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It may not do much good to say this, but nossy Send a noteboard - 18/03/2010 05:37:46 AM


That's close to how I'm looking at things at the moment. The elephant is out in the field now and can be seen, assesed and maybe dealt with. Hopefully dealt with.

I'm hopeful, but I'm also not holding my breath. I don't do well with betrayal and this was a pretty huge set of hurtful lies to do for absolutely no reason at all.

It really doesn't seem to me like it was for "no reason at all." Eventually, you're going to have to decide if you think her rationalization (or lack thereof) was real enough to her to make it all worth this, but I don't think there was no reason. I think there were just undiscussed reasons. And people who are depressed, hurt or just confused can sometimes be excused for making what seem to be stupid reasons. I think you'll really benefit from a discussion that leaves your hurt as a secondary topic, if you think you can do it (I know, easier said than done. *hugs* ).
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And then, yesterday - the world came apart SilverWarder - 13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM 1436 Views
*hugs* Morgawse - 13/03/2010 02:21:49 PM 802 Views
*Hug* SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:53:34 PM 750 Views
I'm so sorry to hear that. Sareitha Sedai - 13/03/2010 04:06:26 PM 907 Views
Thank you Sareitha SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:56:30 AM 739 Views
Oh my goodness. nossy - 13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM 765 Views
Thanks Jen SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM 706 Views
It may not do much good to say this, but nossy - 18/03/2010 05:37:46 AM 746 Views
Perhaps I should have said SilverWarder - 18/03/2010 01:49:43 PM 823 Views
how scary. StarrBecca - 13/03/2010 05:27:09 PM 882 Views
It is, thank you. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:00:35 AM 759 Views
Wow...I'm sorry man Brian - 13/03/2010 06:09:01 PM 766 Views
wow.. Kel - 13/03/2010 06:21:56 PM 773 Views
I wouldn't call that nothing. That could make it better. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:59:49 AM 793 Views
oh, my Camilla - 13/03/2010 06:47:00 PM 793 Views
How utterly selfish and childish of her ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 07:06:34 PM 858 Views
Re: And then, yesterday - the world came apart Egwene Dreamwalker - 13/03/2010 07:11:59 PM 875 Views
Oh, I'm so sorry. Rebekah - 13/03/2010 07:41:48 PM 816 Views
Holy shit, man. cabbage - 13/03/2010 08:31:49 PM 749 Views
I know exactly what you are going through. MightyYT - 13/03/2010 11:19:47 PM 748 Views
There is a little hope here... Tashmere - 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM 771 Views
In Case I haven't said it enough, I <3 you, Tashmere!! *NM* StarrBecca - 14/03/2010 06:33:31 AM 325 Views
Some, yes. SilverWarder - 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM 817 Views
at least she's only worried about the important things in life LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 06:53:43 AM 741 Views
Yeah - she LOVES the new Horton hears a Who film. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:06:53 AM 716 Views
That is a tough little girl there. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM 891 Views
Oh yes indeed. SilverWarder - 16/03/2010 01:05:22 AM 798 Views
Yeah, eggshells and glass suck. Tashmere - 16/03/2010 02:34:10 AM 745 Views
I am so sorry *NM* Roland00 - 14/03/2010 03:49:38 AM 325 Views
How in touch were you? Helene - 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM 786 Views
Not as much as we could be SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:11:28 AM 847 Views
That's a tough hurdle Helene - 15/03/2010 08:06:07 PM 802 Views
Ouch Floffe - 14/03/2010 11:21:16 AM 745 Views
Dear God that's awful - I don't know how I missed this earlier. Tom - 14/03/2010 01:40:24 PM 810 Views
Thanks, Tom SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:15:50 AM 728 Views
from what I have seen in 57 years of life.... damookster - 14/03/2010 02:02:24 PM 779 Views
I pretty much agree SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:16:48 AM 879 Views
I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies. Tashmere - 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM 793 Views
It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so. SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM 758 Views
*HUGS* *NM* globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:34:33 AM 345 Views
I know what you are going through *hugs* Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM 744 Views
Really sorry, man, hopes and prayers things work out for you. Joel - 15/03/2010 09:05:11 AM 729 Views
aw man, sorry to hear that! *NM* ironclad - 15/03/2010 10:29:16 AM 329 Views
Jesus. Elaine - 15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM 787 Views
It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM 792 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM 845 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM 722 Views
Re: It's looking up a bit SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM 745 Views
Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW! SilverWarder - 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM 800 Views
Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM* BlackAdder - 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM 346 Views
Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM 763 Views
oh wow, Mike, I'm sorry. That's aweful LaSombra - 18/03/2010 10:33:06 PM 726 Views
Thanks LS - we're working on it. SilverWarder - 23/03/2010 04:37:27 AM 712 Views
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