It would be up to your parents to enforce any actual rules on him. If they're unwilling, then you either live with it, fight with him and live with it, or leave ...
How do the typical chore expectations run? It seems that if you were only expected to clean one portion of the home and the other portion were up to him, then at that point it's out of your hands. You ignore the mess in his part and just keep your part clean, and eventually your parents will have to do something (unless they don't mind living in a half-filthy home). If the chores are divided between different areas and different duties, with no overlap, then the situation becomes clear and the responsibility is all his, no more pestering from you needed. That seems much better than, for example, a system where one person does things one day and the other does them another day, in which case you end up cleaning the things he neglects. But I don't know how things work now.
How do the typical chore expectations run? It seems that if you were only expected to clean one portion of the home and the other portion were up to him, then at that point it's out of your hands. You ignore the mess in his part and just keep your part clean, and eventually your parents will have to do something (unless they don't mind living in a half-filthy home). If the chores are divided between different areas and different duties, with no overlap, then the situation becomes clear and the responsibility is all his, no more pestering from you needed. That seems much better than, for example, a system where one person does things one day and the other does them another day, in which case you end up cleaning the things he neglects. But I don't know how things work now.
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advice needed
- 13/10/2011 08:01:51 PM
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Well, the obvious connection ...
- 13/10/2011 08:27:39 PM
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pff, he has a job but he pisses his money away
- 13/10/2011 08:42:00 PM
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Well then there's not much you can do.
- 13/10/2011 08:54:33 PM
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Sell the platypus on EBay, dump the dead bus driver in a river and burn the overalls. 
- 13/10/2011 08:27:55 PM
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- 13/10/2011 08:27:55 PM
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Re: Sell the platypus on EBay, dump the dead bus driver in a river and burn the overalls.
- 13/10/2011 08:54:47 PM
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- 13/10/2011 08:54:47 PM
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Speaking as the older brother who has the younger living with him....
- 13/10/2011 08:52:33 PM
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Don't lend him money, and if his crap is in the way, throw it onto the street or something.
- 13/10/2011 09:51:01 PM
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Don't lend him money. I don't see how the rest is any of your concern. *NM*
- 14/10/2011 06:53:25 PM
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its my concern because he is making me angry
- 15/10/2011 08:24:37 PM
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