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Many, many people see lying to children as a perfectly legitimate technique. Dreaded Anomaly Send a noteboard - 27/10/2009 07:23:59 PM
They don't need to know the gory details, but it's important to grow up knowing basic facts of life. My dad died when I was young (youngest sibling was only 13), and we weren't destroyed by it because we knew that people die. It's not some big secret. Treat it like it is, and you end up with very confused young people who feel the need to explain it or blame it on someone.


Not just coddling... but severe coddling. It's ridiculous. I am really considering writing the local paper. I feel like an asshole doing it but something should be done.

I would feel like an ass too, but I think that sometimes someone coming from that position can make a better impact-- you don't want to speak your mind on it because that's not what you do, but you feel it's necessary this time.


People lie to their children all the time. A large proportion of parents feel that their children either can't or shouldn't "have to" understand "adult" concepts. I think it's a horrendous way to go about raising kids, but it's very well accepted in today's society.
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Oh okay thanks! - 27/10/2009 02:54:46 PM 584 Views
You have the right of it. - 27/10/2009 03:05:48 PM 603 Views
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What she's saying is true. - 27/10/2009 04:40:22 PM 575 Views
You gotta be kidding me! - 27/10/2009 03:42:57 PM 592 Views
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huh? - 27/10/2009 02:57:20 PM 688 Views
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And.... - 27/10/2009 03:17:42 PM 591 Views
People are paranoid. *NM* - 27/10/2009 03:11:26 PM 259 Views
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sheesh man! Ridiculous. *NM* - 27/10/2009 11:34:21 PM 246 Views
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That was a funny mind image. *NM* - 28/10/2009 01:08:42 AM 251 Views
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