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How old are you both? Helene Send a noteboard - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM
Has she changed a lot over the time you've been together? E.g. has she gained weight during the relationship? Switched jobs, finished school, anything?

She's clearly driving you away, but it's unlikely to be her intention. Most likely scenario is that she has very low self esteem. You can help with that to a certain extent, like complimenting her, doing thoughtful things... But ultimately it's something that she needs to work on.

I figure it's not easy dealing with such things, though. Personally I wouldn't put up with it.
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My girlfriend is insane Postsecret - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1546 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 699 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* Palatine - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 335 Views
Sounds to me ... Nate - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 881 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 729 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her Wulf`gar - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 762 Views
Run. Amyrlin - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 767 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! Isaac - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 735 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 803 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 820 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... Helene - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 826 Views
It should work here too Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 805 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua Helene - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 724 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. Dragonsoul - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 887 Views
Agreed. Crazy ol Lews Therin - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 713 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 297 Views
A possibility. *NM* everynametaken - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 291 Views
How old are you both? Helene - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 704 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* Tom - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 318 Views
"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!" MightyYT - 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM 712 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* ironclad - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 333 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 711 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 674 Views
I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM 827 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. Tigr - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 768 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... MightyYT - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 755 Views
I agree with what Nate said ßelals Girl - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 724 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? Joel - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 784 Views
It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread. Vivien - 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM 817 Views
Ogle her constantly. Dannymac - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 801 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 832 Views
That's right! Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 744 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 661 Views
I did not use the word constant. Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 726 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 678 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. globug0822 - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 820 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 670 Views
Yes ironclad - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 764 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 325 Views
The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM* Vivien - 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM 332 Views
*NM* Fox and Ravens - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 328 Views
Re: There's no telling if... Gaps - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 720 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 705 Views
Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM* Wulf`gar - 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM 323 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1228 Views
You are wise. Two Wongs - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 1084 Views
Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out. snoopcester - 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM 723 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. Kel - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 689 Views
Insecurity is not fatal. She needs to feel better about herself. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:19:19 PM 681 Views
If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM* StarrBecca - 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM 322 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence Danu - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 750 Views
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