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Really, before 18 months you're wasting your time Tom Send a noteboard - 20/04/2012 01:26:05 AM
Believe me. I tried. I really, really tried. I love books. Before 18 months you'll be hard pressed to get any sort of attention for any extended period of time. The book is more something to chew on at that early age (and the contrast toys are really, in all fairness, also a waste of time and money since they grow out of that so, so fast).

The first books that got a reaction were books in the Eric Carle series - the Very Hungry Caterpillar, the "bear" series (Brown Bear, Polar Bear, Panda Bear, Baby Bear - but be sure to cut out the adjectives: instead of "whooping crane" you should start with just "crane" and then add in the adjectives well after age 2), etc.

Simple Dr. Seuss books work as well - at 2 our daughter loved The Cat in the Hat, the Cat in the Hat Comes Back and One Fish, Two Fish. Anything beyond that is a waste - it is still hard to get her to sit through Horton Hatches the Egg but she's getting better.

Before 18 months you're best off with the simple books that just have a picture and a word - we had one called "Baby Animals" where it said "The Cat" and you open the flap and it says "The Cat Drinks Milk". All we got from our daughter was "Kisa moloko" (which is "cat milk" in Russian), and the "l" was tending towards "w" (one more reason why Polish people sound like they have speech defects - they do that into adulthood).

Elmo counting books worked well, too, starting at about 2-2.5 years.

I'll skip the Russian books but they were generally the same sorts of books as the US ones (barnyard animals, simple stories with lots of repetition, etc.).

It really is a geometric progression - you should have extremely low expectations early on and watch everything explode after two, and REALLY explode after 3. Our daughter now even makes fun of the way my mom tries to speak Russian (without malice, and spot-on no less) and has a rich vocabulary in both languages, and also knows simple phrases in French (though if we ask her to demonstrate her French by asking something in French in front of other people, she just says "I can't hear you" and smiles).
Political correctness is the pettiest form of casuistry.

ἡ δὲ κἀκ τριῶν τρυπημάτων ἐργαζομένη ἐνεκάλει τῇ φύσει, δυσφορουμένη, ὅτι δὴ μὴ καὶ τοὺς τιτθοὺς αὐτῇ εὐρύτερον ἢ νῦν εἰσι τρυπώη, ὅπως καὶ ἄλλην ἐνταῦθα μίξιν ἐπιτεχνᾶσθαι δυνατὴ εἴη. – Procopius

Ummaka qinnassa nīk!

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Books for very small children: suggestions? - 20/04/2012 12:19:39 AM 1410 Views
Really, before 18 months you're wasting your time - 20/04/2012 01:26:05 AM 1058 Views
I dunno. I really enjoyed books when I was that young - 20/04/2012 03:12:29 AM 1080 Views
At a year and a half? - 20/04/2012 06:18:01 PM 933 Views
I don't remember reading quite that young, but I do remember not long after that. - 20/04/2012 09:35:11 PM 1037 Views
Color me slightly skeptical. - 21/04/2012 01:17:51 PM 964 Views
my mother spent over 20 years classroom teaching, is an Ed.D... - 21/04/2012 10:40:56 PM 1263 Views
So did my mother. Elementary school teacher from 1960-1990. - 22/04/2012 05:24:44 PM 936 Views
I double checked. I was confusing it with another event. I was about 2.5 *NM* - 22/04/2012 12:19:09 AM 563 Views
That sounds about right. *NM* - 22/04/2012 05:20:35 PM 480 Views
Similar experience here... - 20/04/2012 07:04:51 PM 1215 Views
Yah, I was a bit like your niece - 20/04/2012 09:30:02 PM 1196 Views
Re: Yah, I was a bit like your niece - 20/04/2012 11:48:12 PM 1150 Views
That's weird. - 21/04/2012 01:22:24 PM 1045 Views
Re: That's weird. - 21/04/2012 05:41:27 PM 1155 Views
Doesn't need to be an extended period of time, though. A few minutes is enough at the beginning. - 23/04/2012 12:42:23 PM 1184 Views
No problem, if you just want to flush money down a toilet. - 23/04/2012 02:29:57 PM 917 Views
Re: No problem, if you just want to flush money down a toilet. - 23/04/2012 03:32:22 PM 1076 Views
Look, it's useless to discuss at this point but let's have the discussion again in 2 years. - 23/04/2012 04:39:47 PM 1291 Views
I'm really interested in the evidence for the crawling thing. - 25/04/2012 08:11:31 PM 1144 Views
I can't find actual scientific studies on the web - 25/04/2012 09:56:14 PM 940 Views
Re: I can't find actual scientific studies on the web - 26/04/2012 03:45:40 AM 1330 Views
anyone who thinks an infant sleeping on its stomach is dangerous is behind the times. - 26/04/2012 01:51:59 PM 1114 Views
Yes, the SIDS indicia are all over the place. - 26/04/2012 02:29:15 PM 966 Views
If there was a big ad campaign in the UK about this then no-one told my medical team. - 26/04/2012 07:40:48 PM 1030 Views
Hmmm. *shrug* I don't know. I trust this professor to have his facts straight. - 26/04/2012 08:01:53 PM 1004 Views
Possible answer is difference between Scottish and English health systems. - 26/04/2012 08:28:38 PM 961 Views
weird. maybe trends have swung back the other way. - 26/04/2012 10:01:01 PM 951 Views
I hope you don't have it mixed up... - 26/04/2012 10:18:00 PM 1054 Views
I'm very happy to hear that. - 26/04/2012 10:12:32 PM 1200 Views
Re: Look, it's useless to discuss at this point but let's have the discussion again in 2 years. - 26/04/2012 01:39:25 PM 918 Views
Yes, yes, of course. Everyone thinks they have the experience. - 26/04/2012 02:25:10 PM 1039 Views
I understand where you're coming from - 26/04/2012 04:50:46 PM 1217 Views
I agree with that, of course. To a point. - 26/04/2012 07:06:37 PM 1116 Views
OH! Another suggestion! - 20/04/2012 03:36:45 AM 1238 Views
I LOVE that book. - 23/04/2012 12:44:08 PM 1027 Views
Books by Ruth Brown - 20/04/2012 04:26:18 PM 896 Views
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Kama Sutra - 20/04/2012 06:57:27 PM 977 Views
Re: Kama Sutra - 23/04/2012 12:45:43 PM 1079 Views
Mo Willems is awesome *NM* - 20/04/2012 09:15:52 PM 472 Views
They look nice, thank you. *NM* - 23/04/2012 12:50:21 PM 463 Views
If You Give a Mouse a Cookie / If You Give a Moose a Muffin *NM* - 21/04/2012 06:37:07 PM 519 Views
Heh, cute. Thank you. *NM* - 23/04/2012 12:50:47 PM 500 Views
Bright, tactile ones. - 23/04/2012 09:04:53 PM 988 Views
Yup. - 26/04/2012 01:39:57 PM 1056 Views
You won't once you have it. - 26/04/2012 04:07:14 PM 1098 Views
"Go The F**k to Sleep" - 25/04/2012 11:45:31 PM 1009 Views
Suspect that will hit close to home. - 26/04/2012 01:40:50 PM 1044 Views

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