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I generally don't because BlackAdder Send a noteboard - 22/09/2010 10:43:38 PM
Well, if they don't want to tell me who they are, they don't get transferred. I learned that on day one. It doesn't matter how sensitive the manner of the call. I screen calls for both our Chair and Executive Admin, as well as anyone whom might call the wrong number.

Exactly.
I was a little surprised you have to ask in the first place, but with the rest of the replies coming in now, it seems to be US standards not to introduce yourself to the company/person you called first? How is that for etiquette? :confused:

these days, when I call a company, it's often a central number from which I get forwarded to the department/center I'm actually interested in. I would not give any personal info to the first line unless there was a good reason to do so (e.g., if they could help me without transferring, or if the information would help them transfer me to the right place, etc.).
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. - 22/09/2010 08:19:28 PM 1588 Views
I think "May I ask who's calling" is more polite. - 22/09/2010 08:26:55 PM 1009 Views
. - 22/09/2010 08:31:17 PM 971 Views
Well, but... - 22/09/2010 08:42:22 PM 1053 Views
. - 22/09/2010 09:05:01 PM 926 Views
you may not BE a receptionist... - 22/09/2010 09:20:09 PM 1079 Views
"And your name, so I can tell (the person you asked for)?" *NM* - 23/09/2010 12:34:18 AM 469 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? - 22/09/2010 08:33:24 PM 1044 Views
. - 22/09/2010 08:38:45 PM 878 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? - 22/09/2010 08:55:34 PM 1228 Views
Well, the whole asking permission bit is part of being polite. *NM* - 22/09/2010 09:05:43 PM 434 Views
. - 22/09/2010 09:06:47 PM 927 Views
Not so good for the phone answering, then. *NM* - 22/09/2010 11:29:34 PM 469 Views
Hmm... - 22/09/2010 08:59:23 PM 1083 Views
It's "who" *NM* - 22/09/2010 09:50:15 PM 464 Views
Quite true - 22/09/2010 10:07:46 PM 1030 Views
I say, "May I ask who's calling?" - 22/09/2010 09:00:10 PM 1020 Views
What do you do if they say "No" ? - 22/09/2010 09:43:42 PM 959 Views
Than you say. ''Ok." They may have a reason for not disclosing their name. - 22/09/2010 09:49:56 PM 972 Views
That reason is often that they are nutters. - 22/09/2010 10:29:19 PM 1081 Views
I hate it when people pull the "attorney-client privilege" thing. - 22/09/2010 11:31:01 PM 884 Views
They are almost invariably nutters. - 23/09/2010 01:45:41 PM 1327 Views
Tools! - 22/09/2010 10:13:32 PM 948 Views
I usually ask: "Who am I speaking with, again?" - 22/09/2010 09:12:29 PM 1058 Views
I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer - 22/09/2010 09:14:58 PM 1185 Views
^ this. *NM* - 22/09/2010 09:23:00 PM 447 Views
+1 *NM* - 22/09/2010 10:10:59 PM 528 Views
I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" - 22/09/2010 09:27:05 PM 1109 Views
Re: I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" - 22/09/2010 09:40:10 PM 1115 Views
well, i can sympathize with that a bit at least - 22/09/2010 10:00:34 PM 1249 Views
"Who should I say is calling?" *NM* - 22/09/2010 09:41:57 PM 440 Views
This. It's polite, and asks the question correctly. - 23/09/2010 02:05:01 AM 929 Views
I usually say "Who may I say is calling?" but that works too... - 23/09/2010 01:59:03 PM 1334 Views
language games..... - 22/09/2010 09:42:35 PM 1007 Views
There would be apoplectic outcries if I answered the phone in such a way - 22/09/2010 09:45:56 PM 1159 Views
yeah.... i'm happy i get to be informal! - 23/09/2010 02:58:31 AM 1043 Views
Who is this? is unprofessional - 22/09/2010 09:45:05 PM 1035 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional - 22/09/2010 09:48:58 PM 1211 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional - 22/09/2010 09:54:13 PM 1009 Views
it is not US standards. *NM* - 22/09/2010 10:03:47 PM 475 Views
good. *NM* - 22/09/2010 10:13:22 PM 525 Views
I generally don't because - 22/09/2010 10:43:38 PM 902 Views
well fair enough... - 23/09/2010 08:07:08 AM 998 Views
it doesn't matter if you HAVE to know their name. - 22/09/2010 10:07:18 PM 1077 Views
You are being silly and immature. - 22/09/2010 09:49:20 PM 886 Views
Thanks for your input? - 22/09/2010 10:17:21 PM 1106 Views
I usually say, "B*tch, who you be!?" - 22/09/2010 10:13:57 PM 990 Views
Do you pronounce that with a click sound? - 22/09/2010 10:15:29 PM 1017 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? - 22/09/2010 10:29:33 PM 831 Views
Perfect. *NM* - 23/09/2010 12:47:14 AM 521 Views
No you are *NM* - 23/09/2010 11:53:07 AM 512 Views
Who is this? always comes across as rude. *NM* - 22/09/2010 11:17:31 PM 444 Views
"Who may I say is calling, please?" is short and polite. - 23/09/2010 01:13:43 AM 962 Views
when someone asks me "may I ask who's calling?"... - 23/09/2010 03:29:30 AM 930 Views
that's because you're a tool - 23/09/2010 03:39:08 AM 1264 Views
because it amuses me *NM* - 23/09/2010 03:41:18 AM 469 Views
Huh - 15/07/2015 02:06:55 PM 549 Views

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