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Have you ever had any experiences that were totally immersive, or close to it? Dan Send a noteboard - 10/03/2012 01:12:41 AM
If so, what were the circumstances around it? Not gritty details, naturally, but like: "met at a bar, were totally into each other, I knew I had to be on a train tomorrow so naturally.... etc."

If nothing like that describe the circumstances of your best experience?
Also describe the circumstances of one your more prominent fantasies. Again, no need for positions, just place/time/person etc.



This is the same question I ask myself every time I have sex with someone. I enjoy the feelings, I have reason to believe I'm good at sex, I most definitely am not prudish (gay sex can be messy), etc. And yet I can never totally immerse myself in the experience. Today I was having fun with the guy I'm dating. I ended it by saying I want to watch the news. I just didn't feel like continuing. I apologised but yeah, he was pretty quiet after that. There's nothing wrong with him, he's good-looking and intelligent. I have a crush on him. So why the f**k is my urge to ravish him so .. low? Am I just naturally frigid? That's a terrible thought. I really, really hate the idea of being asexual. You think it was easy coming to terms with being gay? Try to cope with something like that.
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Dunno. - 09/03/2012 09:54:55 PM 550 Views
It's not that awful. Just a ..conundrum *NM* - 09/03/2012 10:35:44 PM 159 Views
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I agree! - 10/03/2012 04:33:34 PM 390 Views
Re: Sex. Why don't I love it? - 09/03/2012 11:44:35 PM 595 Views
Thank you for your answer. I really appreciate it. *NM* - 10/03/2012 07:54:33 AM 196 Views
Have you ever had any experiences that were totally immersive, or close to it? - 10/03/2012 01:12:41 AM 433 Views
Maybe not much of a consolation, - 10/03/2012 08:07:09 PM 442 Views

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