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It may not do much good to say this, but nossy Send a noteboard - 18/03/2010 05:37:46 AM


That's close to how I'm looking at things at the moment. The elephant is out in the field now and can be seen, assesed and maybe dealt with. Hopefully dealt with.

I'm hopeful, but I'm also not holding my breath. I don't do well with betrayal and this was a pretty huge set of hurtful lies to do for absolutely no reason at all.

It really doesn't seem to me like it was for "no reason at all." Eventually, you're going to have to decide if you think her rationalization (or lack thereof) was real enough to her to make it all worth this, but I don't think there was no reason. I think there were just undiscussed reasons. And people who are depressed, hurt or just confused can sometimes be excused for making what seem to be stupid reasons. I think you'll really benefit from a discussion that leaves your hurt as a secondary topic, if you think you can do it (I know, easier said than done. *hugs* ).
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And then, yesterday - the world came apart SilverWarder - 13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM 1472 Views
*hugs* Morgawse - 13/03/2010 02:21:49 PM 838 Views
*Hug* SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:53:34 PM 786 Views
I'm so sorry to hear that. Sareitha Sedai - 13/03/2010 04:06:26 PM 947 Views
Thank you Sareitha SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:56:30 AM 773 Views
Oh my goodness. nossy - 13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM 793 Views
Thanks Jen SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM 741 Views
It may not do much good to say this, but nossy - 18/03/2010 05:37:46 AM 779 Views
Perhaps I should have said SilverWarder - 18/03/2010 01:49:43 PM 858 Views
how scary. StarrBecca - 13/03/2010 05:27:09 PM 910 Views
It is, thank you. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:00:35 AM 789 Views
Wow...I'm sorry man Brian - 13/03/2010 06:09:01 PM 798 Views
wow.. Kel - 13/03/2010 06:21:56 PM 807 Views
I wouldn't call that nothing. That could make it better. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:59:49 AM 824 Views
oh, my Camilla - 13/03/2010 06:47:00 PM 829 Views
How utterly selfish and childish of her ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 07:06:34 PM 891 Views
Re: And then, yesterday - the world came apart Egwene Dreamwalker - 13/03/2010 07:11:59 PM 908 Views
Oh, I'm so sorry. Rebekah - 13/03/2010 07:41:48 PM 848 Views
Holy shit, man. cabbage - 13/03/2010 08:31:49 PM 783 Views
I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM 781 Views
There is a little hope here... Tashmere - 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM 801 Views
In Case I haven't said it enough, I <3 you, Tashmere!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/03/2010 06:33:31 AM 343 Views
Some, yes. SilverWarder - 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM 857 Views
at least she's only worried about the important things in life LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 06:53:43 AM 773 Views
Yeah - she LOVES the new Horton hears a Who film. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:06:53 AM 748 Views
That is a tough little girl there. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM 927 Views
Oh yes indeed. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:05:22 AM 826 Views
Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM 774 Views
I am so sorry *NM* Roland00 - 14/03/2010 03:49:38 AM 345 Views
How in touch were you? Helene - 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM 810 Views
Not as much as we could be SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:11:28 AM 888 Views
That's a tough hurdle Helene - 15/03/2010 08:06:07 PM 836 Views
Ouch Floffe - 14/03/2010 11:21:16 AM 776 Views
Dear God that's awful - I don't know how I missed this earlier. Tom - 14/03/2010 01:40:24 PM 847 Views
Thanks, Tom SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:15:50 AM 761 Views
from what I have seen in 57 years of life.... damookster - 14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM 812 Views
I pretty much agree SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:16:48 AM 911 Views
I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies. Tashmere - 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM 826 Views
It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so. SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM 798 Views
*HUGS* *NM* globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:34:33 AM 363 Views
I know what you are going through *hugs* Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM 778 Views
Really sorry, man, hopes and prayers things work out for you. Joel - 15/03/2010 09:05:11 AM 762 Views
aw man, sorry to hear that! *NM* ironclad - 15/03/2010 10:29:16 AM 347 Views
Jesus. Elaine - 15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM 823 Views
It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM 824 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM 883 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM 756 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM 774 Views
Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW! SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM 836 Views
Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM* BlackAdder - 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM 364 Views
Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM 796 Views
oh wow, Mike, I'm sorry. That's aweful LaSombra - 18/03/2010 10:33:06 PM 760 Views
Thanks LS - we're working on it. SilverWarder - 23/03/2010 04:37:27 AM 744 Views
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