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But does one sided morality work? random thoughts Send a noteboard - 12/10/2010 05:38:56 PM
The banks will operate in what they consider their own best interest without regards to your wellbeing. They will argue that their first obligation is to their stock holders. Wouldn't a lean holder’s first obligation be to their family? You did not enter a blood oath you enter a legal contract. A legal contract that leaves you the legal right to walk away at the cost of the home and your credit rating. Is it immoral to exercise that legal right? Is it rational to act against your own best interest by behaving in a “moral” manner with and company that feels no obligations about treating you in a moral way or their own debts for that matter? If a bank has the ability to walk away from a huge amount of debt they would do so without thinking about. They do not feel constrained by any concept of a gentleman’s contract.
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Is walking away from a mortgage immoral? random thoughts - 12/10/2010 04:45:43 PM 1538 Views
Just as a contract is a two way street - SilverWarder - 12/10/2010 05:12:09 PM 1024 Views
do we have a moral obligation to society? random thoughts - 12/10/2010 06:00:17 PM 1008 Views
It's a good question SilverWarder - 14/10/2010 02:41:21 AM 917 Views
Sort of have to disagree... Antigone - 13/10/2010 02:52:07 AM 985 Views
That's not true actually SilverWarder - 14/10/2010 02:35:43 AM 916 Views
Of course it's immoral. Sareitha Sedai - 12/10/2010 05:13:16 PM 989 Views
But does one sided morality work? random thoughts - 12/10/2010 05:38:56 PM 1107 Views
You asked about the morality of walking away when the borrower still has the ability to pay. Sareitha Sedai - 12/10/2010 07:31:10 PM 906 Views
A company or organization cannot act morally or immorally? I strongly disagree. *NM* Legolas - 12/10/2010 07:50:42 PM 446 Views
No, it cannot. However the individuals making the decisions for the company can. *NM* Cannoli - 12/10/2010 08:48:23 PM 390 Views
If banks can not behave in moral manner why should people be expected to behave in moral manner? random thoughts - 12/10/2010 08:07:56 PM 970 Views
I'm not absolved of my obligations based on the bad behaviors of others. Sareitha Sedai - 12/10/2010 08:25:33 PM 883 Views
but who you owe obligations to is a factor random thoughts - 12/10/2010 09:03:04 PM 950 Views
Because it's their moral obligation. Morality is not a trade, you act morally because it is right Cannoli - 12/10/2010 08:47:41 PM 1084 Views
you also use reason and logic to decide where your loyalty rest random thoughts - 12/10/2010 09:16:51 PM 992 Views
You have not explained how it IS the banks' fault Cannoli - 15/10/2010 01:30:10 PM 1035 Views
That's the only kind of morality there is! What the hell is wrong with you? Cannoli - 12/10/2010 08:15:55 PM 936 Views
nothing wrong with me but I think you are off your meds again random thoughts - 12/10/2010 09:34:33 PM 926 Views
Re: nothing wrong with me but I think you are off your meds again Cannoli - 15/10/2010 02:50:49 PM 1431 Views
well I really can't argue with the wrong is wrong end of story belief system random thoughts - 15/10/2010 05:40:22 PM 1122 Views
A contract isn't a promise; it's a legal agreement. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/10/2010 06:25:24 PM 462 Views
Which is why contracts have to be pages and pages long and combed over by bloodsucking lawyers. LiterateDog - 12/10/2010 06:39:18 PM 968 Views
I would agree with you if contracts didn't provide for breaking them. Ghavrel - 12/10/2010 07:33:15 PM 816 Views
Hrm. Sareitha Sedai - 12/10/2010 07:35:38 PM 1038 Views
did you take a personal oath in front of god and your loved ones to pay the loan back? *NM* random thoughts - 12/10/2010 08:09:07 PM 460 Views
Let's assume we're talking about a marriage where no such oath was taken... *NM* Sareitha Sedai - 12/10/2010 08:10:54 PM 471 Views
if there is no oath of fidelity then straying would not be immoral *NM* random thoughts - 12/10/2010 08:40:53 PM 439 Views
It's not immoral to break the marriage contract. Ghavrel - 12/10/2010 08:19:50 PM 1080 Views
I don't see that as the flaw in my logic. Sareitha Sedai - 12/10/2010 08:37:52 PM 992 Views
Re: I don't see that as the flaw in my logic. Ghavrel - 12/10/2010 09:00:00 PM 1070 Views
also random thoughts - 12/10/2010 09:37:38 PM 933 Views
That makes no sense whatsoever. Tim - 13/10/2010 11:38:06 PM 1069 Views
That must be why they have you sign something called an agreementory note *NM* Sareitha Sedai - 12/10/2010 07:33:32 PM 482 Views
Exactly *NM* Cannoli - 12/10/2010 07:58:25 PM 449 Views
So, you think bankruptcy laws are immoral? everynametaken - 13/10/2010 12:18:43 AM 961 Views
I don't think it's immoral at all. The contract usually specifies penalties for breach. Tom - 12/10/2010 05:28:34 PM 1069 Views
I thought the answer might be something like that. *NM* Rebekah - 12/10/2010 05:35:35 PM 433 Views
that is close to the way I see it random thoughts - 12/10/2010 05:45:25 PM 915 Views
It's both legal and immoral. LiterateDog - 12/10/2010 06:37:49 PM 996 Views
You didn't mention the third party Roland00 - 12/10/2010 08:26:56 PM 846 Views
in a way I did since I did mention society random thoughts - 12/10/2010 08:54:07 PM 994 Views
Thus the edit Roland00 - 12/10/2010 09:10:53 PM 1016 Views
either way I think you made a good point *NM* random thoughts - 12/10/2010 09:38:58 PM 424 Views
will those neighbors... damookster - 14/10/2010 04:52:26 AM 1160 Views
All depends where you get your morals from, really. Nebhead - 12/10/2010 08:28:41 PM 986 Views
I guess what i was trying to ask, at least in part random thoughts - 12/10/2010 09:48:24 PM 989 Views
What if you look at it from the other perspective? Sareitha Sedai - 12/10/2010 09:00:20 PM 1015 Views
do you think they would if they had a legal way to do it? random thoughts - 12/10/2010 10:04:57 PM 970 Views
Good point. *NM* Tashmere - 12/10/2010 11:10:26 PM 449 Views
Sure, you could do that. Aeryn - 13/10/2010 01:54:55 AM 1008 Views
The problem is that you're buying something today and paying for it for the next 15/30/50 years. Sareitha Sedai - 13/10/2010 03:04:26 PM 907 Views
Much like the concept of morality itself. Gaps - 12/10/2010 11:47:23 PM 914 Views
I find this line particularly interesting. everynametaken - 13/10/2010 12:13:18 AM 949 Views
Dunno. nossy - 13/10/2010 12:56:56 AM 1040 Views
As a professional in financial services - no, it is not. Aeryn - 13/10/2010 01:44:18 AM 950 Views
but almost nobody sees it that way random thoughts - 13/10/2010 12:53:25 PM 954 Views
Is the deal that if you default, the bank gets the house and nothing else, though? Legolas - 13/10/2010 02:40:48 PM 938 Views
yes but the bank has a limited ability to collect random thoughts - 13/10/2010 02:47:34 PM 857 Views
I think it's morally wrong to walk away from credit card debt. *NM* Aeryn - 13/10/2010 09:43:11 PM 436 Views
I'm curious how you reconcile that Sareitha Sedai - 13/10/2010 09:47:59 PM 969 Views
Collateral Aeryn - 19/10/2010 07:21:14 PM 1464 Views
I agree, what do you think is different? random thoughts - 13/10/2010 09:59:36 PM 964 Views
The difference is that the bank owns the house. Whereas when I buy stuff, it's mine. *NM* Aeryn - 19/10/2010 07:05:34 PM 434 Views
I too am unable to work out what distinguishes the two situations. Tim - 13/10/2010 11:54:15 PM 903 Views
I lost sleep over it, but I did it anyway. John - 13/10/2010 05:24:19 AM 1048 Views
OK what if you take it a step further random thoughts - 13/10/2010 03:44:30 PM 1050 Views
Good question John - 14/10/2010 05:13:41 AM 1014 Views
I have some questions about this issue. MightyYT - 13/10/2010 08:14:37 AM 972 Views
how do those questions affect the morality of the situation? random thoughts - 13/10/2010 03:20:14 PM 915 Views
Obviously, the essential difference is can't pay versus won't pay. Elaine - 13/10/2010 02:16:07 PM 939 Views
are you socializing your debt when it is a private bank? random thoughts - 13/10/2010 03:14:48 PM 994 Views
You are when said bank requires a bailout. And very many of them do. Elaine - 13/10/2010 03:22:59 PM 935 Views
it is the home fault that the banks have to be bailed out random thoughts - 13/10/2010 03:49:37 PM 982 Views
I believe it immoral to do harm. Macharius - 13/10/2010 04:38:28 PM 1004 Views
I really don't understand a system where this could be an advantage. Tim - 13/10/2010 11:16:57 PM 945 Views
There's generally something like a 7 or 10 year limit on credit reporting here. LiterateDog - 13/10/2010 11:46:58 PM 966 Views
What's the use of suing someone who has no money? *NM* Tim - 13/10/2010 11:48:47 PM 496 Views
You can garnish their wages. LiterateDog - 13/10/2010 11:49:36 PM 949 Views
With parsley? Rebekah - 13/10/2010 11:51:37 PM 1024 Views
No, "someone" most certainly did not, wicked young Miss! Hmph! *NM* LiterateDog - 13/10/2010 11:52:40 PM 484 Views
If they suddenly come into some, you're entitled to it. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 14/10/2010 12:07:34 AM 561 Views
Bit of a long shot. *NM* Tim - 14/10/2010 12:09:12 AM 431 Views
Very. Best to cover your bases though. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 14/10/2010 10:04:25 PM 451 Views
Not if the doctrine of election applies. Tim - 14/10/2010 10:14:07 PM 919 Views
Are we not talking about credit companies going after people who owe them money? TaskmasterJack - 14/10/2010 10:18:47 PM 970 Views
Yeah, I guess we are. Tim - 14/10/2010 10:28:40 PM 1000 Views
Re: Gaps - 14/10/2010 03:09:18 AM 970 Views
I am currently in that situation... damookster - 14/10/2010 05:03:23 AM 1073 Views
In Washington you can contest the assessed value used to determine property taxes. Vodalus - 14/10/2010 07:27:02 AM 990 Views
Re: I am currently in that situation... Macharius - 14/10/2010 05:49:24 PM 1283 Views
it is easy for me and others to be glib when it is just a theory *NM* random thoughts - 14/10/2010 08:19:16 PM 436 Views
If you have the ability to pay, I would consider it yet another immoral act in an immoral industry. Joel - 14/10/2010 07:49:38 AM 985 Views
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