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Re: Never paid a dime. Beqi Send a noteboard - 04/11/2009 03:24:02 AM

I'm kind of hoping not. They should contact him with a legal order for full back child support, and offer to "let him off the hook" if he signs away his rights. Bribe him. It will be a much better situation for the child and for your brother.


That's a good way to handle it.


They could terminate his parental rights for non payment. Or get back child support. If his rights are terminated, your brother can adopt at any time.
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I'm an observer. nossy - 02/11/2009 11:16:50 PM 865 Views
Is your brother going to actually adopt the child? Tashmere - 02/11/2009 11:54:20 PM 887 Views
My brother wants to, but... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:18:20 PM 820 Views
Does he pay child support? Sareitha Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:38:33 AM 725 Views
Never paid a dime. Missa Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:44:40 AM 721 Views
Re: Never paid a dime. Beqi - 04/11/2009 03:24:02 AM 760 Views
Re: Never paid a dime. Angel Barchild - 05/11/2009 07:35:05 AM 728 Views
I'd only change the name if he adopted the son legally. Beqi - 03/11/2009 12:23:08 AM 756 Views
I agree with you and Tash... Antigone - 03/11/2009 03:22:28 AM 754 Views
The thing is... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:19:45 PM 726 Views
Concur Isaac - 03/11/2009 06:56:54 PM 811 Views
I'm more interested in the feelings/needs of the child than the feelings of adults. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:16:49 AM 755 Views
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There's bad things, and there's bad things. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:46:33 PM 699 Views
I don't know the full details of the first marriage... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:28:41 PM 727 Views
True... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:23:55 PM 781 Views
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My situation was almost the same. mapthis - 03/11/2009 02:10:24 AM 828 Views
My sister changed her name when she ascended to the Crystal Throne, may she live forever. Blaine - 03/11/2009 02:52:35 AM 862 Views
Not me, but..... Kat - 03/11/2009 03:07:28 AM 888 Views
I personally believe the boy should keep his biological fathers last name no matter what *NM* Aisha - 03/11/2009 03:18:24 AM 344 Views
I'm curious why you believe this. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:54:40 PM 727 Views
I'm a bit curious too...explain. *NM* Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:31:02 PM 319 Views
personal belief Aisha - 04/11/2009 03:44:35 PM 715 Views
Are they changing his name to Clark Kent? If so, I don't think the kid will have a problem. *NM* callandor1000 - 03/11/2009 04:04:35 AM 331 Views
I gave She her dad's last name, we weren't married, had no real intentions of getting married, StarrBecca - 03/11/2009 05:10:31 AM 735 Views
Happened to my dad (kinda). Craig - 03/11/2009 05:25:52 AM 729 Views
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I am in a similar position. Seriana Sedai - 03/11/2009 07:18:57 AM 782 Views
I'd wait until the child is old enough to want to himself Monkey - 03/11/2009 07:29:36 AM 728 Views
I think I kind of agree here... Tashmere - 06/11/2009 03:28:31 AM 762 Views
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