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I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM
Does one say: "Will you marry me?" like in the films, or do people rather say: "Do you want to be engaged?". Because if it's the former, then I'd find it awkward not to set a date soon after. And if one of the two comes up with a date, how do things proceed from there? I dunno, sounds odd.

I like this, as I like being engaged. And planning a wedding sounds like an awful lot of work to me (and probably requires throwing a lot of money at it, too). I'm not really the kind of woman who's been planning her marriage since the age of 4.

That I can understand, of course.

So on to the survey:

1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)

yeah, a few

2. Do you like weddings?

I'd have to say yes, given it's thrown by the right people

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)

God, no.

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)

My friend Werner and his wife rented this castle / youth hostel for all of us from Friday through Sunday, so the whole circle of friends spent three days in a beautiful castle, celebrating, drinking, laughing. Not only was it the best wedding I ever been to, hands down, it was probably also the best party. Which is just like it's supposed to be.

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?

I find a lot depends on the location. If it's a cool one and the weather plays along, not much can go wrong. Also: no traditional dance music for the old people. My wedding, my music. This is my day, not my grandma's. I like the thought of a white, open tent on a beautiful green lawn, whenever I think about a wedding. Problem is, I don't think I am cut out for the mere idea of getting married.

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?

I totally prefer the unique ones.
*MySmiley*

You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1561 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1141 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1198 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1153 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 915 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 464 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 894 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 1051 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 1015 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 947 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 943 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 917 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 439 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 1054 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1104 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1207 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 1070 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 454 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 448 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 440 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 1034 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1055 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 507 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 987 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 986 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 976 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 480 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 1052 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 944 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 989 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 997 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 889 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 1014 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 1035 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 421 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 973 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 1027 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 1060 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1122 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 1007 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 1027 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1137 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 1009 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 1061 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1077 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 955 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 1009 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 953 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 987 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 1055 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 948 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1112 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 993 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 1053 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 989 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 975 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 942 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 1022 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 1034 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 959 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 1008 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 1090 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 991 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 1005 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 993 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 887 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1133 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1055 Views
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