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Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene Send a noteboard - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM
It wasn't awful, I like my family, but my cousin's was just not how I'd want it for myself. First of all: mostly family, hardly friends. I'd have it vice versa. And then he had this elderly guy behind a keyboard playing awfully lame songs and "singing" accordingly. No way. At least the weather was nice.


That sounds tedious... Wonder what made them think this was a good idea? It also sounds like some poorly executed birthday parties I've been to. I think some people just don't have that many friends, so they end up inviting family?

Certainly. That's why we agreed on everyone paying their own rooms. So worth it.


That's certainly a great way to reduce costs and make such a wedding more attainable.

That's why I never get how some people can get married in November or February. If it rained on my wedding day, I'd rather die :D
But yeah, you never know...


Maybe they like cold weather and rain?
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ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 932 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 477 Views
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Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 466 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 464 Views
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She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1080 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 519 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 1004 Views
Yes, I was. - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 1007 Views
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How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 495 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 1069 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 963 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 1006 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 1019 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 906 Views
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well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 1053 Views
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A very special episode of Love Boat. - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 1010 Views
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I take it back... there was one. - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 910 Views
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There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1082 Views

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