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It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM
Now, I definitely don't think it's an excuse for cheating, but science points to humans not being naturally monogamous, which leads me to think that most guys likely have sexual thoughts about women who aren't their partners.

Of course "everyone" is, you know, a little ridiculous, if for no other reason than the fact that a fair number of men are asexual. But I feel fairly confident in asserting that males who don't have sexual thoughts about other women are, well, in a fairly small minority.
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Do All Men Cheat? LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 09:03:09 PM 1634 Views
Is it just me, or does the paying kind of make her something else than a "mistress"? Legolas - 29/07/2010 09:30:56 PM 1203 Views
that was the idea i'm aware the article is FULL of holes *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:16:00 PM 520 Views
Her "100%" claim was ambiguous in the worst possible way. Tim - 29/07/2010 10:21:13 PM 1155 Views
I dunno, there's really only one interpretation that makes sense. Legolas - 29/07/2010 10:29:48 PM 1246 Views
Well, gay men have had the reputation for being exceptionally promiscuous, so don't discount them. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:33:45 AM 625 Views
Sure, but it's not women they look at and think about. *NM* Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:55:33 AM 558 Views
Payment is payment, whether in bills or a wedding ring *NM* Cannoli - 29/07/2010 11:31:09 PM 566 Views
She's right about one thing: Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 09:37:38 PM 1210 Views
but it's not like that's limited to men. LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:20:21 PM 1081 Views
I knew it! *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:33:20 PM 515 Views
That's true ironclad - 30/07/2010 12:27:02 AM 982 Views
For some men its not so long...that sounded dirty didn't it? Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 12:37:28 AM 1154 Views
I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM 1338 Views
Are you talking about gay and asexual men? Tim - 30/07/2010 12:44:44 AM 1091 Views
I think we're not understanding each other here. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:47:09 AM 1254 Views
Sorry darlin you just don't know what it's like to be a man Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 01:21:48 AM 1135 Views
apparently being a man includes condescending. LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 01:28:20 AM 1022 Views
You don't think we talk? I'm not just puffing gas here Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:04:59 AM 1156 Views
i'm just trying to say that totally discounting what she was saying was rude LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:16:03 AM 1243 Views
Point taken Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:21:21 AM 1192 Views
still, that being said... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:31:11 AM 1099 Views
Or not. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:48 AM 1127 Views
You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM 1205 Views
It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM 1136 Views
No offense, but that post is rather useless as long as you don't define "sexual thoughts". Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:54:37 AM 1411 Views
True. Ghavrel - 31/07/2010 08:20:28 AM 1100 Views
Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. lord-of-shadow - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM 1158 Views
Quite. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:18 AM 1037 Views
snoopcester - 30/07/2010 10:31:20 AM 1004 Views
"mentally monogamous" is one of the stupidest expressions I've ever heard. i can't even comment. *NM* Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:56:15 PM 797 Views
XD [hi5!] *NM* (beat.) - 31/07/2010 03:07:09 AM 512 Views
This. *NM* Avendesora - 02/08/2010 04:42:59 PM 425 Views
Every man can't cheat every day, because not every man is in a relationship *NM* Helene - 31/07/2010 07:54:31 AM 499 Views
I love my husband. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 09:44:51 PM 1185 Views
Be thankful you can't read his mind. Ignorance is bliss *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:17:38 PM 514 Views
Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:33:08 PM 969 Views
You mean like one would appreciate fine art? Nothing sexual about that *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:35:35 PM 560 Views
Heh. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:41:34 PM 1039 Views
Would you honestly get upset at him for that? StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:39:50 PM 1077 Views
Personally, I would say... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 10:17:37 PM 1015 Views
That's kind of where I was coming from. StormCrow - 02/08/2010 03:33:37 PM 1293 Views
Hmm snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM 1215 Views
I totally know that i was just using it to start a conversation LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:49:05 PM 985 Views
Liar! snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:55:03 PM 972 Views
*dumps a gallon of fresh sardines on your head* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 11:23:33 PM 1065 Views
...now I want some cake *NM* beetnemesis - 29/07/2010 11:21:18 PM 438 Views
me too, I have chocolate cake in the kitchen Delireus - 30/07/2010 06:00:24 AM 1066 Views
I don't know, sis. StarrBecca - 30/07/2010 03:52:21 AM 1191 Views
Biologically designed.... Ectheledhel - 30/07/2010 03:54:00 AM 1120 Views
Bastard... Joel - 03/08/2010 09:52:41 AM 1135 Views
It'd be too long Joel. Ectheledhel - 03/08/2010 03:38:19 PM 1054 Views
Fair enough. Joel - 03/08/2010 03:50:55 PM 1096 Views
I feel confident in saying that all men think mentally at somepoint in a sexual way toward... everynametaken - 30/07/2010 07:06:57 AM 1145 Views
This. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:11:17 AM 601 Views
Utter nonsense. Macharius - 30/07/2010 01:57:42 PM 1083 Views
Works out well for the men. StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:12:53 PM 1072 Views
No. Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:58:06 PM 1178 Views
one major porblem with this whole thing random thoughts - 30/07/2010 08:33:18 PM 971 Views
That's the exact point, she'll get skewed results due to the self selected nature of her study group Helene - 31/07/2010 08:02:54 AM 1113 Views
Not sure it is that much different for the ladies random thoughts - 01/08/2010 04:17:39 AM 1053 Views
Oh, I wouldn't doubt that, either. Helene - 06/08/2010 02:28:35 PM 1213 Views
~shrugs~ damookster - 31/07/2010 03:40:17 AM 939 Views
<3 *NM* Rebekah - 31/07/2010 10:21:38 AM 456 Views
"Don't let yourself go — there is nothing less valued than a commodity that no one else wants" Foxhead - 31/07/2010 09:52:29 AM 1394 Views
having reread this article, theres's actually very little that i disagree with *NM* Foxhead - 31/07/2010 10:04:43 AM 736 Views
If we're talking 'mentally' SilverWarder - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM 1241 Views
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