I could accept your assertion that your joke implying that men should not discuss feminism (without the guidance of women?) is not in your idea of feminism's Bailey, but we both know that for a lot of feminists, it is. For a few, it's even in the Motte.
..should absolutely discuss feminism.
Or I could have been saying, "Look at all these dudes discussing feminism! (hurrah!)" - I left it kind of open ended on purpose.
A lot of vocal feminists, yes, but I wouldn't say most. I like to think really that most are like me. I want equality of opportunity and true value placed on the jobs that women do. I don't think we are there yet, but are moving in the right direction (at least here). But that's probably an entirely different post