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Re: Heh. Macharius Send a noteboard - 12/12/2011 07:27:16 PM
About a month ago now. It was about two months ago that things started getting bad, and I started putting in a serious effort to eat whatever she wanted to make. Things got better for a little while, but then she made risotto and I had a fair bit of difficulty with the taste. I ate it anyway, but when she mentioned wanting to make it again, I told her that I had found it difficult. Then, poof. All over. It sucks, but you can't choose what a person needs to be happy.


It's likely cold comfort right now, but if you were frequently fighting over food it would've been a miserable marriage after the novelty wore off... and then you'd have to deal with a divorce.

I've been getting over it by dedicating more time to self-improvement. I bought a recumbent exercise bike that I use for 40 minutes six days a week, and I bought a laptop to use for getting back into writing stories. And as much as it sucks that she's not around anymore, I have a great job and a good life, so I'm choosing to be happy with that. At least, I can say that now that I've had a month for perspective to settle in and for me to stop feeling so shitty about everything. :P


Sounds like you're doing really well, considering. I'm happy for you for that. Give it another few months, and you'll be in good shape to start dating again... with someone more sympathetic to your dietary needs, this time. :)
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So it turns out that weddings are expensive... Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:24:17 PM 1939 Views
I am looking to drop about a grand on my son's rehearsal dinner *NM* random thoughts - 12/12/2011 04:42:53 PM 524 Views
Well, part of it is that the rehearsal dinner isn't on the $5k budget. Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:46:30 PM 935 Views
It is avoidable, but people will treat you like you're a nutcase if you don't do most of the things nossy - 12/12/2011 05:02:14 PM 987 Views
my first wedding was in church with a pretty dress and a preacher random thoughts - 12/12/2011 06:12:02 PM 922 Views
We had a pretty dress and a notary public in the courtyard of the B&B. nossy - 12/12/2011 09:36:52 PM 969 Views
If I had it to all over again I would have formed a Rock Band and dated supermodels *NM* random thoughts - 13/12/2011 04:20:28 PM 502 Views
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Heh. Nate - 12/12/2011 05:29:19 PM 1088 Views
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Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 07:27:16 PM 1048 Views
We kept it to about $5000 also (including cost of rings). Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:06:54 PM 995 Views
I would say our wedding was about that. Lici - 12/12/2011 06:45:46 PM 1148 Views
I feel like they only have to be expensive if you let them be. LadyLorraine - 12/12/2011 07:07:59 PM 1036 Views
I got married two weeks ago for less than that. Aemon - 12/12/2011 09:56:43 PM 1130 Views
Congrats Sareitha Sedai - 12/12/2011 10:03:35 PM 935 Views
Thanks! Aemon - 13/12/2011 02:53:11 PM 913 Views
You've been holding out on us. Congratulations. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 13/12/2011 12:02:39 AM 554 Views
Honestly, I didn't think anyone would care. Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:08:44 PM 905 Views
Hey! No announcement??? Congratulations and may you find many years of happiness! *NM* everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:27:51 AM 592 Views
No, no announcement. I'm not really the center-of-attention type. haha Thanks though! *NM* Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:10:29 PM 506 Views
Congratulations, my friend. Jacob - 13/12/2011 03:21:22 PM 900 Views
Thanks. Aemon - 13/12/2011 06:38:59 PM 982 Views
Acceptable... Jacob - 13/12/2011 06:40:29 PM 894 Views
OMG! Congratulations! Danu - 14/12/2011 10:43:05 PM 910 Views
Thanks Danu. *NM* Aemon - 15/12/2011 11:08:51 PM 508 Views
i had 500 people at my wedding....... Aisha - 13/12/2011 12:05:38 AM 1097 Views
Everybody I have ever talked to that had a big, expensive wedding has told me that in hindsight... everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:29:34 AM 895 Views
Yes they are. We're planning ours and... callandor1000 - 13/12/2011 02:19:42 AM 1000 Views
Some people just don't seem to think outside of the box ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:15:49 AM 1068 Views
And several items on that chart are soo unnecessary *NM* ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:41:10 AM 534 Views
They're only as expensive as you make them. Tim - 14/12/2011 10:38:37 AM 903 Views
I'm so glad we went simple. Kaldric - 14/12/2011 03:08:45 PM 1050 Views
As someone who had a smaller wedding than was expected by certain people... Danu - 14/12/2011 10:36:57 PM 1043 Views
These seem kind of extreme. Vivien - 15/12/2011 06:03:15 AM 1058 Views
because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 12:59:39 PM 1081 Views
Not my personal history, but culture. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:53:12 PM 1077 Views
I agree that there are better cuts to make than refreshments LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:35:13 PM 1032 Views
Re: because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:08:00 PM 1052 Views
Yeah, and that's why Russians are all dying of alcoholism. *NM* Macharius - 15/12/2011 01:46:52 PM 547 Views
You don't have to be an alcoholic to prefer not to have a cash bar at a party. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:37:15 PM 942 Views
It is lame to expect the father of the bride to shell out tens of thousands for a party random thoughts - 15/12/2011 02:00:54 PM 1048 Views
seriously. who cares if people think you're "cheap". LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:41:33 PM 956 Views
What my family tends to do (because it's huge) is this: Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:16:31 PM 1123 Views
That's what most German weddings do too. Reasonable. *NM* ironclad - 15/12/2011 03:38:40 PM 510 Views
If they're not close enough to invite to the reception, are they really needed at the ceremony? Vivien - 15/12/2011 08:18:18 PM 1050 Views
In most cases, a church ceremony tends to be an open thing. Anyone can come. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 10:11:30 PM 1088 Views
Apparently it's becoming more common over here to do weddings on a weekday. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:13:57 PM 927 Views
I can't imagine someone in America announcing their wedding was on a weekday. TaskmasterJack - 15/12/2011 10:07:55 PM 1169 Views
People not in America have way more vacation days... *NM* Vivien - 15/12/2011 11:56:22 PM 501 Views
That was part of the logic in my thinking, yes. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 12:46:53 AM 481 Views
Fridays are actually becoming more common. Sareitha Sedai - 16/12/2011 04:51:41 PM 889 Views
Why does the band get more than the photographer? Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 04:30:29 PM 854 Views
well they do have to split it 4 or 5 ways random thoughts - 16/12/2011 04:38:36 PM 947 Views
The thing is... it's NOT a night's work. Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 09:27:30 PM 1245 Views
Because if you put tiny plastic musical instruments on all the tables, your ears will bleed out. TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 10:04:59 PM 1311 Views
My advice based on what I've done so far. callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:27:29 PM 945 Views
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