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Yes. nossy Send a noteboard - 13/06/2012 05:06:02 PM
Typical social restraints just don't exist online, for most people. People will loudly mock viewpoints counter to their own using all sorts of insults, and these comments are broadcast to every friend they have. I can't even imagine one of my friends standing up in the middle of a party, and announcing to the room how disgusting they found "social_group_x" or how criminally insane are members of "political_group_y." And yet they regularly do exactly that online.

Yeah, they do. And I am a debater. I want to say something, but 99% of the time feel that it is not worth it.

When you talk to someone in person, you're careful about what you say. You don't lie or hide your opinions, but you try to couch things in friendly terms, avoid causing offense, etc. For whatever reason, people are just unable to translate those niceties to the online space. Consequently, my friends list is very small, I've hidden lots of people from my wall, and I virtually never post anything myself.

RAFOnauts: be careful with your online opinions. You're annoying/offending a lot of people who like you enough not to start a fight.

I agree. Just be respectful. Seriously. I try, but I'm sure I don't always succeed. :P
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Facebook eye-openers.(partially NSSP) - 13/06/2012 05:10:53 AM 1250 Views
A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 12:00:19 PM 863 Views
Re: A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 05:07:04 PM 831 Views
The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 12:36:22 PM 939 Views
I laughed at your post - 13/06/2012 05:03:18 PM 667 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:34:42 PM 782 Views
*NM* - 13/06/2012 08:51:04 PM 391 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:57:11 PM 723 Views
You complain about football comments, and then you post things like that? - 13/06/2012 10:31:10 PM 712 Views
Same here - 14/06/2012 12:24:46 AM 769 Views
A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:13:27 AM 730 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:32:15 AM 672 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 04:14:20 PM 782 Views
What were his stats again? - 14/06/2012 08:38:40 PM 750 Views
Maybe you can clarify... - 13/06/2012 02:01:58 PM 781 Views
Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 04:55:28 PM 893 Views
Facebook is about the casual insulting of opposed political, religious and social viewpoints. - 13/06/2012 07:22:57 PM 773 Views
Apparently. - 13/06/2012 08:13:38 PM 837 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 07:50:53 PM 795 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:10:32 PM 806 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:46:45 PM 801 Views
Hm. - 13/06/2012 09:52:58 PM 804 Views
Did I mention - 21/06/2012 07:35:14 AM 765 Views
This is actually the biggest reason I dislike Facebook (and other social media). - 13/06/2012 03:49:45 PM 848 Views
Yes. - 13/06/2012 05:06:02 PM 752 Views
Re: Yes. - 13/06/2012 07:10:50 PM 690 Views
Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM 729 Views
We have two options, as I see it: 1) Wear big boy pants; 2) Hide lots of posts. - 13/06/2012 04:02:07 PM 1049 Views
Hahaha yeah - 13/06/2012 04:21:11 PM 788 Views
Or big girl pants? - 13/06/2012 05:11:09 PM 795 Views
I'm lucky that I pretty much never see anything on Facebook that really annoys me - 13/06/2012 04:23:43 PM 752 Views
I've been thinking about that. - 13/06/2012 05:02:17 PM 753 Views
Yes - 13/06/2012 05:40:35 PM 759 Views
Good. - 13/06/2012 07:49:13 PM 983 Views
I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 08:27:45 PM 748 Views
Re: I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 09:22:38 PM 827 Views
Very well said, and done. - 13/06/2012 09:18:37 PM 779 Views
Same. And re: the backlash: there'd almost have to be, wouldn't there? - 13/06/2012 10:18:57 PM 844 Views
Well yes, that was me rather stating the obvious - 13/06/2012 10:56:12 PM 839 Views
An AZ cop posted a FB pic of him with kids, a gun and a bullet riddled shirt with Obamas face on it. - 13/06/2012 11:40:38 PM 894 Views
I think you might have missed what my point was. - 13/06/2012 11:51:15 PM 749 Views
Looks that way; sorry. - 14/06/2012 12:47:16 AM 681 Views
usually hide them if it annoys me for longer than a week *NM* - 13/06/2012 04:51:56 PM 314 Views
Most folks I can tolerate. - 13/06/2012 05:55:31 PM 793 Views
My Facebook friends tend to be tolerable. - 13/06/2012 07:31:59 PM 755 Views
I will de-friend the people who annoy me. - 14/06/2012 01:23:32 AM 695 Views
Facewhat? *NM* - 14/06/2012 02:37:47 AM 297 Views
Luckily I haven't got many of these. - 14/06/2012 11:05:43 AM 742 Views
I find a lot of interesting news on Facebook - 14/06/2012 01:37:59 PM 810 Views
Same on the replacing much of what I once received from this community. - 14/06/2012 09:48:15 PM 677 Views
For me, if it's everyone once in a while, I'll let it slide. - 14/06/2012 01:53:58 PM 751 Views

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