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I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT Send a noteboard - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM
My ex left me after 5 years ago in the same manner. I came home from work (3 days before Christmas mind you) and she was gone and a Dear John on the door. There was no fighting beforehand and no sign that anything was wrong. She pretty much told me that same thing. The next step is difficult to decide and everyone has to choose their own way. It was different for me in that there was not a kid involved. I kept the divorce amicable and split our stuff 50/50, but I made her do all the leg work and pay the legal fees out of her own pocket because I didn't want the divorce.

Hang in there. A path will open up. Just keep your eyes out for it.
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Beckett: Me too.

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And then, yesterday - the world came apart SilverWarder - 13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM 1300 Views
*hugs* Morgawse - 13/03/2010 02:21:49 PM 665 Views
*Hug* SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:53:34 PM 620 Views
I'm so sorry to hear that. Sareitha Sedai - 13/03/2010 04:06:26 PM 771 Views
Thank you Sareitha SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:56:30 AM 627 Views
Oh my goodness. nossy - 13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM 633 Views
Thanks Jen SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM 578 Views
It may not do much good to say this, but nossy - 18/03/2010 05:37:46 AM 621 Views
Perhaps I should have said SilverWarder - 18/03/2010 01:49:43 PM 649 Views
how scary. StarrBecca - 13/03/2010 05:27:09 PM 761 Views
It is, thank you. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:00:35 AM 644 Views
Wow...I'm sorry man Brian - 13/03/2010 06:09:01 PM 629 Views
wow.. Kel - 13/03/2010 06:21:56 PM 648 Views
I wouldn't call that nothing. That could make it better. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:59:49 AM 665 Views
oh, my Camilla - 13/03/2010 06:47:00 PM 668 Views
How utterly selfish and childish of her ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 07:06:34 PM 735 Views
Re: And then, yesterday - the world came apart Egwene Dreamwalker - 13/03/2010 07:11:59 PM 734 Views
Oh, I'm so sorry. Rebekah - 13/03/2010 07:41:48 PM 688 Views
Holy shit, man. cabbage - 13/03/2010 08:31:49 PM 638 Views
I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM 621 Views
There is a little hope here... Tashmere - 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM 648 Views
In Case I haven't said it enough, I <3 you, Tashmere!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/03/2010 06:33:31 AM 264 Views
Some, yes. SilverWarder - 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM 690 Views
at least she's only worried about the important things in life LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 06:53:43 AM 624 Views
Yeah - she LOVES the new Horton hears a Who film. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:06:53 AM 598 Views
That is a tough little girl there. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM 752 Views
Oh yes indeed. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:05:22 AM 666 Views
Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM 615 Views
I am so sorry *NM* Roland00 - 14/03/2010 03:49:38 AM 267 Views
How in touch were you? Helene - 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM 659 Views
Not as much as we could be SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:11:28 AM 722 Views
That's a tough hurdle Helene - 15/03/2010 08:06:07 PM 677 Views
Ouch Floffe - 14/03/2010 11:21:16 AM 623 Views
Dear God that's awful - I don't know how I missed this earlier. Tom - 14/03/2010 01:40:24 PM 667 Views
Thanks, Tom SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:15:50 AM 596 Views
from what I have seen in 57 years of life.... damookster - 14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM 653 Views
I pretty much agree SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:16:48 AM 743 Views
I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies. Tashmere - 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM 669 Views
It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so. SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM 632 Views
*HUGS* *NM* globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:34:33 AM 281 Views
I know what you are going through *hugs* Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM 604 Views
Really sorry, man, hopes and prayers things work out for you. Joel - 15/03/2010 09:05:11 AM 606 Views
aw man, sorry to hear that! *NM* ironclad - 15/03/2010 10:29:16 AM 264 Views
Jesus. Elaine - 15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM 658 Views
It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM 663 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM 715 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM 595 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM 614 Views
Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW! SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM 678 Views
Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM* BlackAdder - 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM 287 Views
Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM 654 Views
oh wow, Mike, I'm sorry. That's aweful LaSombra - 18/03/2010 10:33:06 PM 596 Views
Thanks LS - we're working on it. SilverWarder - 23/03/2010 04:37:27 AM 572 Views
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