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You are hurting yourself Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 10/10/2017 02:24:29 PM

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I still can't feel like "cheating" on my dead wife is okay.

Is this a good thing? Or am I hurting myself?


But it's just a hurty situation all around. I'm sorry

Hugs.

I think this answers your original question, though, in an indirect way. At some point it won't feel like cheating on her anymore, because you'll have accepted that she's gone. But that's going to take time, because she was your wife and who you lived for for such a long time <3

If you are from Betelgeuse, please have one of your Earth friends read what I've written before you respond. Or try concentrating harder.

"The trophy problem has become extreme."
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Question for everyone here. - 10/10/2017 02:05:02 AM 1327 Views
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If I actually think and pay attention it makes sense - 10/10/2017 05:03:34 AM 773 Views
che fa? *NM* - 10/10/2017 05:10:32 AM 442 Views
I have a 7 am conference call. That's not good. *NM* - 10/10/2017 05:21:49 AM 433 Views
Listen to one song and then go to bed. - 10/10/2017 05:24:00 AM 1021 Views
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Now I lay me down to sleep forever by your side *NM* - 10/10/2017 05:37:23 AM 441 Views
I might as well stay up until my 7 am call. *NM* - 10/10/2017 07:22:33 AM 432 Views
No matter how drunk I get - 10/10/2017 07:44:05 AM 720 Views
You are hurting yourself - 10/10/2017 02:24:29 PM 865 Views
I don't think we can tell you that. - 10/10/2017 07:47:47 AM 890 Views
that doesn't help - 10/10/2017 07:56:15 AM 906 Views
I know. I'm sorry. - 10/10/2017 08:04:14 AM 825 Views
I really think - 10/10/2017 08:12:12 AM 867 Views
I'm not sure I agree with you. - 10/10/2017 08:52:11 AM 871 Views
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I'm so fucking drunk - 10/10/2017 08:26:27 AM 840 Views
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This. - 11/10/2017 01:56:14 PM 1044 Views
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