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Re: That's a great reply - thanks. Gaps Send a noteboard - 26/04/2011 12:03:05 PM
I'm not overly risk adverse, in the sense that I don't feel overly afraid to take option two or three. I was in a pretty long relationship, and I always told her that if I was single I'd probably do one of those two options - and I did mean it. Just like I told her I'd never talk to her again very easily, which seems to have shocked both her and my friends. I sort of just build something into my narrative and go with it.

Option two is my right hand path, option three is my left hand path. I'll likely take one or the other, unless something else rears its ugly head (my brother has said his goal for the next year is to keep me out of a serious relationship, a task which I hope he's successful at).

As you mentioned, I can get more involved locally, which I've done through political organizations. Switching jobs within my company would be worthless; it'd be like exchanging a Macintosh apple for a Cortland - I'm still holding an apple, it's just the acidity has been slightly altered.

I'd say the slightest modification of my life would be GRE to some decent school in Boston, and then trying to make some bank.

I really appreciate your reply, because I'm looking for that sort of advice. I will say: I'm not a regret person. I don't have tons of problems and I don't dwell on things - I move past them. So I wouldn't burn a year in Seattle and never be able to get over it, because that's just not how I work, which is to say, I'm no more afraid of living than I am of dying.

Off to work, which is still a nice thing to be able to say.
I cannot even copy his manner because the manner of his prose was the manner of his thinking and that was a dazzling succession of gaps; and you cannot ape a gap because you are bound to fill it in somehow or other -- and blot it out in the process. -- Nabokov
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I Seek Life Advice - 26/04/2011 02:52:23 AM 1361 Views
Random bits of advice: - 26/04/2011 03:23:56 AM 1013 Views
Re: Thanks. - 26/04/2011 03:29:52 AM 781 Views
Re: Thanks. - 26/04/2011 04:01:32 AM 1068 Views
I don't understand why NY is not on your radar if you're ambitious. - 26/04/2011 06:10:06 AM 1000 Views
NYC is for city people. - 26/04/2011 06:22:59 AM 924 Views
That's fair- NY is the ultimate city. *NM* - 26/04/2011 08:24:58 PM 336 Views
This is such a typical New Yorker post. *NM* - 26/04/2011 08:52:14 AM 375 Views
Re: It is under option two. - 26/04/2011 11:50:40 AM 980 Views
Ok then! - 26/04/2011 08:24:32 PM 910 Views
Re: Yeah. - 26/04/2011 09:01:08 PM 752 Views
I love this post *NM* - 26/04/2011 02:44:11 PM 375 Views
I would if I hadn't just bought a house with the tax credit. - 26/04/2011 03:01:23 PM 1019 Views
"the ambitious folk" sounds odd to me. - 26/04/2011 06:55:40 PM 851 Views
Oh, I know. - 26/04/2011 07:04:16 PM 733 Views
I'm still not convinced two wrongs make a right. - 26/04/2011 07:37:22 PM 708 Views
Re: I'm still not convinced two wrongs make a right. - 26/04/2011 08:19:38 PM 798 Views
You're ignoring a few key facts. - 27/04/2011 05:25:39 AM 755 Views
Ha! -if that's true. - 27/04/2011 08:18:47 PM 1113 Views
Move out west. - 26/04/2011 06:21:43 AM 848 Views
Re: Ha! - 26/04/2011 11:53:09 AM 844 Views
What's your personality like? - 26/04/2011 11:19:59 AM 947 Views
Re: That's a great reply - thanks. - 26/04/2011 12:03:05 PM 964 Views
That's not very nice. - 26/04/2011 08:29:11 PM 884 Views
Re: Setting: - 26/04/2011 08:59:02 PM 794 Views
Did she ever actually cheat on you? - 26/04/2011 09:39:15 PM 891 Views
Re: I thought I sent you a drunk email with the details? - 26/04/2011 11:41:26 PM 905 Views
Re: Seattle. - 27/04/2011 05:32:23 PM 1183 Views
Re: What do I think about that picture? - 27/04/2011 11:59:06 PM 939 Views
Come to Ireland. - 26/04/2011 01:31:55 PM 799 Views
Ireland is a great place for writers. *NM* - 26/04/2011 04:11:04 PM 389 Views
Suicidal, drunk and otherwise self-destructive writers, yes. *NM* - 26/04/2011 06:49:55 PM 377 Views
The best kind! *NM* - 26/04/2011 07:09:06 PM 378 Views
*I* was going to say that! - 26/04/2011 08:25:50 PM 723 Views
To read, perhaps, but not to BE. - 27/04/2011 05:26:40 AM 878 Views
Re: I'm just not sure... - 27/04/2011 02:51:39 AM 787 Views
Re: I'm just not sure... - 27/04/2011 01:23:14 PM 813 Views
Option 4: Dance - 26/04/2011 02:31:09 PM 959 Views
Re: Have my children. - 26/04/2011 09:08:05 PM 831 Views
$30? I fucking hate you - 26/04/2011 03:19:26 PM 780 Views
take the the risk and go with three *NM* - 26/04/2011 05:44:21 PM 540 Views
Re: Thanks for the advice. I'm dwelling on'er. *NM* - 27/04/2011 12:06:37 AM 378 Views
There will likely come a time in your life when you lose some of your choices about taking risk - 27/04/2011 05:08:48 PM 970 Views
Good point. *NM* - 28/04/2011 06:17:04 AM 369 Views
Join the Foreign Legion - 26/04/2011 06:57:21 PM 752 Views
Re: Yeah m, but: - 27/04/2011 12:08:43 AM 922 Views
I have to say this has been the MOST enjoyable thread, in a while. whatever happens... - 27/04/2011 02:30:05 AM 893 Views
There's been a lot of great threads lately! - 27/04/2011 07:52:21 PM 930 Views
Re: You're just jealous... - 27/04/2011 11:56:17 PM 1060 Views
Cute! ^_^ - 28/04/2011 06:16:25 AM 821 Views
I hardly think I am qualified to chime in. - 28/04/2011 06:13:02 AM 1133 Views
I'LL GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE. - 28/04/2011 06:35:24 PM 788 Views

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