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Re: This is assuming of course... Camilla Send a noteboard - 08/04/2010 03:30:33 PM
I got them for him. He read the first book in two evenings. And the second one the next two. He is 9 now. Will be 10 in a few months. I think you need to let kids explore their limits. He said he may wait to read the next one.


that kids know what it is to recognize a limit and not cross it. Even crossing that limit once can be destructive.

Take the example of kids eating too much Halloween candy. They get sick, the puke up all over themselves, and they are miserable. So if the next day is a school day...you make them get up, and you make them go. You can always point out "I told you not to eat so much...." but well they didn't listen.

Now replace candy with heroin or meth. The aftermath is hardly so innocent and the chance of a repeat is that much worse.

Now I'm not saying that the HP books are the literary equivilent to meth. I'm just pointing out recognizing a limit and pointing it out may be the better option.

~Jeordam


It may also backfire.
My mother told me not to read some books when I was a kid. Now some of them I read anyway, and I didn't understand them. It didn't affect me adversely to have read them, though, because a quick re-read fixed that a few years later. But I still haven't read some of the ones that she told me not to read, in part because a part of me still thinks it is 9 years old. Now, I may be special, but I don't think a book can actually break a kid's brain.
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Harry Potter (the entire series) Jeordam - 06/04/2010 11:00:07 PM 2146 Views
Re: Harry Potter (the entire series) QueenOfAndor - 06/04/2010 11:29:49 PM 1384 Views
Really? Jeordam - 07/04/2010 05:41:46 PM 1484 Views
I honestly think it's a combination of the two beetnemesis - 07/04/2010 05:55:18 PM 1318 Views
I'll give you that.... Jeordam - 07/04/2010 06:11:27 PM 1377 Views
It does seem logical that the series gets more teenager-oriented as Harry grows older. Legolas - 07/04/2010 06:47:57 PM 1338 Views
Yeah, I believe she's explicitly said she did that on purpose beetnemesis - 10/04/2010 08:24:47 PM 1284 Views
Um...you forgot a book. aria - 06/04/2010 11:37:27 PM 1420 Views
My bad...much thanks for reminding me. Jeordam - 07/04/2010 05:43:53 PM 1381 Views
Re: Harry Potter (the entire series) DomA - 07/04/2010 12:26:22 AM 1705 Views
I get where you're coming from Jeordam - 07/04/2010 06:19:13 PM 1462 Views
That's kind of the point though... fionwe1987 - 07/04/2010 08:44:26 PM 1375 Views
This is how I see it too DomA - 08/04/2010 12:43:03 AM 1523 Views
just a comment about your rich=bad LadyLorraine - 08/04/2010 02:05:32 AM 1481 Views
Re: just a comment about your rich=bad DomA - 08/04/2010 05:58:13 PM 1484 Views
it was a bit black and white... LadyLorraine - 08/04/2010 08:48:05 PM 1284 Views
I agree with many of your points. Legolas - 07/04/2010 12:44:31 AM 1590 Views
I have to dispute the concept of going "too far." Ghavrel - 07/04/2010 06:32:47 AM 1329 Views
Hm, I don't know. Legolas - 07/04/2010 11:08:12 AM 1381 Views
This is a lot like the argument I'm having with Joel on the CMB concerning original sin. Ghavrel - 08/04/2010 07:21:39 AM 1307 Views
Where is this debate? I'd like to read it. Jeordam - 08/04/2010 05:18:38 PM 1979 Views
I should have put "debate" in quotes. It's about four sentences long. Ghavrel - 08/04/2010 10:32:43 PM 1301 Views
I agree entirely about Snape *NM* Camilla - 07/04/2010 11:50:00 AM 674 Views
More conversation on Snape. Jeordam - 07/04/2010 06:01:37 PM 1660 Views
His death wasn't very spectacular, but he did play an essential role... Legolas - 07/04/2010 06:45:58 PM 1532 Views
Brief comments on Magic, Dumbledore, and The Epilogue. Aemon - 07/04/2010 07:13:55 AM 1684 Views
Re: Brief comments on Magic, Dumbledore, and The Epilogue. Jeordam - 07/04/2010 06:09:20 PM 1527 Views
The movies are even worse about this. beetnemesis - 07/04/2010 06:15:35 PM 1386 Views
Hmmm.... Jeordam - 07/04/2010 06:21:40 PM 1359 Views
Oh, that's definitely why they did it beetnemesis - 09/04/2010 06:44:50 AM 1689 Views
how many high school relationships... LadyLorraine - 08/04/2010 02:13:48 AM 1352 Views
Death doesn't actually happen in slow-motion fit for the cinema screen. Ghavrel - 08/04/2010 07:24:31 AM 1349 Views
Re: Death doesn't actually happen in slow-motion fit for the cinema screen. Camilla - 08/04/2010 03:27:09 PM 1368 Views
Re: Brief comments on Magic, Dumbledore, and The Epilogue. Camilla - 08/04/2010 03:25:38 PM 1500 Views
Harry Potter and Star Wars have two radically different approaches to this beetnemesis - 07/04/2010 06:13:25 PM 1620 Views
When my son asked for his own set of Harry Potter books, Beqi - 07/04/2010 10:26:37 PM 1404 Views
This is assuming of course... Jeordam - 07/04/2010 11:00:15 PM 1455 Views
yes, that's where parenting gets "complicated" LadyLorraine - 08/04/2010 02:16:06 AM 1362 Views
You are taking this a bit extreme I feel. Beqi - 08/04/2010 08:51:34 AM 1318 Views
I agree. *NM* RugbyPlayingAshaman - 08/04/2010 06:11:06 PM 607 Views
Re: This is assuming of course... Camilla - 08/04/2010 03:30:33 PM 1510 Views
I am the same way with a few books. Beqi - 08/04/2010 08:05:04 PM 1372 Views
I was most irritated by the ironic names Tom - 08/04/2010 05:38:59 AM 1489 Views
Re: I was most irritated by the ironic names TaskmasterJack - 08/04/2010 10:07:40 PM 1898 Views
Sheriff Lobo wasn't a werewolf, either, and Bear wasn't a bear. Tom - 09/04/2010 12:47:48 AM 1292 Views
Exactly - it's not as obvious if you're a kid, then it seems clever and it's fun to decode. Legolas - 09/04/2010 01:04:11 AM 1446 Views
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