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You are hurting yourself Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 10/10/2017 02:24:29 PM

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I still can't feel like "cheating" on my dead wife is okay.

Is this a good thing? Or am I hurting myself?


But it's just a hurty situation all around. I'm sorry

Hugs.

I think this answers your original question, though, in an indirect way. At some point it won't feel like cheating on her anymore, because you'll have accepted that she's gone. But that's going to take time, because she was your wife and who you lived for for such a long time <3

If you are from Betelgeuse, please have one of your Earth friends read what I've written before you respond. Or try concentrating harder.

"The trophy problem has become extreme."
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Question for everyone here. - 10/10/2017 02:05:02 AM 1294 Views
I'd say you've waited quite some time - 10/10/2017 03:57:11 AM 794 Views
LOL - 10/10/2017 04:01:45 AM 787 Views
This is such a difficult question! - 10/10/2017 04:05:31 AM 862 Views
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I do understand. - 10/10/2017 01:26:26 PM 844 Views
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I agree with everything Joe said. - 10/10/2017 03:10:30 PM 778 Views
I agree. *NM* - 10/10/2017 12:55:19 PM 403 Views
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Does she have sympathy for a lonely old man? - 10/10/2017 04:46:47 AM 789 Views
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NSSP .bullshit *NM* - 10/10/2017 04:48:39 AM 475 Views
If I actually think and pay attention it makes sense - 10/10/2017 05:03:34 AM 736 Views
che fa? *NM* - 10/10/2017 05:10:32 AM 411 Views
I have a 7 am conference call. That's not good. *NM* - 10/10/2017 05:21:49 AM 414 Views
Listen to one song and then go to bed. - 10/10/2017 05:24:00 AM 976 Views
This one is better - 10/10/2017 05:34:45 AM 917 Views
Now I lay me down to sleep forever by your side *NM* - 10/10/2017 05:37:23 AM 421 Views
I might as well stay up until my 7 am call. *NM* - 10/10/2017 07:22:33 AM 414 Views
No matter how drunk I get - 10/10/2017 07:44:05 AM 686 Views
You are hurting yourself - 10/10/2017 02:24:29 PM 832 Views
I don't think we can tell you that. - 10/10/2017 07:47:47 AM 851 Views
that doesn't help - 10/10/2017 07:56:15 AM 837 Views
I know. I'm sorry. - 10/10/2017 08:04:14 AM 790 Views
I really think - 10/10/2017 08:12:12 AM 828 Views
I'm not sure I agree with you. - 10/10/2017 08:52:11 AM 832 Views
What nossy said^^ - 10/10/2017 02:39:17 PM 845 Views
I'm so fucking drunk - 10/10/2017 08:26:27 AM 803 Views
Damn! I wish I'd seen this last night! - 10/10/2017 12:56:00 PM 741 Views
*NM* - 10/10/2017 01:15:02 PM 431 Views
Next time you're drunk - 10/10/2017 03:11:39 PM 801 Views
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You don't have to appologize.... - 10/10/2017 09:22:39 PM 995 Views
we all have our moments and you have more excuse than most - 11/10/2017 01:58:25 PM 913 Views
Yes, I agree - 11/10/2017 02:08:45 PM 852 Views
Right or wrong, you shouldn't do anything significant for at least a year after something like that - 11/10/2017 05:06:29 AM 1026 Views
This. - 11/10/2017 01:56:14 PM 1010 Views
It isn't about what your wife would want, it is about how you feel. - 12/10/2017 04:32:43 PM 723 Views

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