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Re: Weddings random thoughts Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM
So, I've been engaged for over a year now, and we haven't set a wedding date yet.

I like this, as I like being engaged. And planning a wedding sounds like an awful lot of work to me (and probably requires throwing a lot of money at it, too). I'm not really the kind of woman who's been planning her marriage since the age of 4.

I do have a vague sense that I want it throw a really cool party.

So on to the survey:

1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)


Several including one of my own, the one that didn't last.

2. Do you like weddings?


That can be OK but in general I don't get excited when I get an invataion in the mail.

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)


I helped with my first one, the second time we did the JP thing. I liked the JP one the best.

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)


My friends got married abotu three years after high school. Great music and lots of booze.

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?
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JP. If you want to throw a big party for your friends there are cheaper ways to do it and you have less extended family you have to invite.

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?


I like one where one of the bride's maids get drunk enough to flash her tits.
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Bach. CEREMONY!!! - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 822 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 777 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 560 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 293 Views
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But you're marrying Snoopster! - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 729 Views
That's part of the problem! - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 749 Views
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Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 280 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 284 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 273 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 683 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 688 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 333 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 611 Views
Yes, I was. - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 646 Views
Wow - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 626 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 324 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 682 Views
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a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 637 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 634 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 541 Views
We just come from different worlds. - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 654 Views
Yes - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 673 Views
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that is the catch - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 628 Views
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ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 686 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 631 Views
Well. - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 631 Views
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You can see the top of it in my profile pic. - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 664 Views
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I do! - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 560 Views
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Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 731 Views
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I take it back... there was one. - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 534 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 757 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 699 Views

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