Even though we had 24/7 caregiver as a live in so he could remain in his house, he swore he was at a nursing home was furious with my brother and me for not taking him home. He also kept insisting he wanted his keys back so he could go out in his car long after we got rid of it.
Bottom line: sometimes they leave you no choice.
You have my sympathy.
		Mook
*MySmiley*
"Bustin' makes me feel good!"
Ghostbusters, by Ray Parker Jr.
	
	
	
	
	
*MySmiley*
"Bustin' makes me feel good!"
Ghostbusters, by Ray Parker Jr.
			So... when do you take over for a parent?
	    
	         - 24/07/2018 10:15:44 PM
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			Yeah the downside is what you said about her driving.
	    
	         - 24/07/2018 10:29:59 PM
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			A big problem is the paranoia
	    
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			My dad got really bad before he passed.
		
	         - 25/07/2018 04:11:40 PM
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			Yeah... banks and collection companies are assholes in those cases.
	    
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			Re: Yeah... banks and collection companies are assholes in those cases.
	    
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			Re: Yeah... banks and collection companies are assholes in those cases.
	    
	         - 25/07/2018 10:46:51 PM
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			I use checks from time to time
	    
	         - 26/07/2018 12:39:51 PM
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			Anyone can have a credit card machine.  It's a small plastic square you plug into your iphone.
	    
	         - 26/07/2018 03:22:29 PM
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			The last check I wrote was $45 to the 14yo who mows the front part of a piece of property I own
	    
	         - 27/07/2018 02:16:23 PM
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			He'd have texted his bank account number, and I'd have sent a bank transfer. *NM*
	    
	         - 27/07/2018 05:14:50 PM
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			I would take a different approach with the collection company
	    
	         - 25/07/2018 11:14:43 PM
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			Well I know I don't want to pay a lawyer.
	    
	         - 27/07/2018 02:27:49 PM
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			I'm not suggesting that
	    
	         - 27/07/2018 05:50:08 PM
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			As soneone who ran a debt collection agency for about 6 years...
	    
	         - 28/07/2018 05:38:20 PM
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			Did you ever break anyone's thumbs?  *NM*
	    
	         - 31/07/2018 04:45:41 AM
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	         - 31/07/2018 04:45:41 AM
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	         - 31/07/2018 04:45:41 AM
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			Yeah but off the clock and she begged for more :p *NM*
	    
	         - 31/07/2018 04:49:20 AM
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			Liar. Only two thumbs. Unless she begged you to break someone else’s thumbs...  *NM*
	    
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