Aveinda I don't quite understand how she is in love with him. I think she kinda likes him and there is some attraction then she was told that she would love him so now she thinks she does. And as was said in an above post, Rand likes her because she's a hot, mysterious and busty spy.

As for Elayne, I have never really seen her express any emotion to him besides disdain or hostility after their first hour long meeting, except when they're doing it. Even when she goes on about loving him, she seems to say it in a way like she is annoyed with him that he got her to fall in love with him and knock her up. Not a good foundation for a relationship. Plus, she's generally a self-important b#@*% and i don't know how anyone could put up with her. And Rand seems to like her because when he was just a farmboy she was a princess who was nice to him and she's hot and made out with him. Besides that i see no foundation of love.

With Min you can actually see the developement of their relationship together, how they got to know eachother and like eachother, and how their personalities fit. And Min is pretty and likeable and can take care of herself. I see her and Rand actually act like they are in love.

Min seems to be the only meaningful relationship. I'm not saying he should ditch the other girls, they ARE hot as described in the books. But if he were looking for a meaningful relationship and marraige, definitely go with Min. I mean, could you imagine living with Elayne or Avienda?? He'd go crazy in the first month, putting up with Elayne's whining and yelling every night, or Avienda telling him to beat her because of Toh or some such.