Active Users:208 Time:20/05/2024 02:43:43 PM
Eh, mine always are, somehow. Aemon Send a noteboard - 21/09/2010 02:06:08 PM
Ignoring the analogy, then, what I'm basically trying to say is that when you tell your friends you'll do something, you have a social obligation to stick it out for their sakes. Even if it doesn't go exactly as you thought it would. You can certainly break that obligation for more important matters, but most people wouldn't do so just because they "didn't feel like playing anymore," and that's why I was saying that LL felt like she had to stay. Your friends want to have fun and you told them you'd help, so you don't bail on them just to make yourself happier. That's how decent people operate. :P

As far as why anyone would "trap" themselves with social obligations for the sake of entertainment. . .well, why not? Entertainment is important to people. It's not trivial just because it's "for fun." The average person puts a lot of time and effort into entertainment.
Reply to message
/MMOs/rant: Dear Raid Leaders - 19/09/2010 04:06:20 AM 805 Views
I could see people not knowing Black Temple fights. That instance is from the old level cap. - 19/09/2010 06:24:21 PM 522 Views
I know, but look it up BEFORE you start. - 19/09/2010 06:44:56 PM 502 Views
Why keep playing if you aren't enjoying it? - 19/09/2010 07:28:20 PM 525 Views
There's a social obligation. - 19/09/2010 07:47:55 PM 534 Views
mostly this. few other reasons - 19/09/2010 10:04:15 PM 502 Views
It's a video game. People need to be understanding. - 20/09/2010 02:22:36 AM 522 Views
why not? people get annoyed when you don't show up for sports practices. - 20/09/2010 03:30:23 AM 489 Views
Fake world means real world wins. - 20/09/2010 03:49:39 PM 506 Views
Social obligations exist wherever socializing occurs. *NM* - 20/09/2010 04:41:53 AM 220 Views
That doesn't make them meaningful. *NM* - 20/09/2010 03:50:27 PM 225 Views
Well, you didn't specify meaningful. Even so, I don't understand the antagonism. - 21/09/2010 03:51:17 AM 583 Views
That is a bad analogy, yes. - 21/09/2010 04:54:38 AM 633 Views
Eh, mine always are, somehow. - 21/09/2010 02:06:08 PM 546 Views
This. Any sort of cooperative game will create social obligations somehow. *NM* - 26/09/2010 03:40:13 PM 269 Views
Only when it requires a huge time investment. - 26/09/2010 07:37:34 PM 476 Views
And I maintain that your face is stupid. *NM* - 27/09/2010 01:55:36 AM 318 Views
o u got meh brah *NM* - 27/09/2010 02:04:20 AM 215 Views
Dude. I've been "trapped by social obligations" for a text-based game. - 28/09/2010 10:13:44 PM 591 Views
Achaea is different. - 29/09/2010 02:16:19 AM 513 Views
Nah, you wouldn't have heard of it. - 29/09/2010 02:32:29 PM 422 Views
Actually most raids CAN be broken up. - 30/09/2010 06:34:00 PM 562 Views
That's why I always blamed it on an impromptu sex invitation. - 20/09/2010 03:48:11 AM 476 Views
Surprisingly...or maybe not so surprisingly - 20/09/2010 07:24:04 PM 652 Views
Re: Surprisingly...or maybe not so surprisingly - 21/09/2010 12:07:28 AM 527 Views
What about those who weren't on Vent? - 22/09/2010 08:05:33 PM 607 Views
everyone was at least signed into vent, even if they didn't have a mic. - 23/09/2010 05:54:22 AM 466 Views

Reply to Message