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You are hurting yourself Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 10/10/2017 02:24:29 PM

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I still can't feel like "cheating" on my dead wife is okay.

Is this a good thing? Or am I hurting myself?


But it's just a hurty situation all around. I'm sorry

Hugs.

I think this answers your original question, though, in an indirect way. At some point it won't feel like cheating on her anymore, because you'll have accepted that she's gone. But that's going to take time, because she was your wife and who you lived for for such a long time <3

If you are from Betelgeuse, please have one of your Earth friends read what I've written before you respond. Or try concentrating harder.

"The trophy problem has become extreme."
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