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Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM
And stress to her that just because you aren't ready to say something like that, that it doesn't mean that you don't care for her. Stress to her that you like her a lot, and that your guys' relationship is still very important to you, but that you just need time before you're going to feel like saying it is right.

If all else fails....just blame your ex-wife. I'm sure you can come up with a good tale that explains how she has ruined your "I love you" saying ability for a while.
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Why do people say it? MightyYT - 26/01/2010 08:43:26 AM 874 Views
I totally see what you mean and agree on all accounts ironclad - 26/01/2010 08:53:16 AM 548 Views
I knew I loved Tim quite early on. Rebekah - 26/01/2010 02:04:01 PM 443 Views
I dunno ironclad - 26/01/2010 02:19:49 PM 434 Views
Re: I dunno Amys - 27/01/2010 01:02:16 AM 443 Views
Just stand your ground ßelals Girl - 26/01/2010 09:24:25 AM 464 Views
That is my plan so far. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:01:03 PM 417 Views
Dunno. nossy - 26/01/2010 11:44:56 AM 429 Views
My exact words to her were.. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:06:31 PM 403 Views
I would go with my usual line Hobgoblin - 26/01/2010 12:47:59 PM 476 Views
I know people can fall fast... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:08:33 PM 369 Views
Eesh. Elaine - 26/01/2010 01:26:06 PM 439 Views
The problem isn't them wanting you to say it is them wanting you to prove it random thoughts - 26/01/2010 01:54:16 PM 422 Views
That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM 418 Views
isn't pretty much what she is doing now? random thoughts - 26/01/2010 05:55:41 PM 398 Views
If I were you... Lici - 26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM 497 Views
agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM 409 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM 572 Views
I agree but we happen to know the day LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:52:20 PM 405 Views
I wish I knew the day...would make things easier. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:35:55 PM 413 Views
oh shut up LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 10:55:22 PM 444 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 11:29:23 PM 439 Views
I don't find it that odd that it was the boyfriend's idea random thoughts - 26/01/2010 04:05:21 PM 442 Views
mine doesn't LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 04:25:26 PM 442 Views
Not in this case. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:32:00 PM 458 Views
teenagers are just wierd random thoughts - 26/01/2010 11:48:14 PM 438 Views
She's not a teenager. Lici - 26/01/2010 11:51:06 PM 418 Views
That is why God invented dark random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:02:44 AM 413 Views
Hmm. Lici - 27/01/2010 01:06:04 AM 409 Views
it was close random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:35:54 AM 393 Views
I knew a couple that did that Brian - 26/01/2010 04:50:41 PM 391 Views
Wow. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:33:21 PM 402 Views
Women are mysterious creatures. Tigr - 26/01/2010 02:18:10 PM 428 Views
They way all wise men handle advice about women. *NM* MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:13:36 PM 177 Views
It sucks, but there's nothing else you can do. Sareitha Sedai - 26/01/2010 03:02:42 PM 589 Views
This isn't somehting I can compromise on... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:18:45 PM 396 Views
Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM 401 Views
It's a good tale of not just that...but of... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM 411 Views
We don't by any chance have the same ex-wife do we?? Brian - 26/01/2010 05:49:59 PM 507 Views
Not unless you got married and divorced in the last 3.5 years. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 06:32:34 PM 566 Views
I have a question. Tashmere - 27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM 380 Views
She is 26. MightyYT - 27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM 437 Views
Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she Tashmere - 27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM 482 Views
Hmmm...that may be MightyYT - 27/01/2010 06:05:14 PM 394 Views
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