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Re: That's a great reply - thanks. Gaps Send a noteboard - 26/04/2011 12:03:05 PM
I'm not overly risk adverse, in the sense that I don't feel overly afraid to take option two or three. I was in a pretty long relationship, and I always told her that if I was single I'd probably do one of those two options - and I did mean it. Just like I told her I'd never talk to her again very easily, which seems to have shocked both her and my friends. I sort of just build something into my narrative and go with it.

Option two is my right hand path, option three is my left hand path. I'll likely take one or the other, unless something else rears its ugly head (my brother has said his goal for the next year is to keep me out of a serious relationship, a task which I hope he's successful at).

As you mentioned, I can get more involved locally, which I've done through political organizations. Switching jobs within my company would be worthless; it'd be like exchanging a Macintosh apple for a Cortland - I'm still holding an apple, it's just the acidity has been slightly altered.

I'd say the slightest modification of my life would be GRE to some decent school in Boston, and then trying to make some bank.

I really appreciate your reply, because I'm looking for that sort of advice. I will say: I'm not a regret person. I don't have tons of problems and I don't dwell on things - I move past them. So I wouldn't burn a year in Seattle and never be able to get over it, because that's just not how I work, which is to say, I'm no more afraid of living than I am of dying.

Off to work, which is still a nice thing to be able to say.
I cannot even copy his manner because the manner of his prose was the manner of his thinking and that was a dazzling succession of gaps; and you cannot ape a gap because you are bound to fill it in somehow or other -- and blot it out in the process. -- Nabokov
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I Seek Life Advice - 26/04/2011 02:52:23 AM 1382 Views
Random bits of advice: - 26/04/2011 03:23:56 AM 1037 Views
Re: Thanks. - 26/04/2011 03:29:52 AM 804 Views
Re: Thanks. - 26/04/2011 04:01:32 AM 1092 Views
I don't understand why NY is not on your radar if you're ambitious. - 26/04/2011 06:10:06 AM 1022 Views
NYC is for city people. - 26/04/2011 06:22:59 AM 948 Views
That's fair- NY is the ultimate city. *NM* - 26/04/2011 08:24:58 PM 346 Views
This is such a typical New Yorker post. *NM* - 26/04/2011 08:52:14 AM 386 Views
Re: It is under option two. - 26/04/2011 11:50:40 AM 1005 Views
Ok then! - 26/04/2011 08:24:32 PM 935 Views
Re: Yeah. - 26/04/2011 09:01:08 PM 775 Views
I love this post *NM* - 26/04/2011 02:44:11 PM 386 Views
I would if I hadn't just bought a house with the tax credit. - 26/04/2011 03:01:23 PM 1041 Views
"the ambitious folk" sounds odd to me. - 26/04/2011 06:55:40 PM 870 Views
Oh, I know. - 26/04/2011 07:04:16 PM 756 Views
I'm still not convinced two wrongs make a right. - 26/04/2011 07:37:22 PM 728 Views
Re: I'm still not convinced two wrongs make a right. - 26/04/2011 08:19:38 PM 816 Views
You're ignoring a few key facts. - 27/04/2011 05:25:39 AM 780 Views
Ha! -if that's true. - 27/04/2011 08:18:47 PM 1137 Views
Move out west. - 26/04/2011 06:21:43 AM 870 Views
Re: Ha! - 26/04/2011 11:53:09 AM 864 Views
What's your personality like? - 26/04/2011 11:19:59 AM 967 Views
Re: That's a great reply - thanks. - 26/04/2011 12:03:05 PM 984 Views
That's not very nice. - 26/04/2011 08:29:11 PM 904 Views
Re: Setting: - 26/04/2011 08:59:02 PM 817 Views
Did she ever actually cheat on you? - 26/04/2011 09:39:15 PM 919 Views
Re: I thought I sent you a drunk email with the details? - 26/04/2011 11:41:26 PM 928 Views
Re: Seattle. - 27/04/2011 05:32:23 PM 1205 Views
Re: What do I think about that picture? - 27/04/2011 11:59:06 PM 962 Views
Come to Ireland. - 26/04/2011 01:31:55 PM 823 Views
Ireland is a great place for writers. *NM* - 26/04/2011 04:11:04 PM 406 Views
Suicidal, drunk and otherwise self-destructive writers, yes. *NM* - 26/04/2011 06:49:55 PM 384 Views
The best kind! *NM* - 26/04/2011 07:09:06 PM 390 Views
*I* was going to say that! - 26/04/2011 08:25:50 PM 748 Views
To read, perhaps, but not to BE. - 27/04/2011 05:26:40 AM 899 Views
Re: I'm just not sure... - 27/04/2011 02:51:39 AM 807 Views
Re: I'm just not sure... - 27/04/2011 01:23:14 PM 833 Views
Option 4: Dance - 26/04/2011 02:31:09 PM 977 Views
Re: Have my children. - 26/04/2011 09:08:05 PM 848 Views
$30? I fucking hate you - 26/04/2011 03:19:26 PM 799 Views
take the the risk and go with three *NM* - 26/04/2011 05:44:21 PM 553 Views
Re: Thanks for the advice. I'm dwelling on'er. *NM* - 27/04/2011 12:06:37 AM 390 Views
There will likely come a time in your life when you lose some of your choices about taking risk - 27/04/2011 05:08:48 PM 992 Views
Good point. *NM* - 28/04/2011 06:17:04 AM 380 Views
Join the Foreign Legion - 26/04/2011 06:57:21 PM 774 Views
Re: Yeah m, but: - 27/04/2011 12:08:43 AM 943 Views
I have to say this has been the MOST enjoyable thread, in a while. whatever happens... - 27/04/2011 02:30:05 AM 915 Views
There's been a lot of great threads lately! - 27/04/2011 07:52:21 PM 953 Views
Re: You're just jealous... - 27/04/2011 11:56:17 PM 1084 Views
Cute! ^_^ - 28/04/2011 06:16:25 AM 839 Views
I hardly think I am qualified to chime in. - 28/04/2011 06:13:02 AM 1153 Views
I'LL GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE. - 28/04/2011 06:35:24 PM 812 Views

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