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That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT Send a noteboard - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM
Starts off with just saying I love you to keep them happy then you get the "if you loved me you would ______" it starts to take more and more to fill that blank in.

You could always turn the tables and say that if she loved you she would give you time.


My response is always "If you loved me, you would never use that phrase." It works surprisingly often for me.
Castle: This is so weird. I dressed up as him for Halloween.

Beckett: Me too.

~When Castle and Beckett met Gene Simmons.
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Why do people say it? MightyYT - 26/01/2010 08:43:26 AM 1007 Views
I totally see what you mean and agree on all accounts ironclad - 26/01/2010 08:53:16 AM 694 Views
I knew I loved Tim quite early on. Rebekah - 26/01/2010 02:04:01 PM 580 Views
I dunno ironclad - 26/01/2010 02:19:49 PM 591 Views
Re: I dunno Amys - 27/01/2010 01:02:16 AM 583 Views
Just stand your ground ßelals Girl - 26/01/2010 09:24:25 AM 594 Views
That is my plan so far. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:01:03 PM 547 Views
Dunno. nossy - 26/01/2010 11:44:56 AM 547 Views
My exact words to her were.. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:06:31 PM 533 Views
I would go with my usual line Hobgoblin - 26/01/2010 12:47:59 PM 615 Views
I know people can fall fast... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:08:33 PM 494 Views
Eesh. Elaine - 26/01/2010 01:26:06 PM 567 Views
The problem isn't them wanting you to say it is them wanting you to prove it random thoughts - 26/01/2010 01:54:16 PM 552 Views
That type of emotional blackmail does not work on me. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:10:37 PM 564 Views
isn't pretty much what she is doing now? random thoughts - 26/01/2010 05:55:41 PM 526 Views
If I were you... Lici - 26/01/2010 02:05:04 PM 642 Views
agreed, although anything "if you X, you would X" should be avoided LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:16:11 PM 536 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 03:28:59 PM 685 Views
I agree but we happen to know the day LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 03:52:20 PM 538 Views
I wish I knew the day...would make things easier. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:35:55 PM 543 Views
oh shut up LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 10:55:22 PM 574 Views
Lici - 26/01/2010 11:29:23 PM 566 Views
I don't find it that odd that it was the boyfriend's idea random thoughts - 26/01/2010 04:05:21 PM 586 Views
mine doesn't LadyLorraine - 26/01/2010 04:25:26 PM 574 Views
Not in this case. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:32:00 PM 584 Views
teenagers are just wierd random thoughts - 26/01/2010 11:48:14 PM 573 Views
She's not a teenager. Lici - 26/01/2010 11:51:06 PM 549 Views
That is why God invented dark random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:02:44 AM 541 Views
Hmm. Lici - 27/01/2010 01:06:04 AM 534 Views
it was close random thoughts - 27/01/2010 01:35:54 AM 521 Views
I knew a couple that did that Brian - 26/01/2010 04:50:41 PM 526 Views
Wow. Lici - 26/01/2010 09:33:21 PM 525 Views
Women are mysterious creatures. Tigr - 26/01/2010 02:18:10 PM 557 Views
They way all wise men handle advice about women. *NM* MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:13:36 PM 235 Views
It sucks, but there's nothing else you can do. Sareitha Sedai - 26/01/2010 03:02:42 PM 731 Views
This isn't somehting I can compromise on... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:18:45 PM 539 Views
Just tell her what you said in the first paragraph there.... Brian - 26/01/2010 04:57:55 PM 536 Views
It's a good tale of not just that...but of... MightyYT - 26/01/2010 05:21:29 PM 542 Views
We don't by any chance have the same ex-wife do we?? Brian - 26/01/2010 05:49:59 PM 640 Views
Not unless you got married and divorced in the last 3.5 years. MightyYT - 26/01/2010 06:32:34 PM 717 Views
I have a question. Tashmere - 27/01/2010 01:49:18 AM 504 Views
She is 26. MightyYT - 27/01/2010 08:22:41 AM 590 Views
Ah. So she wasn't pressuring you. She was just being open about how she was feeling and why she Tashmere - 27/01/2010 12:30:01 PM 622 Views
Hmmm...that may be MightyYT - 27/01/2010 06:05:14 PM 524 Views
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