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does seeing someone reading a book you like justify striking up a conversation Foxhead Send a noteboard - 10/09/2011 08:21:28 PM
or is it just weird?

i was on holiday and saw a guy reading well worn copies of shadows rising and then fires of heaven, so obviously a fan of wheel of time that i could probably have made a passing "oh i like that book too" but i didn't because in the back of my head i was thinking that he would think, what a weirdo

now if it was the other way around i'd probably embrace it, i come on a book forum i enjoy discussing the finer details of fantasy epic, but would he be of a similar disposition? it wasn't worth the risk of him forcing a smile, humouring me with small talk and then dismissing me with a slight air of embarrassment and then enduring a week of passing each other around the pool and doing that raised eyebrow nod of acknowledgment to each other

and yet and yet

so what's your opinion? ever made an obvious attempt at conversation with a person you see reading something you've read? and this isn't like when you're both in a book shop or a similar established ground for literary discourse. this is where you've crossed the expanse of a park or made for someone where they've noticed your approach and regarded you with wary anxiety as you've out of nowhere made an uninvited beeline for their reading solitude. were you stone walled or did you make a new friend? or do you have a more subtle tactic of perhaps edging closer, leaning over and being like...don't you just hate <insert character name> too?

similarly have you ever been received such attentions, how was the experience?

oh and if you're recently back from oludeniz in turkey, stayed at the belcahan hotel and read robert jordan i'm talking about you, i was reading robin hobb

on a tangent, the farseer and liveship trilogies still might be my favourite six fantasy books of all time. i reread them after maybe 6 or 8 years and i did think that my favourable memory of them may have been tinged by nostalgia, but they really weren't they truly are a great piece of work
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does seeing someone reading a book you like justify striking up a conversation - 10/09/2011 08:21:28 PM 1234 Views
I keep wanting to, but I never do - 10/09/2011 11:07:07 PM 977 Views
take the plunge! - 11/09/2011 10:07:45 AM 1175 Views
Only if you fancy them and are using it as an excuse to chat them up. *NM* - 10/09/2011 11:44:07 PM 389 Views
with ulterior motives? - 11/09/2011 10:10:46 AM 834 Views
I wouldn't interuppt someone while they are reading. - 11/09/2011 03:16:50 AM 1098 Views
that's worse surely! - 11/09/2011 10:13:15 AM 992 Views
not to me. - 11/09/2011 05:59:19 PM 891 Views
it is pretty easy tell if they would rather just be reading - 12/09/2011 03:13:30 PM 929 Views
I guess my thing is I just hate to be interrupted and don't want to do it to someone else - 12/09/2011 04:28:30 PM 988 Views
you get that immersed even in public area? - 12/09/2011 06:52:54 PM 837 Views
Usually. If it's not a situation where I CAN, I just won't read. - 12/09/2011 07:23:48 PM 1028 Views
Did you not like the other trilogy? - 11/09/2011 03:36:18 AM 1107 Views
erm, not as much - 11/09/2011 10:19:03 AM 923 Views
I used to be timid. Now I don't care and will happily interrupt. - 11/09/2011 07:42:35 AM 991 Views
Yeah, exactly - 11/09/2011 07:53:48 AM 1000 Views
it's the "i will probably never see again" i can't get my head around - 11/09/2011 10:21:45 AM 905 Views
I guess that depends on how you go about it - 12/09/2011 03:16:38 PM 809 Views
That's a nice way of saying "I'm antisociably shy." - 13/09/2011 09:43:17 AM 950 Views
no i meant the opposite - 13/09/2011 02:20:48 PM 859 Views
Answers to questions asked. - 11/09/2011 03:34:32 PM 928 Views
i asked because i wondered how many people would welcome it or view it as an intrusion - 13/09/2011 02:25:32 PM 920 Views
I love talking to perfect strangers - 15/09/2011 05:34:27 PM 1243 Views
I have just gone up to someone and said "good choice in book" - 11/09/2011 04:49:21 PM 919 Views
I can't resist that. I will always say something. Many people have done the same with me - 11/09/2011 06:10:36 PM 1016 Views
are a small town girl? - 13/09/2011 02:30:46 PM 1015 Views
How do you even figure out what they're reading? - 12/09/2011 05:44:30 AM 964 Views
NYC is wierd *NM* - 12/09/2011 03:17:35 PM 366 Views
I can usually tell what people are reading with a glance. - 15/09/2011 01:49:06 AM 1184 Views
Thats why I am glad I don't live in NYC - 15/09/2011 05:41:47 PM 1088 Views
NYC really is a concrete 'jungle' - 15/09/2011 09:41:59 PM 991 Views
Re: No. - 12/09/2011 02:51:40 PM 973 Views
I stirke up conversation with strangers all the time - 12/09/2011 03:12:09 PM 923 Views
exactly! - 15/09/2011 05:46:57 PM 1046 Views
It depends on the situation - 12/09/2011 07:26:02 PM 909 Views
I think so, but it isn't always appreciated. - 15/09/2011 03:20:07 AM 1039 Views

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