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No, I haven't read them all. Palatine Send a noteboard - 12/08/2010 08:08:14 PM
I'm not sure you've read all the replies in the thread, because some of them have significantly more info. Short summary: they've been together for 2 years, his gf is using this present month of Ramadan to see whether she thinks they should move on together and come out to the family, or break up. If they do come out to the family, I'm certain expectations will be of a marriage within the next couple of years. In that case, he will no longer be "just the boyfriend".


Good for them. When it reaches the state of expected marriage, then it's a great idea for him to learn Urdu. For now, I think he should hold off. And this is a bad thought: I hope she doesn't use his decision to learn it as a factor in whether they should "move on."
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I need some advice on learning a language Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 05:27:52 PM 889 Views
For the amount of money that the Rosetta Stone software costs... Larry - 11/08/2010 05:35:37 PM 788 Views
Haha not quite; Texas. Also why I was so surprised *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 05:44:28 PM 321 Views
where in Tx is your g/f from? Aisha - 12/08/2010 05:44:03 AM 717 Views
If thats true then I definitely can't tell you! *NM* Dark Knight - 12/08/2010 06:15:24 AM 331 Views
It shouldn't be too hard to find a book + CD you can learn from. Why is software so important? *NM* Tim - 11/08/2010 05:38:48 PM 368 Views
Because my free time consists of 2 hours before bed *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 05:45:16 PM 323 Views
And? Tim - 11/08/2010 06:17:22 PM 730 Views
Oh I thought you were asking why I don't go to a class *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:24:43 PM 320 Views
find a new girlfriend? random thoughts - 11/08/2010 05:45:19 PM 772 Views
Yeah, it would be silly to waste your time on Devanagari when you need to learn the Arabic alphabet. Legolas - 11/08/2010 05:48:22 PM 826 Views
Very helpful! Thanks! Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:09:09 PM 758 Views
Hindi is pretty much the same as Urdu speaking wise.... anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 06:17:50 PM 837 Views
My girlfriend has family in Canada... Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:23:35 PM 742 Views
Seems like after two years, it might be time to let her family know about you... *NM* Legolas - 11/08/2010 06:43:55 PM 333 Views
We're about at that point Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:48:42 PM 692 Views
That makes sense, yes. Legolas - 11/08/2010 06:52:53 PM 743 Views
I know the fear, yes anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 07:41:16 PM 793 Views
Is your status in society the same in Indian culture as it is in Pakistani culture? Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:46:48 PM 811 Views
Re: Is your status in society the same in Indian culture as it is in Pakistani culture? anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 08:01:44 PM 817 Views
Rant all you want! Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 08:18:54 PM 663 Views
Oh my goodness.... anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 08:21:16 PM 885 Views
I have family in Texas, lol anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 06:50:25 PM 733 Views
A kindred spirit! Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:06:25 PM 797 Views
Re: A kindred spirit! anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 07:15:50 PM 743 Views
Wow I'm not alone! Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:27:02 PM 748 Views
You are right, anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 07:37:15 PM 785 Views
I hear you Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:43:07 PM 822 Views
Re: I hear you anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 08:09:27 PM 876 Views
I learn something new everyday. I did not know that. Fascinating Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 08:17:16 PM 721 Views
There are like half a dozen movies about that topic... safe to say you're not alone. *NM* Legolas - 11/08/2010 08:06:30 PM 309 Views
The clash between new generation and old makes for some good movie material *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 08:20:40 PM 335 Views
I think you're missing the important thing here. Why does she want you to learn it? *NM* Palatine - 11/08/2010 06:32:58 PM 326 Views
Because she speaks to her family/friends in her language and doesnt want me left out Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:38:00 PM 725 Views
Okay, but none of them speak English? *NM* Palatine - 11/08/2010 06:42:25 PM 357 Views
Yes but its really a cultural thing Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:46:01 PM 708 Views
It makes sense. Palatine - 12/08/2010 07:47:12 PM 880 Views
It does Floffe - 12/08/2010 07:55:31 PM 971 Views
No, I haven't read them all. Palatine - 12/08/2010 08:08:14 PM 623 Views
Why shouldn't she? *NM* Legolas - 11/08/2010 06:44:14 PM 333 Views
Re: Why shouldn't she? Palatine - 12/08/2010 07:54:47 PM 688 Views
why not? it's a part of her and languages are fun. LadyLorraine - 12/08/2010 03:33:53 AM 719 Views
Re: languages are fun. That depends. Palatine - 12/08/2010 08:03:06 PM 747 Views
My advice Bramhodoulos - 11/08/2010 07:28:39 PM 998 Views
I want to learn Romanian anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 07:43:09 PM 669 Views
Re: I want to learn Romanian Bramhodoulos - 11/08/2010 08:36:46 PM 763 Views
I'm definitely going to check that out! *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:44:18 PM 367 Views
You too, huh? Legolas - 11/08/2010 08:07:44 PM 749 Views
Yeah, I love the Finnish language Bramhodoulos - 11/08/2010 08:47:09 PM 696 Views
Ohhh. That's a much better reason than mine. Legolas - 11/08/2010 08:49:34 PM 727 Views
Seconded. The Routledge Colloquial series is really good. *NM* Tim - 11/08/2010 09:45:39 PM 290 Views
Fuck Rosetta Stone unless you're a complete dumbass at languages. Tom - 12/08/2010 03:29:15 AM 787 Views
Ok as an urdu speaking paki i can tell you a few things Aisha - 12/08/2010 05:41:52 AM 916 Views
Or... ironclad - 12/08/2010 11:00:42 AM 741 Views
Re: Or... Aisha - 12/08/2010 04:57:59 PM 751 Views
Good luck and God bless. Joel - 12/08/2010 11:50:18 AM 682 Views
youre moving to Karachi? *NM* Aisha - 12/08/2010 04:59:25 PM 299 Views
Er, no. Joel - 12/08/2010 05:16:51 PM 1028 Views
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