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No, I haven't read them all. Palatine Send a noteboard - 12/08/2010 08:08:14 PM
I'm not sure you've read all the replies in the thread, because some of them have significantly more info. Short summary: they've been together for 2 years, his gf is using this present month of Ramadan to see whether she thinks they should move on together and come out to the family, or break up. If they do come out to the family, I'm certain expectations will be of a marriage within the next couple of years. In that case, he will no longer be "just the boyfriend".


Good for them. When it reaches the state of expected marriage, then it's a great idea for him to learn Urdu. For now, I think he should hold off. And this is a bad thought: I hope she doesn't use his decision to learn it as a factor in whether they should "move on."
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I need some advice on learning a language Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 05:27:52 PM 755 Views
For the amount of money that the Rosetta Stone software costs... Larry - 11/08/2010 05:35:37 PM 651 Views
Haha not quite; Texas. Also why I was so surprised *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 05:44:28 PM 267 Views
where in Tx is your g/f from? Aisha - 12/08/2010 05:44:03 AM 576 Views
If thats true then I definitely can't tell you! *NM* Dark Knight - 12/08/2010 06:15:24 AM 256 Views
It shouldn't be too hard to find a book + CD you can learn from. Why is software so important? *NM* Tim - 11/08/2010 05:38:48 PM 305 Views
Because my free time consists of 2 hours before bed *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 05:45:16 PM 261 Views
And? Tim - 11/08/2010 06:17:22 PM 583 Views
Oh I thought you were asking why I don't go to a class *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:24:43 PM 253 Views
find a new girlfriend? random thoughts - 11/08/2010 05:45:19 PM 644 Views
Yeah, it would be silly to waste your time on Devanagari when you need to learn the Arabic alphabet. Legolas - 11/08/2010 05:48:22 PM 673 Views
Very helpful! Thanks! Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:09:09 PM 629 Views
Hindi is pretty much the same as Urdu speaking wise.... anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 06:17:50 PM 696 Views
My girlfriend has family in Canada... Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:23:35 PM 607 Views
Seems like after two years, it might be time to let her family know about you... *NM* Legolas - 11/08/2010 06:43:55 PM 274 Views
We're about at that point Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:48:42 PM 545 Views
That makes sense, yes. Legolas - 11/08/2010 06:52:53 PM 609 Views
I know the fear, yes anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 07:41:16 PM 663 Views
Is your status in society the same in Indian culture as it is in Pakistani culture? Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:46:48 PM 673 Views
Re: Is your status in society the same in Indian culture as it is in Pakistani culture? anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 08:01:44 PM 679 Views
Rant all you want! Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 08:18:54 PM 528 Views
Oh my goodness.... anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 08:21:16 PM 761 Views
I have family in Texas, lol anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 06:50:25 PM 606 Views
A kindred spirit! Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:06:25 PM 671 Views
Re: A kindred spirit! anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 07:15:50 PM 602 Views
Wow I'm not alone! Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:27:02 PM 618 Views
You are right, anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 07:37:15 PM 653 Views
I hear you Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:43:07 PM 689 Views
Re: I hear you anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 08:09:27 PM 749 Views
I learn something new everyday. I did not know that. Fascinating Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 08:17:16 PM 602 Views
There are like half a dozen movies about that topic... safe to say you're not alone. *NM* Legolas - 11/08/2010 08:06:30 PM 249 Views
The clash between new generation and old makes for some good movie material *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 08:20:40 PM 277 Views
I think you're missing the important thing here. Why does she want you to learn it? *NM* Palatine - 11/08/2010 06:32:58 PM 252 Views
Because she speaks to her family/friends in her language and doesnt want me left out Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:38:00 PM 601 Views
Okay, but none of them speak English? *NM* Palatine - 11/08/2010 06:42:25 PM 283 Views
Yes but its really a cultural thing Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 06:46:01 PM 588 Views
It makes sense. Palatine - 12/08/2010 07:47:12 PM 740 Views
It does Floffe - 12/08/2010 07:55:31 PM 843 Views
No, I haven't read them all. Palatine - 12/08/2010 08:08:14 PM 505 Views
Why shouldn't she? *NM* Legolas - 11/08/2010 06:44:14 PM 263 Views
Re: Why shouldn't she? Palatine - 12/08/2010 07:54:47 PM 561 Views
why not? it's a part of her and languages are fun. LadyLorraine - 12/08/2010 03:33:53 AM 585 Views
Re: languages are fun. That depends. Palatine - 12/08/2010 08:03:06 PM 618 Views
My advice Bramhodoulos - 11/08/2010 07:28:39 PM 871 Views
I want to learn Romanian anjumfaz - 11/08/2010 07:43:09 PM 546 Views
Re: I want to learn Romanian Bramhodoulos - 11/08/2010 08:36:46 PM 635 Views
I'm definitely going to check that out! *NM* Dark Knight - 11/08/2010 07:44:18 PM 286 Views
You too, huh? Legolas - 11/08/2010 08:07:44 PM 625 Views
Yeah, I love the Finnish language Bramhodoulos - 11/08/2010 08:47:09 PM 569 Views
Ohhh. That's a much better reason than mine. Legolas - 11/08/2010 08:49:34 PM 576 Views
Seconded. The Routledge Colloquial series is really good. *NM* Tim - 11/08/2010 09:45:39 PM 232 Views
Fuck Rosetta Stone unless you're a complete dumbass at languages. Tom - 12/08/2010 03:29:15 AM 600 Views
Ok as an urdu speaking paki i can tell you a few things Aisha - 12/08/2010 05:41:52 AM 770 Views
Or... ironclad - 12/08/2010 11:00:42 AM 598 Views
Re: Or... Aisha - 12/08/2010 04:57:59 PM 615 Views
Good luck and God bless. Joel - 12/08/2010 11:50:18 AM 557 Views
youre moving to Karachi? *NM* Aisha - 12/08/2010 04:59:25 PM 238 Views
Er, no. Joel - 12/08/2010 05:16:51 PM 889 Views
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