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No but Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 27/12/2011 06:56:50 PM
It was totally unexpected. I told my husband not to spend much money on me this year because we need to do more rennovations on the house, and I need another hearing aid. (Rather, I need to pay for the one I've been testing out.) Copay for that is $1500. He knew I wanted an ipad, I use his all the time. I never asked for one. I cried. :P


My sister got an ipad too, but I don't think she cried. She did rant though :P. That's a great example- this present is not any less of a present just because there was no mystery over whether you would like it or not.


...look how much happier and more excited she was to receive it without having asked for it :P

Okay, I'm only playing devil's advocate here. I think it's a personal choice. I'd rather somebody put some thought into a present for me and get me something they think I'd like, instead of just giving me the ability to buy something for myself (like with a gift card) or buying me something I specifically asked for. And yeah, sometimes that means they get it wrong ;) but I'm okay with that. There are other people who'd rather be able to be more prescriptive/selective, and that's fine too if that's their preference. I think the key is like you said, you base this on your knowledge of the other person and not what you'd prefer. This is actually something I had to work to overcome. I kind of hate getting gift cards (from family/close friends) and so I used to not give them either, but there are people who love getting them so I should care more about that than my own feelings on the matter.
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Presents! Vivien - 27/12/2011 04:16:42 PM 1623 Views
I received a GPS unit for my car. Nate - 27/12/2011 04:33:40 PM 1230 Views
Did you get your egg separator? Sareitha Sedai - 27/12/2011 04:38:04 PM 1100 Views
I did! Nate - 27/12/2011 05:08:36 PM 1182 Views
Oh. Well it's probably for the best then. Sareitha Sedai - 27/12/2011 05:17:44 PM 990 Views
Ha! Just make sure you wash your eggs before cracking them. Vivien - 27/12/2011 05:33:52 PM 1050 Views
Use caution when washing eggs... Avendesora - 27/12/2011 08:50:37 PM 1139 Views
What? Why would you wash an egg? I've never heard of this. *NM* Tim - 27/12/2011 11:33:57 PM 646 Views
This is news to me too. Nate - 28/12/2011 12:30:00 AM 1117 Views
Ha, don't listen to me, I know nothing about this. Vivien - 28/12/2011 01:36:34 AM 1046 Views
Aha. That makes sense. Nate - 28/12/2011 05:26:47 AM 1126 Views
That's a relief. You can't eat raw egg in this country anyway, so I don't need to change any habits. Tim - 28/12/2011 10:37:47 AM 974 Views
Is there a law? Nate - 28/12/2011 03:29:39 PM 1050 Views
What I mean is that everybody considers it unsafe to eat raw eggs. Tim - 28/12/2011 06:37:17 PM 985 Views
I didn't know that. Nate - 28/12/2011 07:54:37 PM 1083 Views
It is suggested in the US that you cook the yolk to solid too. Avendesora - 30/12/2011 11:58:10 AM 948 Views
That sounds ridiculously over-cautious to me. Tim - 30/12/2011 05:48:56 PM 1018 Views
I love a runny yolk myself. Vivien - 30/12/2011 06:28:49 PM 845 Views
Re: I love a runny yolk myself. Tim - 31/12/2011 11:30:07 AM 1184 Views
I love technology. Gadgets! Vivien - 27/12/2011 05:27:19 PM 1016 Views
Me! Vivien - 27/12/2011 05:08:51 PM 1058 Views
Oui! Kel - 28/12/2011 02:09:06 AM 989 Views
Re: Oui! Vivien - 28/12/2011 07:26:01 PM 980 Views
I'm scared of those. rebelaessedai - 28/12/2011 07:14:55 AM 1088 Views
That logic is interesting Vivien - 28/12/2011 06:06:48 PM 1658 Views
Why am I embarrassed? No reason. Vivien - 28/12/2011 07:14:07 PM 1019 Views
Re: Nate - 28/12/2011 07:52:04 PM 1118 Views
Re: Re: Vivien - 28/12/2011 09:08:55 PM 926 Views
Fascinating: Vaniqa and hair in general Vivien - 30/12/2011 06:04:58 PM 1151 Views
Oh, you can have it. Aeryn - 28/12/2011 04:37:59 PM 1045 Views
I knew you'd feel like that. Vivien - 28/12/2011 07:18:50 PM 1196 Views
It's often the best plan. I've got a nice list I let Tim pass out to people. Rebekah - 27/12/2011 05:23:08 PM 1030 Views
Boiled egg and toast soldier set??? Vivien - 27/12/2011 05:32:15 PM 950 Views
I kid you not. Rebekah - 27/12/2011 05:37:49 PM 1545 Views
Ok then. Carry on. *NM* Vivien - 27/12/2011 05:49:34 PM 577 Views
That is hilarious. Avendesora - 27/12/2011 09:18:42 PM 1283 Views
You don't have to live like that anymore. *NM* Vivien - 27/12/2011 09:20:40 PM 1051 Views
XD *NM* Avendesora - 27/12/2011 09:21:44 PM 595 Views
*NM* Rebekah - 27/12/2011 10:59:54 PM 609 Views
I got an ipad. Avendesora - 27/12/2011 05:51:39 PM 1120 Views
Awww awesome. Vivien - 27/12/2011 05:57:53 PM 1097 Views
No but Sareitha Sedai - 27/12/2011 06:56:50 PM 1142 Views
I didn't ask for it. Aeryn - 27/12/2011 07:06:47 PM 1046 Views
I know, I was talking about Avendesora Sareitha Sedai - 27/12/2011 07:25:20 PM 1096 Views
. Use it to video yourself fondling the melons. Avendesora - 27/12/2011 08:56:25 PM 993 Views
It's more like you agreed Vivien - 27/12/2011 07:27:17 PM 1034 Views
Re: No but Vivien - 27/12/2011 07:19:51 PM 1024 Views
Well that makes sense. Sareitha Sedai - 27/12/2011 07:51:41 PM 996 Views
What if it's a roomba? Vivien - 27/12/2011 09:19:54 PM 972 Views
Nope. Sareitha Sedai - 28/12/2011 02:13:55 PM 929 Views
You must share ways to make it more useful. Aeryn - 27/12/2011 07:09:18 PM 1041 Views
Use Calibre (or other, similar, software) to convert PDF to MOBI. Nebhead - 27/12/2011 08:08:26 PM 1021 Views
but, why? Aeryn - 27/12/2011 10:27:25 PM 986 Views
Hm. Avendesora - 27/12/2011 09:07:48 PM 1107 Views
Font size for PDFs? I don't think that option exists. Aeryn - 27/12/2011 10:29:08 PM 1139 Views
No... Just the kindle app with kindle Books so far. Sorry! Avendesora - 28/12/2011 01:14:37 AM 972 Views
A lump of coal. Tom - 27/12/2011 06:26:43 PM 900 Views
Re: A lump of coal. Vivien - 27/12/2011 07:43:16 PM 1090 Views
Which Перелетные птицы? Tom - 27/12/2011 08:40:48 PM 1107 Views
The second one. Vivien - 27/12/2011 09:14:56 PM 879 Views
Are there any non-Russian speakers reading this subthread? Tom - 27/12/2011 10:20:45 PM 998 Views
Santa's Bounty Kel - 27/12/2011 06:30:19 PM 1028 Views
That's quite a haul. Vivien - 27/12/2011 09:26:35 PM 964 Views
a mix Yunalesca - 27/12/2011 06:34:29 PM 1084 Views
I didn't get anything except two ornaments and pajama pants. MightyYT - 27/12/2011 06:40:55 PM 1048 Views
Re: I didn't get anything except two ornaments and pajama pants. Vivien - 27/12/2011 09:29:28 PM 1021 Views
Everything I wished for ironclad - 27/12/2011 07:39:17 PM 978 Views
You had a foursome with Scarlett Johanson, Angelina Jolie and Jessica Biel? *NM* TaskmasterJack - 27/12/2011 09:40:13 PM 583 Views
Pah! No, of course not. ironclad - 27/12/2011 09:41:56 PM 925 Views
I got a suit. LordPerrin - 27/12/2011 08:40:40 PM 1011 Views
Oooh that's a really good one. Vivien - 27/12/2011 09:33:01 PM 1016 Views
My parents took me and I got fitted. *NM* LordPerrin - 27/12/2011 10:22:15 PM 551 Views
My Immediate Family will celebrate Little Christmas on New Years Day... vandevere - 27/12/2011 09:11:36 PM 972 Views
I got a rock. TaskmasterJack - 27/12/2011 09:43:21 PM 1032 Views
Camcorder + case + SD card, coffee grinder, ball bearing maze puzzle with money trapped inside. Tim - 27/12/2011 11:40:52 PM 1056 Views
Anastasia doesn't tell you what she wants? rebelaessedai - 28/12/2011 12:29:31 AM 1141 Views
It can be difficult, but only if you don't know what you're doing. Vivien - 28/12/2011 01:18:31 AM 1060 Views
Truer words have never been spoken! Roonas - 28/12/2011 03:27:29 AM 1040 Views
Re: Truer words have never been spoken! Vivien - 28/12/2011 07:23:15 PM 1132 Views
I didn't see that one!! rebelaessedai - 28/12/2011 07:11:10 AM 973 Views
Re: I didn't see that one!! Vivien - 28/12/2011 05:36:24 PM 1019 Views
I'm easy to shop for. rebelaessedai - 30/12/2011 07:54:59 AM 981 Views
I think accessories are wonderful. And I had a kickass gift season. Aeryn - 28/12/2011 04:36:21 PM 1025 Views
My Christmas gift: my 6-week old son slept for 6 hours straight through the night. *NM* Macharius - 28/12/2011 01:26:12 AM 556 Views
*NM* Kel - 28/12/2011 02:10:42 AM 512 Views
a Pressure Cooker ... Roonas - 28/12/2011 02:41:00 AM 1041 Views
What does it do? Vivien - 28/12/2011 02:43:58 AM 1024 Views
It makes meats n veggies super tender ... faster than average ... Roonas - 28/12/2011 03:25:38 AM 1115 Views
You like your veggies tender? rebelaessedai - 28/12/2011 07:12:43 AM 1007 Views
Depends on the vegetable ... Roonas - 30/12/2011 08:12:41 PM 1054 Views
That's awesome.. Kel - 28/12/2011 03:35:41 AM 1016 Views
The newer ones are much safer, so long as they are cleaned and maintained ... Roonas - 28/12/2011 03:42:15 AM 937 Views
I'd have one, if not for the bad memories.. Kel - 28/12/2011 02:49:04 PM 991 Views
I love mine for brown rice. It cuts cooking time in half. No explosions in 2 years. *NM* Avendesora - 30/12/2011 12:07:20 PM 583 Views
Yay! The_Muted_Grimaud - 28/12/2011 03:36:18 AM 947 Views
I did pretty well random thoughts - 28/12/2011 03:40:46 AM 966 Views
Re: I did pretty well Vivien - 30/12/2011 06:32:04 PM 987 Views
Glorious gift cards! Mndrew - 28/12/2011 04:56:49 AM 1102 Views
The vodka fairy was very good this year. Stephen - 28/12/2011 02:10:21 PM 1109 Views
chocolate vodka? Vivien - 28/12/2011 07:21:52 PM 1039 Views
I haven't tried it yet. Stephen - 28/12/2011 07:30:17 PM 1029 Views
Sonic Screwdriver! Missa Sedai - 28/12/2011 10:18:36 PM 1072 Views
Picture of the Boston Terrier Totebag? *NM* Vivien - 30/12/2011 06:30:13 PM 561 Views
Re: Presents! nossy - 29/12/2011 10:58:44 AM 1285 Views
I like my dishwasher random thoughts - 29/12/2011 12:27:31 PM 928 Views
heh. nossy - 29/12/2011 01:31:01 PM 894 Views
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