and ended up making the situation worse, but he was actually trying to make Faile feel better, not punishing her for not fitting into his idea of what a wife should be like. That's the difference.
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What;s your favorite RJ comment on the sexes? newyorkersedai - 06/07/2011 02:04:56 AM 2232 Views
Women cannot admit they were wrong and will partner up with their worst enemy against a man over it. djwilson300 - 07/07/2011 12:20:16 AM 1323 Views
I remember a thread started by Phil Reborn long ago... Fanatic-Templar - 07/07/2011 05:21:12 AM 1276 Views
Oh, heaven, I've been there! newyorkersedai - 08/07/2011 12:04:35 AM 1351 Views
what you've never heard of "bros before hos"? darius_sedai - 08/07/2011 08:03:47 PM 1303 Views
Agreed ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 11:38:59 PM 1148 Views
Yeah, but before you've even broken up? *NM* newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:30:51 PM 629 Views
Re: Yeah, but before you've even broken up? darius_sedai - 09/07/2011 03:13:57 PM 1240 Views
That's not exactly what the incident was about. Fanatic-Templar - 10/07/2011 07:29:14 PM 1256 Views
Yes, and the way Egwene expressed her thoughts on the matter is quite disturning too Zeratul - 11/07/2011 12:56:59 AM 1286 Views
That wasn't what I was refering to ßelals Girl - 12/07/2011 07:26:59 PM 1170 Views
certainly not by today's standards, but to play devil's advocate here... darius_sedai - 12/07/2011 09:04:07 PM 1255 Views
I don't think any of his comments on the sexes are accurate for real people RugbyPlayingAshaman - 07/07/2011 02:53:29 PM 1329 Views
I largely disagree newyorkersedai - 07/07/2011 11:59:52 PM 1305 Views
I agree with you about stereotypes LadyLorraine - 08/07/2011 01:13:22 AM 1152 Views
Hahah, he did? Details, please. beetnemesis - 08/07/2011 05:07:01 AM 1159 Views
No Deadsy - 08/07/2011 06:10:05 AM 1319 Views
It depends on who the 6 women and his dual girlfriends were. RugbyPlayingAshaman - 08/07/2011 03:15:14 PM 1258 Views
Agreed ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 07:46:30 PM 1263 Views
*NM* fionwe1987 - 08/07/2011 09:18:44 PM 610 Views
Hi fionwe1987! *NM* ßelals Girl - 08/07/2011 11:36:48 PM 597 Views
Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... fionwe1987 - 09/07/2011 06:31:20 AM 1349 Views
Yes! I agree! newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:30:21 PM 1371 Views
I shall never recover *NM* ßelals Girl - 09/07/2011 07:23:11 PM 553 Views
I think your heart will go on =p *NM* newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 07:27:28 PM 586 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl - 09/07/2011 07:42:48 PM 1289 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... Fanatic-Templar - 10/07/2011 07:35:37 PM 1189 Views
Re: Hi! The reason I rolled my eyes... ßelals Girl - 12/07/2011 07:30:07 PM 1360 Views
Much of Faile's "punishing" was just Perrin's super-nose. Fanatic-Templar - 13/07/2011 03:36:03 AM 1190 Views
that's not why stereotypes exist LadyLorraine - 09/07/2011 04:18:45 AM 1273 Views
Re: that's not why stereotypes exist newyorkersedai - 09/07/2011 02:27:24 PM 1450 Views
*throws caution to the wind* darius_sedai - 09/07/2011 03:19:42 PM 1172 Views
whether positive or negative, stereotypes all come from the same place nigelgoboom - 12/07/2011 04:29:23 AM 1172 Views
That's why I said that's the easy way out. RugbyPlayingAshaman - 14/07/2011 02:39:38 PM 1127 Views
Cosmopolitan = artificial and unnatural; Your situation is the aberration - his is more the norm *NM* Cannoli - 13/07/2011 01:09:00 AM 704 Views
Re: Cosmopolitan = artificial and unnatural; Your situation is the aberration - his is more the norm darius_sedai - 16/07/2011 01:02:37 PM 1404 Views
blood and ashes! *NM* nigelgoboom - 13/07/2011 01:24:18 AM 573 Views
You have to make sure your husbands do what you want, while making them think it was their idea. CatherineSedai - 21/07/2011 04:28:39 AM 1267 Views
And I can buy that, which is why I'm surprised at how many claimed they were inaccurate. Seriously, newyorkersedai - 26/07/2011 01:44:28 AM 1271 Views
I always thought it was relatively accurate. Onarishma - 21/07/2011 11:36:41 PM 1224 Views
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