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Re: A kindred spirit! anjumfaz Send a noteboard - 11/08/2010 07:15:50 PM
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I hope you two aren't related ;) Technically speaking, her family doesn't know about us. She is always worried about being in public together because, according to her, every single Pakistani knows someone who knows your family!


My family there is from India tho. And there are tons of brown people in Texas :P And in Canada!
And I hear you on the everyone knowing everyone thing...it's true! Being a 24 year old, young Indian girl, you gotta be careful about who sees you with who, especially a guy who is not Indian!

You're not dating a white guy by chance, are you? That would make my situation much easier if I knew there were other couples out there like us!


I totally am....lol. Ive been in a relationship with a Romanian guy for the past four years, and brought it up with my parents last year because we want to get married. Drama, drama, drama....it's still not resolved!
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I need some advice on learning a language - 11/08/2010 05:27:52 PM 870 Views
For the amount of money that the Rosetta Stone software costs... - 11/08/2010 05:35:37 PM 767 Views
Haha not quite; Texas. Also why I was so surprised *NM* - 11/08/2010 05:44:28 PM 311 Views
where in Tx is your g/f from? - 12/08/2010 05:44:03 AM 698 Views
If thats true then I definitely can't tell you! *NM* - 12/08/2010 06:15:24 AM 310 Views
It shouldn't be too hard to find a book + CD you can learn from. Why is software so important? *NM* - 11/08/2010 05:38:48 PM 356 Views
Because my free time consists of 2 hours before bed *NM* - 11/08/2010 05:45:16 PM 309 Views
And? - 11/08/2010 06:17:22 PM 710 Views
Oh I thought you were asking why I don't go to a class *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:24:43 PM 311 Views
find a new girlfriend? - 11/08/2010 05:45:19 PM 757 Views
Yeah, it would be silly to waste your time on Devanagari when you need to learn the Arabic alphabet. - 11/08/2010 05:48:22 PM 808 Views
Very helpful! Thanks! - 11/08/2010 06:09:09 PM 740 Views
Hindi is pretty much the same as Urdu speaking wise.... - 11/08/2010 06:17:50 PM 818 Views
My girlfriend has family in Canada... - 11/08/2010 06:23:35 PM 729 Views
Seems like after two years, it might be time to let her family know about you... *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:43:55 PM 323 Views
We're about at that point - 11/08/2010 06:48:42 PM 661 Views
That makes sense, yes. - 11/08/2010 06:52:53 PM 720 Views
I know the fear, yes - 11/08/2010 07:41:16 PM 777 Views
Is your status in society the same in Indian culture as it is in Pakistani culture? - 11/08/2010 07:46:48 PM 794 Views
Re: Is your status in society the same in Indian culture as it is in Pakistani culture? - 11/08/2010 08:01:44 PM 798 Views
Rant all you want! - 11/08/2010 08:18:54 PM 649 Views
Oh my goodness.... - 11/08/2010 08:21:16 PM 868 Views
I have family in Texas, lol - 11/08/2010 06:50:25 PM 712 Views
A kindred spirit! - 11/08/2010 07:06:25 PM 783 Views
Re: A kindred spirit! - 11/08/2010 07:15:50 PM 714 Views
Wow I'm not alone! - 11/08/2010 07:27:02 PM 731 Views
You are right, - 11/08/2010 07:37:15 PM 760 Views
I hear you - 11/08/2010 07:43:07 PM 807 Views
Re: I hear you - 11/08/2010 08:09:27 PM 859 Views
I learn something new everyday. I did not know that. Fascinating - 11/08/2010 08:17:16 PM 703 Views
I think you're missing the important thing here. Why does she want you to learn it? *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:32:58 PM 316 Views
Because she speaks to her family/friends in her language and doesnt want me left out - 11/08/2010 06:38:00 PM 708 Views
Okay, but none of them speak English? *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:42:25 PM 342 Views
Yes but its really a cultural thing - 11/08/2010 06:46:01 PM 694 Views
It makes sense. - 12/08/2010 07:47:12 PM 858 Views
It does - 12/08/2010 07:55:31 PM 956 Views
No, I haven't read them all. - 12/08/2010 08:08:14 PM 605 Views
Why shouldn't she? *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:44:14 PM 320 Views
Re: Why shouldn't she? - 12/08/2010 07:54:47 PM 669 Views
why not? it's a part of her and languages are fun. - 12/08/2010 03:33:53 AM 701 Views
Re: languages are fun. That depends. - 12/08/2010 08:03:06 PM 730 Views
My advice - 11/08/2010 07:28:39 PM 983 Views
I want to learn Romanian - 11/08/2010 07:43:09 PM 652 Views
Re: I want to learn Romanian - 11/08/2010 08:36:46 PM 749 Views
I'm definitely going to check that out! *NM* - 11/08/2010 07:44:18 PM 338 Views
You too, huh? - 11/08/2010 08:07:44 PM 731 Views
Yeah, I love the Finnish language - 11/08/2010 08:47:09 PM 678 Views
Ohhh. That's a much better reason than mine. - 11/08/2010 08:49:34 PM 695 Views
Ok as an urdu speaking paki i can tell you a few things - 12/08/2010 05:41:52 AM 899 Views
Or... - 12/08/2010 11:00:42 AM 724 Views
Re: Or... - 12/08/2010 04:57:59 PM 733 Views
Good luck and God bless. - 12/08/2010 11:50:18 AM 666 Views
youre moving to Karachi? *NM* - 12/08/2010 04:59:25 PM 288 Views
Er, no. - 12/08/2010 05:16:51 PM 1013 Views

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