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If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy Send a noteboard - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM
I would, however, tell her about herself. Say, look, I wouldn't be with you if I didn't care for you, and you need to get on board with that. There are other women around, yes, but I'm clearly not with them and don't plan to be, so get the hell out of my face about it. If you can't, then you don't trust me, and we have a bigger issue we should be discussing.

It's hugely insulting (imo) to be constantly challenged about fidelity and honesty. I think it's important that you express that to her. You don't have to be an ass about it, but you do have to stand up for yourself if you want a strong relationship... and if the relationship won't stand up to that, maybe it isn't the right one for you.
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My girlfriend is insane Postsecret - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1567 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 717 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* Palatine - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 346 Views
Sounds to me ... Nate - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 903 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 753 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her Wulf`gar - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 783 Views
Run. Amyrlin - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 787 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! Isaac - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 751 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 822 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 846 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... Helene - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 852 Views
It should work here too Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 826 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua Helene - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 743 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. Dragonsoul - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 908 Views
Agreed. Crazy ol Lews Therin - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 735 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 307 Views
A possibility. *NM* everynametaken - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 301 Views
How old are you both? Helene - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 736 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* Tom - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 327 Views
"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!" MightyYT - 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM 732 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* ironclad - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 344 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 729 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 693 Views
I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM 843 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. Tigr - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 800 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... MightyYT - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 777 Views
I agree with what Nate said ßelals Girl - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 743 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? Joel - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 808 Views
It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread. Vivien - 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM 836 Views
Ogle her constantly. Dannymac - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 824 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 856 Views
That's right! Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 766 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 679 Views
I did not use the word constant. Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 747 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 697 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. globug0822 - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 842 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 688 Views
Yes ironclad - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 782 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 333 Views
The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM* Vivien - 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM 342 Views
*NM* Fox and Ravens - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 338 Views
Re: There's no telling if... Gaps - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 744 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 723 Views
Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM* Wulf`gar - 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM 335 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1248 Views
You are wise. Two Wongs - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 1104 Views
Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out. snoopcester - 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM 741 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. Kel - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 705 Views
Insecurity is not fatal. She needs to feel better about herself. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:19:19 PM 702 Views
If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM* StarrBecca - 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM 331 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence Danu - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 768 Views
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