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agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided LadyLorraine Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM
Not say say you shouldn't ask her to give you that time, just phrase it more elegantly.

And seriously, actually celebrating anything more than years is silly. I mean, Nick and I acknowledge months because we're in a long distance relationship and it's reassuring to think about, but we don't CELEBRATE them.

Hold your ground. IMO, if she's pushing and pushing without thought for you and your feelings, then she's probably "needing to be loved" or something like that, and you're in for a ride anyways
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