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That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis Send a noteboard - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM


Nothing to do with insecurity. Some people need to be looked at and admired, or just paid attention to. Doesn't even matter if it's romantic. Even if I'm spending time with someone totally platonically, if someone's not looking at me it's going to bother me. I've even made comments to a few people on non emergency cell phone use when one has the option of interacting with a real live person.



I couldn't tell if you were doing one of those things where you were so blatent it was hard to tell if you're being sarcastic. But basically, "some people just need to be constantly paid attention to," (and that is what this is, constant- the OP says this happens whenever they're out, it's not a one time thing) is essentially the definition of needy and insecure.



I definitely agree that dialing up the obvious checking-her-out might be a good idea, and calm her insecurities (plus, it can be fun- I have nothing against PDAs). But in order to calm her insecurities, let's admit that yes, this girl does seem to have them.
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My girlfriend is insane Postsecret - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1707 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 839 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* Palatine - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 403 Views
Sounds to me ... Nate - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 1034 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 851 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her Wulf`gar - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 904 Views
Run. Amyrlin - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 913 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! Isaac - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 875 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 939 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 968 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... Helene - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 1002 Views
It should work here too Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 952 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua Helene - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 899 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. Dragonsoul - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 1036 Views
Agreed. Crazy ol Lews Therin - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 860 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 366 Views
A possibility. *NM* everynametaken - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 360 Views
How old are you both? Helene - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 860 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* Tom - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 391 Views
"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!" MightyYT - 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM 845 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* ironclad - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 400 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 856 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 824 Views
I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM 975 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. Tigr - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 907 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... MightyYT - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 926 Views
I agree with what Nate said ßelals Girl - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 870 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? Joel - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 930 Views
It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread. Vivien - 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM 959 Views
Ogle her constantly. Dannymac - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 973 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 986 Views
That's right! Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 881 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 802 Views
I did not use the word constant. Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 861 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 813 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. globug0822 - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 966 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 812 Views
Yes ironclad - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 901 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 403 Views
The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM* Vivien - 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM 397 Views
*NM* Fox and Ravens - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 396 Views
Re: There's no telling if... Gaps - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 865 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 853 Views
Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM* Wulf`gar - 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM 418 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1362 Views
You are wise. Two Wongs - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 1222 Views
Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out. snoopcester - 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM 863 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. Kel - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 838 Views
Insecurity is not fatal. She needs to feel better about herself. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:19:19 PM 813 Views
If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM* StarrBecca - 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM 393 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence Danu - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 904 Views
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