Unless previous girlfriends or friends have told you you have a habit of excessive ogling your gal is probably a bit neurotic about this sort of thing, and that's not something you can really fix from your end.
That said you might want to double check to make sure you've got a decent poker face, I remember I had a friend complain to me of this once over lunch, and ask if I thought he did that, and it was everything I could do not to start laughing since most of our conversation had been carried out between him eyeballing every passing skirt and offering commentary like "Nice" and "Come to Daddy", yet he was totally convinced he didn't have a wandering eye... which was true, his eyes never wandered, his whole damn head would turn like he had a targeting computer locked on. So you may want to make sure first
That said you might want to double check to make sure you've got a decent poker face, I remember I had a friend complain to me of this once over lunch, and ask if I thought he did that, and it was everything I could do not to start laughing since most of our conversation had been carried out between him eyeballing every passing skirt and offering commentary like "Nice" and "Come to Daddy", yet he was totally convinced he didn't have a wandering eye... which was true, his eyes never wandered, his whole damn head would turn like he had a targeting computer locked on. So you may want to make sure first
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- Albert Einstein
King of Cairhien 20-7-2
Chancellor of the Landsraad, Archduke of Is'Mod
My girlfriend is insane
- 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM
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I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure.
- 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM
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I'm with Amy... Run!
- 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM
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You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you
- 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM
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Don't apply pua to a long term relationship...
- 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM
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Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM*
- 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM
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"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!"
- 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM
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That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling
- 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM
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When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end?
- 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM
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I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon
- 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM
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It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread.
- 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM
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Ogle her constantly.
- 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM
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^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point.
- 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM
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That's right!
- 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM
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That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know.
- 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM
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Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy.
- 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM
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Buy sunglasses. *NM*
- 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM
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The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM*
- 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM
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*NM*
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump
- 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM
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Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM*
- 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM
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Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out.
- 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM
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If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM*
- 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM
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