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From this lass' point of view... Alexia - 17/01/2003 09:39:31 PM

Okay... now how many of you actually came in here because that's cute? How many?
Well, not really. I just wanted to see what it was about.

1: Is it -really- that attractive/alluring to have a woman bat her lashes at you?
I didn't think lasses did that anymore...

1a: if so... why?
Well, it seems a little old-fashioned.

2:What flirting "techniques" actually work, and how effectively?

a: Flipping/showcasing of hair
On a guy - unnerving. Very unnerving.

b: Winking
The lad has got me there.

c: Blowing kisses
Not right.

d: Small, subtle touches or brushes on the arm/hand/etc
Actually, that would make me very defensive. Not a good start, in other words.

e: Smiling
Very good.

f: Giggling/Laughing
Good move to laughs at my jokes, yes.

g: Swaying of hips
Again... unnerving.

h: Dropping of hanky or paper or books or whatever
Probably a puzzled look before I walk off.

i: Wiggle a beckoning finger (I'm running out of ideas, okay?)
Sorta scary coming from a guy.

j: Blushing
Cute. Very cute, methinks.

k: Revealing clothing
Ew!

l: "Ignoring" you, except a few brief glances
Damn annoying. Forget it lads.

3: Does any of the above bug you when males do it?
Yes. Defensive actions or doing things stereotypically female.

4: Can't think of any other questions... except... Okay, what flirting techniques work on you?
Nice words, grins and winks, being a genuinely nice person.

Bonus for any females who've wandered in: What techniques do you find effective or not?
As above. Charm me and I'm yours. One wrong move and you're as good as dead, though.


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*flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 09:14:44 PM 314 Views
You lured me in. - 17/01/2003 09:20:30 PM 26 Views
Well, I'm clearly not male . . . but . . . - 17/01/2003 09:22:34 PM 32 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 09:24:04 PM 26 Views
I came in cause I hate to be left out - 17/01/2003 09:26:06 PM 23 Views
Uh.. okay - 17/01/2003 09:27:36 PM 36 Views
Yeah. - 17/01/2003 09:42:22 PM 22 Views
i have the perfect flirting technique! - 17/01/2003 09:35:03 PM 50 Views
lol! Sounds effective. *NM* - 18/01/2003 12:10:04 AM 6 Views
What if they're not on a bike? - 18/01/2003 01:14:56 AM 23 Views
good idea! - 18/01/2003 10:22:37 AM 7 Views
I'm a sucker for fluttering eyelashes - 17/01/2003 09:35:14 PM 17 Views
From this lass' point of view... - 17/01/2003 09:39:31 PM 40 Views
Well, I wasn't expecting this... - 17/01/2003 09:48:01 PM 19 Views
Unnerving as in just not right... *NM* - 17/01/2003 10:20:35 PM 6 Views
Ok here goes *takes a deep breath* - 17/01/2003 09:42:43 PM 23 Views
If I'd never seen a pomegranate, your sig would be highly disturbing. - 17/01/2003 10:12:21 PM 19 Views
The way it works for me.... - 17/01/2003 11:19:46 PM 32 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 11:20:19 PM 11 Views
The pomegranites in your sig are revulting. I'm sorry. - 17/01/2003 11:24:46 PM 18 Views
You're the, like, third or fourth person to comment. - 18/01/2003 02:25:05 AM 17 Views
I don't get it - 18/01/2003 05:59:31 AM 9 Views
They taste good. Really good. *NM* - 18/01/2003 05:38:18 PM 3 Views
www.pomegranates.org or www.pomegranates.com *NM* - 20/01/2003 04:30:22 PM 1 Views
I didn't call you that! - 18/01/2003 05:37:45 PM 8 Views
PomegranAte - 18/01/2003 08:08:16 PM 6 Views
*hangs head in shame* *NM* - 19/01/2003 03:00:55 PM 3 Views
It's okay. I know you weren't being mean. *NM* - 20/01/2003 12:42:02 AM 2 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 11:35:07 PM 12 Views
*flexes and winks* Hey hot stuff. How you doin? - 18/01/2003 06:20:01 AM 19 Views
ok so how exactly do you "flutter eyelashes"? - 18/01/2003 09:45:32 AM 11 Views
Do you have Yahoo Messenger? - 19/01/2003 03:32:41 AM 38 Views
I have perfected the technique - 19/01/2003 03:42:12 PM 8 Views
Re: I have perfected the technique - 19/01/2003 10:35:37 PM 8 Views
brighter than me? never happens... - 21/01/2003 01:18:46 AM 2 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 18/01/2003 02:32:30 PM 8 Views
*blinks* - 19/01/2003 03:37:07 AM 5 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 18/01/2003 07:21:53 PM 7 Views
Oh, poo. - 19/01/2003 03:41:50 AM 5 Views
sees lady armed with bow and starts to worry and replys ...... - 19/01/2003 07:33:29 AM 3 Views
Hmmm... - 19/01/2003 07:15:17 PM 4 Views
replys to be a git - 19/01/2003 08:06:22 PM 3 Views
You know, a bow can be used for more than projecting arrows. - 20/01/2003 12:39:23 AM 5 Views
LOL please beat me and I'll be nice *NM* - 20/01/2003 07:27:02 AM 2 Views
LIAR! Besides, you might enjoy it... *NM* - 20/01/2003 04:30:56 PM 2 Views
Re: LIAR! Besides, you might enjoy it... - 20/01/2003 05:38:29 PM 6 Views
I'm not answering that. *NM* - 21/01/2003 02:26:47 PM 2 Views
LOL I win then *NM* - 21/01/2003 07:33:28 PM 3 Views