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The way it works for me.... Lord Psynister - 17/01/2003 11:19:46 PM

1: Is it -really- that attractive/alluring to have a woman bat her lashes at you?
not really, too much trouble, and it looks weird, just gimme a smile and save yourself the trouble

2:What flirting "techniques" actually work, and how effectively?
a: Flipping/showcasing of hair
not really, though I do like hair very muchly
b: Winking
doesn't do much for me unless there's a big, beautiful smile to go with it
c: Blowing kisses
d: Small, subtle touches or brushes on the arm/hand/etc
now we're getting somewhere, I'd have to say this is my favorite that you have listed
e: Smiling
smiles are so good, I'd say this is number 2 on your list
f: Giggling/Laughing
that would depend on what she's laughing at
g: Swaying of hips
looks good, doesn't do much in the way of flirting though. I don't need to see your hips swaying. If I like how you look from behind, then I'll enjoy looking at it regardless of how it's moving.
h: Dropping of hanky or paper or books or whatever
no, I'll help if it happens, but if you want to let me know that you like me, then just let me know.
i: Wiggle a beckoning finger (I'm running out of ideas, okay?)
not really, but I've never actually had this happen that I recall...
j: Blushing
yeah, blushing is great, here's nuber 3
k: Revealing clothing
no, just looks good to the eye. I like to look at it cuz I'm a guy, but I'd rather get to know you better that to see you better.
l: "Ignoring" you, except a few brief glances
except for brief glances? not unless they're followed but smiles and looking away

3: Does any of the above bug you when females do it?
Fluttering lashes and Ignoring (at least the way you described it) suck. Fluttering lashes is just a waste of time and effort. Give me a smile, and we're all good. If you're ignoring me, then I need to see that you're only "pretending" to ignore me. If you're standing across the room, and every now and then I glance your way and see you looking at me, and when you see me look, you look away real fast and kind smile and maybe blush a bit, then it's all good. But if you're just showing no interrest other than the occasional glance, then you aren't in to me enough for me to care.

4: Can't think of any other questions... except... Okay, what flirting techniques work on you?
Touches, smiles, and blushes are what does it for me. Snuggling, hugging, and touching are where it's at. I enjoy them all muchly. Smiling, and the look in your eyes while you're doing it, *imagines the look in a woman's eyes when she smiles, and is very glad he's sitting down, or else his knees would have given out*, now that is just....Wow. Blushing a bit here and there is really good, can't explain exactly why, just does something for me.

Forever Smitten
'whipped beyond unwhippedness
Wedding Date: 08/23/03

No Longer Alfheim's Worst Nightmare
Keira's #1 Fan!

G'bye Kory, Until we meet again, Bro

This message last edited by Lord Psynister on 1/18/2003 at 10:59:21 PM.

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*flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 09:14:44 PM 314 Views
You lured me in. - 17/01/2003 09:20:30 PM 26 Views
Well, I'm clearly not male . . . but . . . - 17/01/2003 09:22:34 PM 32 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 09:24:04 PM 26 Views
I came in cause I hate to be left out - 17/01/2003 09:26:06 PM 23 Views
Uh.. okay - 17/01/2003 09:27:36 PM 36 Views
Yeah. - 17/01/2003 09:42:22 PM 22 Views
i have the perfect flirting technique! - 17/01/2003 09:35:03 PM 50 Views
lol! Sounds effective. *NM* - 18/01/2003 12:10:04 AM 6 Views
What if they're not on a bike? - 18/01/2003 01:14:56 AM 23 Views
good idea! - 18/01/2003 10:22:37 AM 7 Views
I'm a sucker for fluttering eyelashes - 17/01/2003 09:35:14 PM 17 Views
From this lass' point of view... - 17/01/2003 09:39:31 PM 40 Views
Well, I wasn't expecting this... - 17/01/2003 09:48:01 PM 19 Views
Unnerving as in just not right... *NM* - 17/01/2003 10:20:35 PM 6 Views
Ok here goes *takes a deep breath* - 17/01/2003 09:42:43 PM 23 Views
If I'd never seen a pomegranate, your sig would be highly disturbing. - 17/01/2003 10:12:21 PM 19 Views
The way it works for me.... - 17/01/2003 11:19:46 PM 32 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 11:20:19 PM 11 Views
The pomegranites in your sig are revulting. I'm sorry. - 17/01/2003 11:24:46 PM 18 Views
You're the, like, third or fourth person to comment. - 18/01/2003 02:25:05 AM 17 Views
I don't get it - 18/01/2003 05:59:31 AM 9 Views
They taste good. Really good. *NM* - 18/01/2003 05:38:18 PM 3 Views or *NM* - 20/01/2003 04:30:22 PM 1 Views
I didn't call you that! - 18/01/2003 05:37:45 PM 8 Views
PomegranAte - 18/01/2003 08:08:16 PM 6 Views
*hangs head in shame* *NM* - 19/01/2003 03:00:55 PM 3 Views
It's okay. I know you weren't being mean. *NM* - 20/01/2003 12:42:02 AM 2 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 11:35:07 PM 12 Views
*flexes and winks* Hey hot stuff. How you doin? - 18/01/2003 06:20:01 AM 19 Views
ok so how exactly do you "flutter eyelashes"? - 18/01/2003 09:45:32 AM 11 Views
Do you have Yahoo Messenger? - 19/01/2003 03:32:41 AM 38 Views
I have perfected the technique - 19/01/2003 03:42:12 PM 8 Views
Re: I have perfected the technique - 19/01/2003 10:35:37 PM 8 Views
brighter than me? never happens... - 21/01/2003 01:18:46 AM 2 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 18/01/2003 02:32:30 PM 8 Views
*blinks* - 19/01/2003 03:37:07 AM 5 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 18/01/2003 07:21:53 PM 7 Views
Oh, poo. - 19/01/2003 03:41:50 AM 5 Views
sees lady armed with bow and starts to worry and replys ...... - 19/01/2003 07:33:29 AM 3 Views
Hmmm... - 19/01/2003 07:15:17 PM 4 Views
replys to be a git - 19/01/2003 08:06:22 PM 3 Views
You know, a bow can be used for more than projecting arrows. - 20/01/2003 12:39:23 AM 5 Views
LOL please beat me and I'll be nice *NM* - 20/01/2003 07:27:02 AM 2 Views
LIAR! Besides, you might enjoy it... *NM* - 20/01/2003 04:30:56 PM 2 Views
Re: LIAR! Besides, you might enjoy it... - 20/01/2003 05:38:29 PM 6 Views
I'm not answering that. *NM* - 21/01/2003 02:26:47 PM 2 Views
LOL I win then *NM* - 21/01/2003 07:33:28 PM 3 Views