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Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. Ananke - 18/01/2003 02:32:30 PM

Okay... now how many of you actually came in here because that's cute? How many?

i came here because it was you, nothing else...

1: Is it -really- that attractive/alluring to have a woman bat her lashes at you?

depends on the situation, the woman, etc. If I'm attracted to a woman, and she looks at me in a certain way, I'm going to feel all warm inside, for sure. The batting isn't that important.

1a: if so... why?

2:What flirting "techniques" actually work, and how effectively?

Dunno, never flirted, and girls who flirt with me always do so when I have a girlfriend. Otherwise, they leave me alone. Never figured that one out too... When I got into a relationship with my gf (more than one year ago), none of us really flirted, it just happened...

I guess recieving attention from a girl is a good way to attract my interest. after all, we're all suckers for the appreciation of others.

a: Flipping/showcasing of hair

could work, depdns of the girl/the hair.

b: Winking

intriguing, but not enough for sure

c: Blowing kisses

not really, too easy.

d: Small, subtle touches or brushes on the arm/hand/etc

that's a good way to arouse me, for sure. But then again, if the girl doesn't attrack me, it will do just the reverse

e: Smiling

The first thing I notice in a woman is her smile. REally! Then the eyes, then the way she moves. cleveage isn't the fist thing I see, believe me.

f: Giggling/Laughing

Depends. Giggling is often associated with stupidity, I fear. But a nice laugh is great. Making a woman laugh is a warming experience.

g: Swaying of hips

Might be too obvious. Although, when my gf does that, it DOES work. But with a girl I'm not in a relationship with? dunno.

h: Dropping of hanky or paper or books or whatever

maybe when you're 14.

i: Wiggle a beckoning finger (I'm running out of ideas, okay?)

On a dance floor, maybe. Somewhere else? too obvious again. I want to be able to hunt to some extend... not in a bad way, you understand.

j: Blushing

makes me feel important, so yes

k: Revealing clothing

if it's worn especially for me, then it'll make me wonder, and again feel important. But if I meet a girl in a bar, say, and she's scantily clothed, I'll not be attracted. too easy, or else she's not looking for a serious relationship.

l: "Ignoring" you, except a few brief glances


3: Does any of the above bug you when females do it?

Not really, except for abuses.

4: Can't think of any other questions... except... Okay, what flirting techniques work on you?

I pretty well told you about it. In short form, giving me attention and appreciating the attention I give works well.

Bonus for any females who've wandered in: What techniques do you find effective or not?

Not for me, that one.

Hope I helped!

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*flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 09:14:44 PM 314 Views
You lured me in. - 17/01/2003 09:20:30 PM 26 Views
Well, I'm clearly not male . . . but . . . - 17/01/2003 09:22:34 PM 32 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 09:24:04 PM 26 Views
I came in cause I hate to be left out - 17/01/2003 09:26:06 PM 23 Views
Uh.. okay - 17/01/2003 09:27:36 PM 36 Views
Yeah. - 17/01/2003 09:42:22 PM 22 Views
i have the perfect flirting technique! - 17/01/2003 09:35:03 PM 50 Views
lol! Sounds effective. *NM* - 18/01/2003 12:10:04 AM 6 Views
What if they're not on a bike? - 18/01/2003 01:14:56 AM 23 Views
good idea! - 18/01/2003 10:22:37 AM 7 Views
I'm a sucker for fluttering eyelashes - 17/01/2003 09:35:14 PM 17 Views
From this lass' point of view... - 17/01/2003 09:39:31 PM 40 Views
Well, I wasn't expecting this... - 17/01/2003 09:48:01 PM 19 Views
Unnerving as in just not right... *NM* - 17/01/2003 10:20:35 PM 6 Views
Ok here goes *takes a deep breath* - 17/01/2003 09:42:43 PM 23 Views
If I'd never seen a pomegranate, your sig would be highly disturbing. - 17/01/2003 10:12:21 PM 19 Views
The way it works for me.... - 17/01/2003 11:19:46 PM 32 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 11:20:19 PM 11 Views
The pomegranites in your sig are revulting. I'm sorry. - 17/01/2003 11:24:46 PM 18 Views
You're the, like, third or fourth person to comment. - 18/01/2003 02:25:05 AM 17 Views
I don't get it - 18/01/2003 05:59:31 AM 9 Views
They taste good. Really good. *NM* - 18/01/2003 05:38:18 PM 3 Views or *NM* - 20/01/2003 04:30:22 PM 1 Views
I didn't call you that! - 18/01/2003 05:37:45 PM 8 Views
PomegranAte - 18/01/2003 08:08:16 PM 6 Views
*hangs head in shame* *NM* - 19/01/2003 03:00:55 PM 3 Views
It's okay. I know you weren't being mean. *NM* - 20/01/2003 12:42:02 AM 2 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 17/01/2003 11:35:07 PM 12 Views
*flexes and winks* Hey hot stuff. How you doin? - 18/01/2003 06:20:01 AM 19 Views
ok so how exactly do you "flutter eyelashes"? - 18/01/2003 09:45:32 AM 11 Views
Do you have Yahoo Messenger? - 19/01/2003 03:32:41 AM 38 Views
I have perfected the technique - 19/01/2003 03:42:12 PM 8 Views
Re: I have perfected the technique - 19/01/2003 10:35:37 PM 8 Views
brighter than me? never happens... - 21/01/2003 01:18:46 AM 2 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 18/01/2003 02:32:30 PM 8 Views
*blinks* - 19/01/2003 03:37:07 AM 5 Views
Re: *flutters her eyelashes and smiles cutely* Hi boys. - 18/01/2003 07:21:53 PM 7 Views
Oh, poo. - 19/01/2003 03:41:50 AM 5 Views
sees lady armed with bow and starts to worry and replys ...... - 19/01/2003 07:33:29 AM 3 Views
Hmmm... - 19/01/2003 07:15:17 PM 4 Views
replys to be a git - 19/01/2003 08:06:22 PM 3 Views
You know, a bow can be used for more than projecting arrows. - 20/01/2003 12:39:23 AM 5 Views
LOL please beat me and I'll be nice *NM* - 20/01/2003 07:27:02 AM 2 Views
LIAR! Besides, you might enjoy it... *NM* - 20/01/2003 04:30:56 PM 2 Views
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I'm not answering that. *NM* - 21/01/2003 02:26:47 PM 2 Views
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