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It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM
Now, I definitely don't think it's an excuse for cheating, but science points to humans not being naturally monogamous, which leads me to think that most guys likely have sexual thoughts about women who aren't their partners.

Of course "everyone" is, you know, a little ridiculous, if for no other reason than the fact that a fair number of men are asexual. But I feel fairly confident in asserting that males who don't have sexual thoughts about other women are, well, in a fairly small minority.
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Do All Men Cheat? LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 09:03:09 PM 1824 Views
Is it just me, or does the paying kind of make her something else than a "mistress"? Legolas - 29/07/2010 09:30:56 PM 1417 Views
that was the idea i'm aware the article is FULL of holes *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:16:00 PM 602 Views
Her "100%" claim was ambiguous in the worst possible way. Tim - 29/07/2010 10:21:13 PM 1320 Views
I dunno, there's really only one interpretation that makes sense. Legolas - 29/07/2010 10:29:48 PM 1415 Views
Well, gay men have had the reputation for being exceptionally promiscuous, so don't discount them. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:33:45 AM 702 Views
Sure, but it's not women they look at and think about. *NM* Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:55:33 AM 667 Views
Payment is payment, whether in bills or a wedding ring *NM* Cannoli - 29/07/2010 11:31:09 PM 663 Views
She's right about one thing: Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 09:37:38 PM 1377 Views
but it's not like that's limited to men. LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:20:21 PM 1261 Views
I knew it! *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:33:20 PM 598 Views
That's true ironclad - 30/07/2010 12:27:02 AM 1130 Views
For some men its not so long...that sounded dirty didn't it? Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 12:37:28 AM 1313 Views
I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM 1498 Views
Are you talking about gay and asexual men? Tim - 30/07/2010 12:44:44 AM 1271 Views
I think we're not understanding each other here. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:47:09 AM 1406 Views
Sorry darlin you just don't know what it's like to be a man Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 01:21:48 AM 1295 Views
apparently being a man includes condescending. LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 01:28:20 AM 1185 Views
You don't think we talk? I'm not just puffing gas here Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:04:59 AM 1324 Views
i'm just trying to say that totally discounting what she was saying was rude LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:16:03 AM 1425 Views
Point taken Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:21:21 AM 1346 Views
still, that being said... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:31:11 AM 1256 Views
Or not. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:48 AM 1309 Views
You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM 1371 Views
It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM 1319 Views
No offense, but that post is rather useless as long as you don't define "sexual thoughts". Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:54:37 AM 1572 Views
True. Ghavrel - 31/07/2010 08:20:28 AM 1254 Views
Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. lord-of-shadow - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM 1330 Views
Quite. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:18 AM 1196 Views
snoopcester - 30/07/2010 10:31:20 AM 1166 Views
"mentally monogamous" is one of the stupidest expressions I've ever heard. i can't even comment. *NM* Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:56:15 PM 879 Views
XD [hi5!] *NM* (beat.) - 31/07/2010 03:07:09 AM 619 Views
This. *NM* Avendesora - 02/08/2010 04:42:59 PM 519 Views
Every man can't cheat every day, because not every man is in a relationship *NM* Helene - 31/07/2010 07:54:31 AM 586 Views
I love my husband. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 09:44:51 PM 1346 Views
Be thankful you can't read his mind. Ignorance is bliss *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:17:38 PM 598 Views
Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:33:08 PM 1118 Views
You mean like one would appreciate fine art? Nothing sexual about that *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:35:35 PM 647 Views
Heh. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:41:34 PM 1197 Views
Would you honestly get upset at him for that? StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:39:50 PM 1252 Views
Personally, I would say... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 10:17:37 PM 1203 Views
That's kind of where I was coming from. StormCrow - 02/08/2010 03:33:37 PM 1449 Views
Hmm snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM 1384 Views
I totally know that i was just using it to start a conversation LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:49:05 PM 1165 Views
Liar! snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:55:03 PM 1139 Views
*dumps a gallon of fresh sardines on your head* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 11:23:33 PM 1248 Views
...now I want some cake *NM* beetnemesis - 29/07/2010 11:21:18 PM 522 Views
me too, I have chocolate cake in the kitchen Delireus - 30/07/2010 06:00:24 AM 1239 Views
I don't know, sis. StarrBecca - 30/07/2010 03:52:21 AM 1375 Views
Biologically designed.... Ectheledhel - 30/07/2010 03:54:00 AM 1276 Views
Bastard... Joel - 03/08/2010 09:52:41 AM 1294 Views
It'd be too long Joel. Ectheledhel - 03/08/2010 03:38:19 PM 1228 Views
Fair enough. Joel - 03/08/2010 03:50:55 PM 1256 Views
I feel confident in saying that all men think mentally at somepoint in a sexual way toward... everynametaken - 30/07/2010 07:06:57 AM 1314 Views
This. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:11:17 AM 703 Views
Utter nonsense. Macharius - 30/07/2010 01:57:42 PM 1262 Views
Works out well for the men. StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:12:53 PM 1249 Views
No. Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:58:06 PM 1330 Views
one major porblem with this whole thing random thoughts - 30/07/2010 08:33:18 PM 1129 Views
That's the exact point, she'll get skewed results due to the self selected nature of her study group Helene - 31/07/2010 08:02:54 AM 1294 Views
Not sure it is that much different for the ladies random thoughts - 01/08/2010 04:17:39 AM 1210 Views
Oh, I wouldn't doubt that, either. Helene - 06/08/2010 02:28:35 PM 1372 Views
~shrugs~ damookster - 31/07/2010 03:40:17 AM 1110 Views
<3 *NM* Rebekah - 31/07/2010 10:21:38 AM 537 Views
"Don't let yourself go — there is nothing less valued than a commodity that no one else wants" Foxhead - 31/07/2010 09:52:29 AM 1602 Views
having reread this article, theres's actually very little that i disagree with *NM* Foxhead - 31/07/2010 10:04:43 AM 826 Views
If we're talking 'mentally' SilverWarder - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM 1406 Views
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