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Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... lil lady Send a noteboard - 05/10/2010 04:07:33 PM
I know I haven't posted her in a while, but I just kinda had to get this off my chest.

My husband has to travel to another state twice a year for work. He's gone for typically 3 weeks each time. He came home from once such trip on Friday. Something was different. When confronted, he admitted to cheating on me. 12 years of marriage down the drain. He says he loves me and that he made a mistake, blah blah blah...
Wants to know if I'll forgive him. That he wants to be with me. Oh and we do have 2 kids. This just really sucks. Here I thought we were at a good place in our marriage. I guess he disagreed.


...without knowing anything more about you, your husband and your marriage:
If that happened just once and he is sorry and regretful and everything else is peachy, see if you can try to forgive him, even though what he did was wrong and hurtful. This does not have to be the end, if there is still so much love
Good luck.


Here's one of the really hard parts though... He still has to go back to that state twice every year for work. He'll be back in the spring. I won't be able to trust him. It will be in my head the entire time he's there. I don't want to live like that.
I'm still me.
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So I just had the worst weekend of my life... lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:01:34 PM 1041 Views
that's really tough nossy - 05/10/2010 03:09:44 PM 645 Views
Re: that's really tough lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:16:41 PM 825 Views
Good for you nossy - 05/10/2010 03:20:24 PM 606 Views
Re: Good for you lil lady - 05/10/2010 03:30:58 PM 809 Views
Re: Good for you nossy - 05/10/2010 03:51:14 PM 665 Views
I don't know what to say. Avendesora - 05/10/2010 03:51:23 PM 606 Views
Okay, then let me be the one to say... ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:04:11 PM 750 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... lil lady - 05/10/2010 04:07:33 PM 872 Views
I know, that'll be the toughest part ironclad - 05/10/2010 04:11:56 PM 594 Views
Re: Okay, then let me be the one to say... Macharius - 05/10/2010 04:50:44 PM 621 Views
Or nossy - 05/10/2010 04:58:57 PM 639 Views
Yeah. Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:06:11 PM 610 Views
Right nossy - 05/10/2010 05:19:29 PM 604 Views
Re: Or Macharius - 05/10/2010 05:56:19 PM 552 Views
It's possible Sareitha Sedai - 05/10/2010 05:00:57 PM 609 Views
That's irrelavant. Palatine - 05/10/2010 05:13:00 PM 592 Views
I agree with what Jens said (similarly not knowing any other details) LadyLorraine - 05/10/2010 05:25:18 PM 574 Views
I'm sorry. Camilla - 05/10/2010 05:02:16 PM 576 Views
What happened exactly? Dan - 05/10/2010 05:52:23 PM 613 Views
Re: What happened exactly? lil lady - 05/10/2010 06:01:42 PM 901 Views
I'm really sorry to hear that... Wulf`gar - 05/10/2010 06:04:54 PM 574 Views
That sucks and there is no easy answer random thoughts - 05/10/2010 06:28:24 PM 571 Views
Cripes. Missa Sedai - 05/10/2010 11:17:21 PM 571 Views
Get yourself tested for STDs ßelals Girl - 06/10/2010 12:43:18 AM 628 Views
*hugs* globug0822 - 06/10/2010 06:00:40 AM 536 Views
That's terrible; I wish I could offer advice, but support and prayers are the best I can do. Joel - 06/10/2010 06:18:02 AM 609 Views
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