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I actually find that conversation quite interesting. nossy Send a noteboard - 29/02/2012 08:18:35 PM
And there are quite a few things for us to disagree on in that too. ;)

one of the biggest, rehash debates of this site (and especially its predecessor) and the perfect response to it.

The debate is regarding a loving God and "sending people to hell." I've always stated that its not God sending someone to hell, but instead it is the person who is sending themself to hell. Or seen from a different perspective, God chose everyone to be in heaven, but the only ones who will be in heaven are those who choose God.

I do agree that God doesn't "send people to hell." I don't really believe in hell as it was described during the dark ages. I don't believe that if a poor little man in India never heard of Christ/God, he is automatically doomed to burn in hell... unless a Mormon thinks of him and gets baptized in his honor, anyway.

I think we got a pretty raw deal if one woman once ate one apple and forever after we had to be careful to understand exactly what to believe, or our afterlives would be nothing but anguish. We do not believe in precisely the same God, imo.

So having that in mind, think about what you said. About how you would consider it, essentially, spiritual rape for someone to push aside your decision about what you believe, in order to supplant it with something else. It is offensive to you. It is casting aside your free will. Interestingly enough, God feels the same way in that you can make up your own mind, and He will respect that....even if it breaks His heart.

I suppose I'll find out, if I end up in hell. But I do believe that the choices I make for myself are mine to make, and to mess up (or not) as I will. And if I'm wrong, God and I can talk about that when I get there.

(edit: I don't think Narg is suggesting casting aside my free will (see his "play ticket" comment to LL), but it does seem that the Mormon faith takes liberties that I find offensive, personally, and it does touch on free will.)

Good post

Thank you?
This message last edited by nossy on 29/02/2012 at 08:23:12 PM
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Do you know the best way to anger an atheist? Dark Knight - 28/02/2012 07:10:57 PM 2091 Views
Or, you could baptize one of them, posthumously. nossy - 28/02/2012 07:32:48 PM 1414 Views
Ooo that is hilarious *NM* Dark Knight - 28/02/2012 08:22:19 PM 509 Views
I can't think of any reason for an atheist to be annoyed by that. Tim - 28/02/2012 11:08:44 PM 1146 Views
Well, for starters, it's really effing rude. nossy - 28/02/2012 11:31:36 PM 1215 Views
It is an act of love. Narg - 29/02/2012 12:34:03 AM 1210 Views
Everyone does it for that reason? (edits for clarity) nossy - 29/02/2012 10:27:02 AM 1093 Views
I have some disturbing news for you... Narg - 29/02/2012 06:42:41 PM 1126 Views
For anyone reading this: the guy above is wrong, and I am admitting that to you on his behalf, so nossy - 29/02/2012 07:15:38 PM 1173 Views
Maybe without realizing it, you have articulated.... Jeordam - 29/02/2012 07:24:13 PM 989 Views
I actually find that conversation quite interesting. nossy - 29/02/2012 08:18:35 PM 1108 Views
Re: I actually find that conversation quite interesting. Jeordam - 29/02/2012 09:07:06 PM 1178 Views
I cannot possibly agree more with these two paragraphs of yours... LadyLorraine - 29/02/2012 09:28:09 PM 1162 Views
I'm surprised to see some of this. nossy - 01/03/2012 12:11:31 PM 1014 Views
I find the Fall perhaps the most interesting part. Joel - 02/03/2012 09:05:29 AM 1564 Views
Re: I find the Fall perhaps the most interesting part. Jeordam - 02/03/2012 06:26:06 PM 1345 Views
There are 3 critical distinctions: 1) Ability to sin, 2) Awareness of sin and 3) Appreciation of sin Joel - 05/03/2012 04:08:36 AM 1101 Views
You said it was really effing rude. Narg - 29/02/2012 08:18:40 PM 1180 Views
I meant that the act of choosing for someone else nossy - 29/02/2012 08:54:02 PM 1069 Views
Question snoopcester - 29/02/2012 07:58:32 PM 1158 Views
No, I don't blame them or think they are fools. Narg - 29/02/2012 08:41:13 PM 1164 Views
It is not an act of love to defy the beliefs of a loved one. LadyLorraine - 29/02/2012 02:32:45 PM 1241 Views
Rape? That is ridiculous. Narg - 29/02/2012 05:26:13 PM 1169 Views
It's a bit of hyperbole, but not too far from it, imo LadyLorraine - 29/02/2012 05:45:39 PM 1168 Views
You are trying your best to not understand. Narg - 29/02/2012 07:12:57 PM 1184 Views
I suspect that that is where a lot of the issue with it lies. Chas - 02/03/2012 01:33:43 AM 1257 Views
one thing nossy - 29/02/2012 06:25:45 PM 1192 Views
Precisely *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/02/2012 06:59:15 PM 551 Views
Bad example Praziquantel - 05/03/2012 05:06:21 AM 1259 Views
"Spiritual rape" might be going a bit far, but otherwise that sounds about right. Joel - 02/03/2012 08:06:48 AM 1238 Views
Why would they be angry about that? Hieshyn - 02/03/2012 01:23:56 AM 1375 Views
Denying people rights since it was written 3000 years ago? jh - 28/02/2012 07:44:02 PM 1094 Views
Isn't religion different than faith, though? Nate - 28/02/2012 07:44:07 PM 1206 Views
Yeah that's pretty much what I said Dark Knight - 28/02/2012 08:21:56 PM 1009 Views
Only if I get to be Pope. Nate - 28/02/2012 08:25:45 PM 1128 Views
I love me my vices! Thanks Pope Dark Knight - 28/02/2012 10:14:27 PM 1031 Views
Generally the same way you piss off anyone else Isaac - 28/02/2012 08:43:04 PM 1122 Views
Great post. Narg - 28/02/2012 09:18:38 PM 1116 Views
I find that the best way is to smile. Dannymac - 29/02/2012 06:23:50 AM 1125 Views
Some answers Narg - 28/02/2012 09:05:35 PM 1083 Views
that won't work on Buddists Yunalesca - 28/02/2012 09:21:48 PM 1147 Views
On the other hand ... Nate - 28/02/2012 09:28:27 PM 993 Views
For some reason I always imagine Buddhists as the monk class on RPG games... *NM* Dark Knight - 28/02/2012 10:13:27 PM 566 Views
LOL same *NM* ironclad - 28/02/2012 10:31:38 PM 540 Views
That's always been my view of the issue. Half-assed non-religious types are just as obnoxious too. Cannoli - 28/02/2012 10:34:12 PM 1370 Views
Seems a got both a pat on the back and a scathing rebuke. I call that a good day Dark Knight - 28/02/2012 11:57:45 PM 1426 Views
Best way to anger an atheist, by declaring all atheists are the same. *NM* Roland00 - 28/02/2012 10:38:51 PM 699 Views
Telling anyone what they actually believe will work. *NM* Aeryn - 28/02/2012 10:51:56 PM 536 Views
This kind of works for many, doesn't it? Jeordam - 29/02/2012 06:22:33 PM 1007 Views
I'm an atheist, and I consider it to be my religion. *NM* Aeryn - 28/02/2012 10:51:00 PM 508 Views
Common error number 1: "Atheism isn't a lack of belief, but rather a belief that God doesn't exist." Tim - 28/02/2012 11:18:23 PM 1316 Views
I second that DomA - 29/02/2012 03:46:15 AM 1123 Views
Curiously, anger at statements of simple obvious facts is a hallmark of religious fundamentalism. Joel - 29/02/2012 10:27:29 AM 1243 Views
What you're doing there is defining "atheist" and "agnostic" in a way that suits you, but... Tim - 29/02/2012 11:50:27 AM 1030 Views
What I am doing is using the terms as they were universally used until about the time I was born. Joel - 05/03/2012 01:11:21 AM 1164 Views
So what do you call this position?: Tim - 05/03/2012 08:43:20 AM 1130 Views
I call them both agnostic, but the former leans toward atheism while the latter has no lean. Joel - 05/03/2012 10:53:02 AM 1214 Views
See, there you go again, defining atheism in such a way as to make it sound ridiculous. Tim - 05/03/2012 11:21:17 AM 999 Views
Well, is unswerving belief a good thing, or not? Joel - 05/03/2012 11:57:05 AM 1229 Views
What's happening nossy - 05/03/2012 02:24:41 PM 1242 Views
Conversationally, DKs use of "atheism" at the start of this convo is the only practical definition. Joel - 07/03/2012 03:10:18 AM 1543 Views
Oh really? The guy who was doing it to annoy people? nossy - 07/03/2012 09:53:38 PM 1123 Views
The guy who was doing it to annoy atheists based on the terms technical and popular meaning, yes. Joel - 11/03/2012 04:04:36 AM 1012 Views
Whatever. nossy - 12/03/2012 12:39:24 AM 1502 Views
*NM* nossy - 12/03/2012 01:14:39 AM 564 Views
I understand that as "I completely agree." Joel - 13/03/2012 12:11:18 AM 1298 Views
I saw it as.... TaskmasterJack - 13/03/2012 10:44:37 PM 1021 Views
My browser does not like your gif. Joel - 13/03/2012 11:32:06 PM 1282 Views
I have known very few people who "believe" their religion from rearing and actually understand it. Joel - 29/02/2012 12:08:01 PM 1363 Views
I have a few good quotes for this one. Dreaded Anomaly - 29/02/2012 03:29:22 PM 1143 Views
I snerfled. *NM* Avendesora - 29/02/2012 05:12:32 PM 545 Views
I thought that was "best way to make an atheist roll his/her eyes at you"? *NM* Craig - 29/02/2012 11:05:21 PM 729 Views
Re: That's it? *NM* RomaVenkat - 01/03/2012 06:33:48 AM 610 Views
Re: Do you know the best way to anger an atheist? Nefarious - 02/03/2012 01:47:03 AM 1068 Views
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