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Okay, then let me be the one to say... ironclad Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 04:04:11 PM
I know I haven't posted her in a while, but I just kinda had to get this off my chest.

My husband has to travel to another state twice a year for work. He's gone for typically 3 weeks each time. He came home from once such trip on Friday. Something was different. When confronted, he admitted to cheating on me. 12 years of marriage down the drain. He says he loves me and that he made a mistake, blah blah blah...
Wants to know if I'll forgive him. That he wants to be with me. Oh and we do have 2 kids. This just really sucks. Here I thought we were at a good place in our marriage. I guess he disagreed.


...without knowing anything more about you, your husband and your marriage:
If that happened just once and he is sorry and regretful and everything else is peachy, see if you can try to forgive him, even though what he did was wrong and hurtful. This does not have to be the end, if there is still so much love :)
Good luck.
*MySmiley*

You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.
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