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I honestly think SilverWarder Send a noteboard - 29/10/2010 05:12:09 PM
The the key has to come back.

I know that seems a lot but honestly - this has gotten beyond sensible. His dad can still come over WHEN ONE OF YOU IS HOME and help out.

Anything else is too much. As you say, your roommate is an adult and should have sawed through those apron strings long long ago.

My mom would probably have done something like this if I didn't live so far away. She came to visit once and when I spilled a milkshake she started to try and help me clean it up.

I lost it at that point and blew up at her, "Mom, I'm forty years old - I can clean up a milkshake without ANY help, thanks very much!"

(I don't recall if I was 40 or 38 or what it was, but you get my drift. It was some years ago.)
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This message last edited by SilverWarder on 29/10/2010 at 05:12:39 PM
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Does anyone understand co-dependency? nossy - 29/10/2010 03:59:52 PM 918 Views
That's almost.... creepy. Mats Gambling Buddy - 29/10/2010 04:12:50 PM 649 Views
Almost? nossy - 29/10/2010 04:45:41 PM 639 Views
It sounds like the man may have some OCD cleaning problems as well. Macharius - 29/10/2010 04:13:28 PM 654 Views
I definitely think so. nossy - 29/10/2010 05:08:01 PM 641 Views
Re: I definitely think so. Macharius - 29/10/2010 06:17:51 PM 639 Views
I dunno. Sareitha Sedai - 29/10/2010 04:26:19 PM 703 Views
Re: I dunno. nossy - 29/10/2010 05:11:59 PM 678 Views
I don't think it's offensive. Sareitha Sedai - 29/10/2010 05:19:03 PM 656 Views
well..even if it isn't offensive by nature, his dad will probably still be offended LadyLorraine - 29/10/2010 05:25:54 PM 649 Views
Of course he will. Sareitha Sedai - 29/10/2010 05:37:08 PM 662 Views
Um... I disagree with "what he's gettingout of it". Avendesora - 30/10/2010 12:48:56 PM 632 Views
and if one wants a father, rather than a free maid? nossy - 30/10/2010 03:00:03 PM 693 Views
He can make sure the place is clean before the father shows up. Avendesora - 30/10/2010 03:25:40 PM 647 Views
I honestly think SilverWarder - 29/10/2010 05:12:09 PM 644 Views
I'd also say just take the key, but that's just me. LadyLorraine - 29/10/2010 05:16:17 PM 629 Views
Why does he have a key? BlackAdder - 29/10/2010 05:23:50 PM 573 Views
The father needs to find his own drive, but you probably aren't the one to fix that. *NM* Zalis - 29/10/2010 06:11:57 PM 396 Views
Does he do the dishes and clean the bathrooms? Vodalus - 29/10/2010 06:54:07 PM 629 Views
Tell your roomate to sh*t or get off the pot ßelals Girl - 29/10/2010 07:37:35 PM 622 Views
that sounds, er, nice and all nossy - 30/10/2010 03:07:06 PM 701 Views
sorry, but it sounds like the time for "niceness" has long passed ßelals Girl - 30/10/2010 07:28:56 PM 699 Views
Give him my address and everyone wins. Joel - 30/10/2010 10:25:30 AM 666 Views
I totally agree with Ave... damookster - 30/10/2010 11:52:08 PM 699 Views
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