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Hmm snoopcester Send a noteboard - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM
We talked to Holly Hill (pseudonym), an Australian writer who quit her job as a psychoanalyst and posted an online want ad for a sugar daddy — then chronicled her tale in the new book Sugarbabe. After receiving over 10,000 responses to her ad in mere days, she interviewed candidates and selected a series of attached men who paid her for her company. Given that many of her responders were married, she has a unique take on what she thinks men really want, and — given her experiences — an atypical position on male monogamy.


And when they paid her to write an attention grabbing column, she came out with this?
I'm sure she was completely honest and 100% objective.

The article isn't exactly science:P
Good for those who like to blame the other woman for a man being unfaithful though, since it seems about excusing men who do cheat since they can't possibly help it, being but simple men.
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Do All Men Cheat? LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 09:03:09 PM 1741 Views
Is it just me, or does the paying kind of make her something else than a "mistress"? Legolas - 29/07/2010 09:30:56 PM 1319 Views
that was the idea i'm aware the article is FULL of holes *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:16:00 PM 563 Views
Her "100%" claim was ambiguous in the worst possible way. Tim - 29/07/2010 10:21:13 PM 1256 Views
I dunno, there's really only one interpretation that makes sense. Legolas - 29/07/2010 10:29:48 PM 1348 Views
Well, gay men have had the reputation for being exceptionally promiscuous, so don't discount them. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:33:45 AM 669 Views
Sure, but it's not women they look at and think about. *NM* Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:55:33 AM 628 Views
Payment is payment, whether in bills or a wedding ring *NM* Cannoli - 29/07/2010 11:31:09 PM 632 Views
She's right about one thing: Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 09:37:38 PM 1308 Views
but it's not like that's limited to men. LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:20:21 PM 1194 Views
I knew it! *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:33:20 PM 563 Views
That's true ironclad - 30/07/2010 12:27:02 AM 1066 Views
For some men its not so long...that sounded dirty didn't it? Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 12:37:28 AM 1248 Views
I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM 1436 Views
Are you talking about gay and asexual men? Tim - 30/07/2010 12:44:44 AM 1211 Views
I think we're not understanding each other here. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:47:09 AM 1343 Views
Sorry darlin you just don't know what it's like to be a man Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 01:21:48 AM 1232 Views
apparently being a man includes condescending. LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 01:28:20 AM 1118 Views
You don't think we talk? I'm not just puffing gas here Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:04:59 AM 1249 Views
i'm just trying to say that totally discounting what she was saying was rude LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:16:03 AM 1353 Views
Point taken Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:21:21 AM 1284 Views
still, that being said... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:31:11 AM 1197 Views
Or not. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:48 AM 1223 Views
You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM 1305 Views
It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM 1250 Views
No offense, but that post is rather useless as long as you don't define "sexual thoughts". Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:54:37 AM 1511 Views
True. Ghavrel - 31/07/2010 08:20:28 AM 1197 Views
Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. lord-of-shadow - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM 1250 Views
Quite. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:18 AM 1129 Views
snoopcester - 30/07/2010 10:31:20 AM 1097 Views
"mentally monogamous" is one of the stupidest expressions I've ever heard. i can't even comment. *NM* Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:56:15 PM 842 Views
XD [hi5!] *NM* (beat.) - 31/07/2010 03:07:09 AM 553 Views
This. *NM* Avendesora - 02/08/2010 04:42:59 PM 483 Views
Every man can't cheat every day, because not every man is in a relationship *NM* Helene - 31/07/2010 07:54:31 AM 545 Views
I love my husband. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 09:44:51 PM 1281 Views
Be thankful you can't read his mind. Ignorance is bliss *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:17:38 PM 559 Views
Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:33:08 PM 1064 Views
You mean like one would appreciate fine art? Nothing sexual about that *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:35:35 PM 608 Views
Heh. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:41:34 PM 1139 Views
Would you honestly get upset at him for that? StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:39:50 PM 1192 Views
Personally, I would say... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 10:17:37 PM 1118 Views
That's kind of where I was coming from. StormCrow - 02/08/2010 03:33:37 PM 1384 Views
Hmm snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM 1312 Views
I totally know that i was just using it to start a conversation LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:49:05 PM 1077 Views
Liar! snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:55:03 PM 1071 Views
*dumps a gallon of fresh sardines on your head* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 11:23:33 PM 1175 Views
...now I want some cake *NM* beetnemesis - 29/07/2010 11:21:18 PM 485 Views
me too, I have chocolate cake in the kitchen Delireus - 30/07/2010 06:00:24 AM 1170 Views
I don't know, sis. StarrBecca - 30/07/2010 03:52:21 AM 1294 Views
Biologically designed.... Ectheledhel - 30/07/2010 03:54:00 AM 1218 Views
Bastard... Joel - 03/08/2010 09:52:41 AM 1229 Views
It'd be too long Joel. Ectheledhel - 03/08/2010 03:38:19 PM 1148 Views
Fair enough. Joel - 03/08/2010 03:50:55 PM 1184 Views
I feel confident in saying that all men think mentally at somepoint in a sexual way toward... everynametaken - 30/07/2010 07:06:57 AM 1242 Views
This. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:11:17 AM 660 Views
Utter nonsense. Macharius - 30/07/2010 01:57:42 PM 1196 Views
Works out well for the men. StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:12:53 PM 1193 Views
No. Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:58:06 PM 1271 Views
one major porblem with this whole thing random thoughts - 30/07/2010 08:33:18 PM 1069 Views
That's the exact point, she'll get skewed results due to the self selected nature of her study group Helene - 31/07/2010 08:02:54 AM 1209 Views
Not sure it is that much different for the ladies random thoughts - 01/08/2010 04:17:39 AM 1148 Views
Oh, I wouldn't doubt that, either. Helene - 06/08/2010 02:28:35 PM 1311 Views
~shrugs~ damookster - 31/07/2010 03:40:17 AM 1047 Views
<3 *NM* Rebekah - 31/07/2010 10:21:38 AM 502 Views
"Don't let yourself go — there is nothing less valued than a commodity that no one else wants" Foxhead - 31/07/2010 09:52:29 AM 1517 Views
having reread this article, theres's actually very little that i disagree with *NM* Foxhead - 31/07/2010 10:04:43 AM 789 Views
If we're talking 'mentally' SilverWarder - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM 1351 Views
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