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Re: That's a great reply - thanks. Gaps Send a noteboard - 26/04/2011 12:03:05 PM
I'm not overly risk adverse, in the sense that I don't feel overly afraid to take option two or three. I was in a pretty long relationship, and I always told her that if I was single I'd probably do one of those two options - and I did mean it. Just like I told her I'd never talk to her again very easily, which seems to have shocked both her and my friends. I sort of just build something into my narrative and go with it.

Option two is my right hand path, option three is my left hand path. I'll likely take one or the other, unless something else rears its ugly head (my brother has said his goal for the next year is to keep me out of a serious relationship, a task which I hope he's successful at).

As you mentioned, I can get more involved locally, which I've done through political organizations. Switching jobs within my company would be worthless; it'd be like exchanging a Macintosh apple for a Cortland - I'm still holding an apple, it's just the acidity has been slightly altered.

I'd say the slightest modification of my life would be GRE to some decent school in Boston, and then trying to make some bank.

I really appreciate your reply, because I'm looking for that sort of advice. I will say: I'm not a regret person. I don't have tons of problems and I don't dwell on things - I move past them. So I wouldn't burn a year in Seattle and never be able to get over it, because that's just not how I work, which is to say, I'm no more afraid of living than I am of dying.

Off to work, which is still a nice thing to be able to say.
I cannot even copy his manner because the manner of his prose was the manner of his thinking and that was a dazzling succession of gaps; and you cannot ape a gap because you are bound to fill it in somehow or other -- and blot it out in the process. -- Nabokov
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I Seek Life Advice - 26/04/2011 02:52:23 AM 1413 Views
Random bits of advice: - 26/04/2011 03:23:56 AM 1077 Views
Re: Thanks. - 26/04/2011 03:29:52 AM 837 Views
Re: Thanks. - 26/04/2011 04:01:32 AM 1127 Views
I don't understand why NY is not on your radar if you're ambitious. - 26/04/2011 06:10:06 AM 1058 Views
NYC is for city people. - 26/04/2011 06:22:59 AM 999 Views
That's fair- NY is the ultimate city. *NM* - 26/04/2011 08:24:58 PM 365 Views
This is such a typical New Yorker post. *NM* - 26/04/2011 08:52:14 AM 405 Views
Re: It is under option two. - 26/04/2011 11:50:40 AM 1039 Views
Ok then! - 26/04/2011 08:24:32 PM 974 Views
Re: Yeah. - 26/04/2011 09:01:08 PM 808 Views
I love this post *NM* - 26/04/2011 02:44:11 PM 404 Views
I would if I hadn't just bought a house with the tax credit. - 26/04/2011 03:01:23 PM 1074 Views
"the ambitious folk" sounds odd to me. - 26/04/2011 06:55:40 PM 906 Views
Oh, I know. - 26/04/2011 07:04:16 PM 790 Views
I'm still not convinced two wrongs make a right. - 26/04/2011 07:37:22 PM 760 Views
Re: I'm still not convinced two wrongs make a right. - 26/04/2011 08:19:38 PM 860 Views
You're ignoring a few key facts. - 27/04/2011 05:25:39 AM 826 Views
Ha! -if that's true. - 27/04/2011 08:18:47 PM 1172 Views
Move out west. - 26/04/2011 06:21:43 AM 909 Views
Re: Ha! - 26/04/2011 11:53:09 AM 903 Views
What's your personality like? - 26/04/2011 11:19:59 AM 998 Views
Re: That's a great reply - thanks. - 26/04/2011 12:03:05 PM 1025 Views
That's not very nice. - 26/04/2011 08:29:11 PM 946 Views
Re: Setting: - 26/04/2011 08:59:02 PM 848 Views
Did she ever actually cheat on you? - 26/04/2011 09:39:15 PM 952 Views
Re: I thought I sent you a drunk email with the details? - 26/04/2011 11:41:26 PM 967 Views
Re: Seattle. - 27/04/2011 05:32:23 PM 1243 Views
Re: What do I think about that picture? - 27/04/2011 11:59:06 PM 992 Views
Come to Ireland. - 26/04/2011 01:31:55 PM 855 Views
Ireland is a great place for writers. *NM* - 26/04/2011 04:11:04 PM 420 Views
Suicidal, drunk and otherwise self-destructive writers, yes. *NM* - 26/04/2011 06:49:55 PM 418 Views
The best kind! *NM* - 26/04/2011 07:09:06 PM 408 Views
*I* was going to say that! - 26/04/2011 08:25:50 PM 782 Views
To read, perhaps, but not to BE. - 27/04/2011 05:26:40 AM 933 Views
Re: I'm just not sure... - 27/04/2011 02:51:39 AM 843 Views
Re: I'm just not sure... - 27/04/2011 01:23:14 PM 880 Views
Option 4: Dance - 26/04/2011 02:31:09 PM 1010 Views
Re: Have my children. - 26/04/2011 09:08:05 PM 888 Views
$30? I fucking hate you - 26/04/2011 03:19:26 PM 826 Views
take the the risk and go with three *NM* - 26/04/2011 05:44:21 PM 571 Views
Re: Thanks for the advice. I'm dwelling on'er. *NM* - 27/04/2011 12:06:37 AM 406 Views
There will likely come a time in your life when you lose some of your choices about taking risk - 27/04/2011 05:08:48 PM 1025 Views
Good point. *NM* - 28/04/2011 06:17:04 AM 396 Views
Join the Foreign Legion - 26/04/2011 06:57:21 PM 804 Views
Re: Yeah m, but: - 27/04/2011 12:08:43 AM 978 Views
I have to say this has been the MOST enjoyable thread, in a while. whatever happens... - 27/04/2011 02:30:05 AM 951 Views
There's been a lot of great threads lately! - 27/04/2011 07:52:21 PM 980 Views
Re: You're just jealous... - 27/04/2011 11:56:17 PM 1122 Views
Cute! ^_^ - 28/04/2011 06:16:25 AM 865 Views
I hardly think I am qualified to chime in. - 28/04/2011 06:13:02 AM 1196 Views
I'LL GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE. - 28/04/2011 06:35:24 PM 848 Views

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