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Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien Send a noteboard - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM
I like the idea of not wearing a wedding dress. Wedding dresses are either ridiculously expensive or ugly. In any case, you're never going to wear it again.

Well white is beautiful though. I think part of what makes it beautiful is the pristine whiteness- it's stunning for maybe a day, and then it looks dirty. That's what wedding dresses are white- since it's a dress you're never going to wear again, it may as well be white.


1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)

Loads. Large family. I also got married once.

2. Do you like weddings?

Yes and no. I like them as a guest, but I didn't want my own, and I don't like being part of the bridal party even though it's sweet. I hate being in front of people.

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)

Yes and yes. It was small - 42 guests - and we just had the service, drinks (during photo time) and a dinner. So even though I didn't want a wedding it was a really nice day.

I also didn't wear white because a) I don't suit it and b) that's a silly tradition really. I don't like tradition for tradition's sake. I like there to be a good reason for things.

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)

Um. I think my sister's wedding because it was so lovely. She looked gorgeous, everyone was well behaved, and we did dinner at home for just the two families.

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?

No wedding is good.

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?

Both. Depends how it's all done.
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1539 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1110 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1170 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1128 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 888 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 447 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 871 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 1024 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 984 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 920 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 919 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 895 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 424 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 1030 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1079 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1178 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 1045 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 437 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 431 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 426 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 1005 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1026 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 490 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 963 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 962 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 952 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 466 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 1018 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 917 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 964 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 972 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 863 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 991 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 1005 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 409 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 947 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 1001 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 1035 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1098 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 983 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 1000 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1109 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 986 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 1038 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1050 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 933 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 987 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 928 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 959 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 1035 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 923 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1087 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 973 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 1018 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 964 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 940 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 921 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 1000 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 1011 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 933 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 974 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 1054 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 971 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 986 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 967 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 860 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1109 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1031 Views
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