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Good for you nossy Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 03:20:24 PM
That's one of the strange things. I think I've been really rational and calm. Some tears, but no rage... yet. We've been talking a lot and probably been more honest with each other than we have been in years. I think I'm going to take advantage of a friend's offer to stay at her house for a weekend. Just to get away and think.

I could be wrong, but I always say that we frequently lose that in the day to day -- the ability to really talk and get things out. Maybe that'll be your balm, rather than anger.

And I do think it's a good idea to get out for a few days, but you should also take a journal. People who love you are going to be throwing all sorts of thoughts at you as you tell them. It's important to stay centered on what you think, in my uninformed opinion.
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